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I don't believe pretty women with breasts make good wives!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, There's a song that goes "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.." Homely women aren't as sought after and they're not as likely to cheat on a husband or boyfriend. It so...
A. 2 December 2009: You simply cannot generalize that way. Many beautiful women are wonderful, faithful wives. My former wife was super hot and faithful to me for 20 years, and the final demise was over financial issues, not the fact that she attracted every natural ... (read in full...)
I want to please my girl but I don't know how
Q. Helloo, wondered if I could get some tips on something: i'm going to finger my girlfriend next time she comes round mine (if she's comfortable with it of course) but i've never fingered someone before, so i'm slightly nervous.. She is a virgin (as ...
A. 2 December 2009: Well, if you're not going to insert, then you're not really "fingering her," and that's okay. Think of it more as fondling or sexual massage. We in America used to call it petting. It certainly raises sexual tension for both of you, and can possibly ... (read in full...)
I can't get me a man and I don't know why
Q. okey! I need help for this one , I can't get a boyfriend!! I don't know what should I do to make guys want to be in a relationship with me .. the thing is that boys see me in a sexual way, I don't know maybe I send them wrong messages but I don't ...
A. 2 December 2009: Lexie88 provided great advice. You deserve respect and a boyfriend who will give it. Do not be in a hurry.... (read in full...)
Oral sex and aging...will it still be as good?
Q. Help I LOVE oral sex but am concerned that being an older woman it just wont be as good HELP ANY ADVICE ?...
A. 1 December 2009: Why not? Some older women, such as in their 60s, have the best (sometimes first) orgasms in life from cunnilingus. And as a man in my 60s, I can tell you the blow jobs they return, if they do it with enthusiasm, still rock my world! Be assured that ... (read in full...)
Our relationship was a fake relationship
Q. I've known this guy for 4-5 yrs.We've fooled around on and off the whole time.I got married and during that time that guy told me he loved me etc.I got divorced (not cos of him though).We fooled around for awhile and disappeared - everytime it ...
A. 1 December 2009: Possibly he throws in the "I love yous" because he thinks that's what you want to hear (as many women do), but does he really mean it? I think not, and he just says that to get the sex. He may certainly care a great deal about you, like you and all ... (read in full...)
Kissing (and sleeping) Cousins, what if the family finds out?
Q. Me and my second cousin are 17 we fell in love in secret, slept together in secret i also found out i was pregnant but we had a miscarriage, our family would go crazy at us he said he dosent care as long as he's with me but i cant help but be very ...
A. 1 December 2009: Well, being second cousins is batter than being first cousins involved, and may even reduce the likelihood of birth defects if ever there are children, although your initial experience of miscarriage may be a warning. ... (read in full...)
Our relationship was a fake relationship
Q. I've known this guy for 4-5 yrs.We've fooled around on and off the whole time.I got married and during that time that guy told me he loved me etc.I got divorced (not cos of him though).We fooled around for awhile and disappeared - everytime it ...
A. 1 December 2009: It's just sex.... (read in full...)
Best positions for full penetration??
Q. I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfrnd for 5 months. Yesterday we had intercourse but only half of his penis penetrated me even although I was lubricated enough. I want to know the reason behind this and why he couldn't penetrate ...
A. 1 December 2009: Basically, the doggie-position offers the deepest penetration, in my opinion, but there is one variation of that position which permits slightly more insertion. This issue should not really be of much concern to you after your first or early ... (read in full...)
Why is there no smell to his semen
Q. My boyfriends semen doesnt smell like anything. He says he smells it and it smells disgusting but when i smell it it doesnt smell like anything why is that? beause i smell my own and its stinks but how come i cant smell his?...
A. 1 December 2009: Do you mean that is has no aroma at all? If you are consuming it on a regular basis, his sperm becomes part of you. Then you may simply not notice. The flavor should also occasionally change depending on his foods and drinks, which I think would ... (read in full...)
His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?
Q. This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...
A. 1 December 2009: Some women are quite satisfied in relationships with clitoral orgasms, such as provided by oral and G-spot stimulation. Some others may enjoy that as well, but also desire the satisfying feeling they receive by having a good size erection filling ... (read in full...)
What do guys like to have done to them?
Q. What do guys like to have done to them?...
A. 30 November 2009: Winning a multi-million dollar lottery would be nice.... (read in full...)
I know guys do, but do girls cum too?
Q. Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...
A. 30 November 2009: As I said, most girls do not ejaculate a lot of fluid during orgasm, but they do get very wet with natural lubricant. When a woman orgasms, there is typically some semen-like fluid released, but it is usually minimal and goes unnoticed. Why is this ... (read in full...)
Could someone help me on a couple sex questions?
Q. i would like to know the chances of getting pregnant if the male has had a std for more then 2 months. i dont know all the details because i am doing this for my friend. but i would also like to know how do you know if you are allergic to a condom?...
A. 30 November 2009: Having a sexually transmitted disease on the part of the male does not necessarily prevent the possibility of impregnating a female.... (read in full...)
Sex existed before religion, and is the reason for relationships
Q. Relationship is problem, perhaps most fatal problem. All destructive event like murder to suicide occur from bad terms of relations. It is also true that men cannot live without relating with something or with someone. So, it is quite necessary to ...
A. 30 November 2009: My comment is intended to help, not hurt. The Tantric teachings are based on thousands of years of wisdom and should be shared, which to some degree I have tried to do here for more than two years. It is simply that for you to express your thoughts ... (read in full...)
What do men experience during their 'first time'? How can I help him?
Q. I have a boyfriend who is a year younger than i am. He is 18 and i am ninteen. We have been together for a year and half now and he wants to lose his virginity with me. I am not a virgin, but i really dont know how will i "guide him." We have talked ...
A. 30 November 2009: In my experience, which was 48 years ago, I recall feeling anxious, excited, insecure, uncertain and nervous. So anything that you can do to relieve some of those pressures of doubt might help.
My age was 14, and she was 15, but she was expe... (read in full...)
How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!
Q. I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal ...
A. 30 November 2009: If you are consenting, then it cannot be considered rape.... (read in full...)
Is it possible that my husband is gay?
Q. I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A ...
A. 30 November 2009: Have you been having sexual relations? If not, he could be impotent, among some other possibilities.... (read in full...)
Sex existed before religion, and is the reason for relationships
Q. Relationship is problem, perhaps most fatal problem. All destructive event like murder to suicide occur from bad terms of relations. It is also true that men cannot live without relating with something or with someone. So, it is quite necessary to ...
A. 29 November 2009: After trying to read two of your postings, may I suggest that your wording, spelling and syntax are very difficult to comprehend. Sorry, because I'm quite aware of the wisdom involved with Kama Sutra, but your spelling is incomplete and possibly ... (read in full...)
My husband has gone impotent...what happened?
Q. Do some man goes impotent without any cause? Is there always a cause? My husband is 48, and he is impotent, he went to doctors,they didn't find anything wrong with him. They just say, oh every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40 s.Well, I can't ...
A. 29 November 2009: It is not at all true that "every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40s," but as an active man in my 60s, I agree with "CaringGuy" and "satindesire" that some factors can cause the problem of erectile dysfunction. Most notable, in my opinion, are ... (read in full...)
How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?
Q. I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...
A. 29 November 2009: Well granted, I'm a much older man, and I don't know when or why all this hair removal began. Having experienced both hairy and bald (younger) vulvas, I think I prefer at least a fair amount of pubic hair. After all, it's natural, but trimmed is a ... (read in full...)
I just want to make her feel good!
Q. Latly my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Latly we have been dong this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really ...
A. 29 November 2009: Yes, she could possibly orgasm that way because she is essentially rubbing her clitoris against your leg. Her pleasure center is primarily the clitoris, not the vagina. ... (read in full...)
I hurt when I pee...how can I prevent this?
Q. I'm seventeen and have sex with my boyfriend who's 19 I hurt alot when I pee and I always have utis what can I do to prevent this ??. ...
A. 29 November 2009: Not much information was provided, but this could indicate a yeast infection. See a gynecologist. ... (read in full...)
Who "popped the cherry"
Q. hi everyone...I have sort of a dumb question to ask but here it goes. Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend had sex, I'm not a virgin and neither is he. I'll explain more. My first time was over the summer, after a few times..more then a few; ...
A. 29 November 2009: Well the first guy took your virginity by repeated penetration. The other guy, if much larger, may have caused some bleeding, but what is your question? Nevertheless, intercourse should not hurt you. ... (read in full...)
Used for sex - what do I do?
Q. hi, im 19yrs old and i met this guy on campus. at first i jus liked him as a friend untill we started going out often,then kissing and touching alot. i developed feelings for him. he gave me signs that he liked me back and told me that i could be is ...
A. 29 November 2009: Yes, I think you were "played" - used for sex, and that is apparently all he wanted. Now, if he can string you along just enough to keep you around for occasional sex with him, then you have become an honored member of his harem. Well I did that ... (read in full...)
I know guys do, but do girls cum too?
Q. Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...
A. 29 November 2009: Kind of a mixed bag of responses. As "old-spinstah" noted, it depends on what you mean by "cum." Some girls actually do squirt a significant amount of a clear, semen-like substance, but most do not. Nevertheless, I know that many women, if not most, ... (read in full...)
How do I act when my girlfriend gives me a blow job?
Q. My girlfriend wants to give me head or bj (i think there the same thing but whatever) because she wants to make me "happy" and she is persitant about it so when she does how am i suppose to react?...
A. 29 November 2009: Yeah, I agree with others that it will come quite naturally. If she knows what she's doing and you don't mind cumming in her mouth, if that's what she wants, then you will likely have one of the biggest orgasms of your life thus far. The reason is ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my girlfriend now she wants to video us having sex...
Q. My Girlfriend has been insisting on to video tape us having sex....I refused. She is kind of mad now. Yeah I asked her why....she said just for memory. I didnt buy that idea. After a couple of months or years I might be on porn sites. pls if u have ...
A. 29 November 2009: Well as you know, or perhaps soon will, girlfriends will likely come and go in your life. Women have a tendency to get what they want, one way or another. One example: A previous girlfriend once asked me to let one of her girlfriends give me head ... (read in full...)
I'm tormented by the fact that she's had a 'bigger' man than I
Q. My girlfriend has just recently told me (because my dum ass ask) that she was with a guy so thick she felt pain and once had to see the doctor. to me is like (lucky bastard) i guess i think that's like every man's dream to be able to just do that to ...
A. 28 November 2009: First of all, she's with YOU now, not him. Out of sight, out of mind.
And being big enough to hurt a girl, or even to make her uncomfortable, is not a good thing. I'm just a tad larger than what is considered about average, and was still turned down... (read in full...)
Porn and masturbation addiction... Desperately need help.
Q. I desperately need help. I would say I am addicted to watching porn and masturbating. I am a relationship for 2 years and we do have sex, sometimes amazing and sometimes dull. She makes love the way I want but not always and not everything that I ...
A. 28 November 2009: Porn addiction can be a reality. We would think that any man or woman with a partner would not be quite so susceptible to such outside influence or need, but I think it's wide and easy availability can be overwhelming and ruinous to relationships.
T... (read in full...)
How can I stop this self-biting?
Q. I have a problem with self biting. Like I overly bite my lip and the inside of my cheek. I also contastly need to pull at the skin around my nails and my finger's are litterly raw from the fact that i pulled off all the skin. IDK what to do, idk why ...
A. 28 November 2009: You are extremely troubled, stressed or anxious, in my opinion. Most of us experience those strong emotions at some point in life, and for some, it can result in such activities as nail biting, teeth grinding and chewing/biting the lips, etc. The ... (read in full...)
Why are bigger breasts better?
Q. I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce ...
A. 28 November 2009: Well, my vote here is that larger simply does not matter. In fact, my preference is for small to medium size for one reason: Usually more pronounced nipples. While not the most important thing, I enjoy sucking nipples that become hard and erect when ... (read in full...)
Can people of different social class date?
Q. So for the past few weeks I have been talking to this extremely good looking guy in my sociology class. The other day I missed class to study for my criminal justice test and the following class he asked me why I was away. I told him the reason, he ...
A. 28 November 2009: This is unnecessary to worry about unless it becomes an issue, and if it turns out to be an issue with him, then you shouldn't want any more to do with him, because he's shallow. ... (read in full...)
Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more l...
A. 27 November 2009: Generalizations are unfair and usually inaccurate, but I think it is true that a larger percentage of young women are more sexually active than a generation or more ago. My generation, during the 1960s-1970s, was probably more sexually adventurous ... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to kiss her, to turn her on?
Q. Can someone please tell me some places that I should touch or kiss my girl to arouse her the most?...
A. 27 November 2009: Anywhere on her body, beginning with neck down.... (read in full...)
I physically can't seem to have an orgasm... any suggestions?
Q. I have never had an orgasm before in my life i have had 6 partners but they can ever seem to make me cum. the only time i have is when i do it myself but its my clit that sets it off. i need answers i feel like the only one in the world with this ...
A. 27 November 2009: In order to climax with a man, you just need a guy experienced in providing oral stimulation, and ideally accompanied by skillful G-spot massage. I'll describe the techniques once again, since it has been awhile. The mood and setting needs to be ri... (read in full...)
What type of skin colour do girls prefer?
Q. hi. my skin colour is quite fair comparing to the people of my country. recently i read two women's interview in newspaper and they both said they will prefere less fair skin coloured guys. my cousin also says like that. here in , south asian ...
A. 26 November 2009: I'm a white American with some American Indian in me, but think little about such things as skin color. I have loved or at least treasured women of Asian, Filipino, American Indian, Mexican, Italian and many of European descent. None of that (skin ... (read in full...)
I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!
Q. Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first ...
A. 26 November 2009: Happy Thanksgiving to you, fellow American. I'm just going to sleep until the football games begin. Go Cowboys!... (read in full...)
Does a boy feel pain when breaking a girl's hymen?
Q. hey i got a quick question, when a virgin girl and a non-virgin boy have sex does the boy feel any kind of pain breaking her hymen? When i lost my virginity to my boyfriend he told me that he felt pain too. What do they actually feel?...
A. 26 November 2009: It would be very unusual. Generally, no.... (read in full...)
After having an affair with a married man for 18 years he has finally left his wife, but now he is seeing another younger woman!
Q. i have been having an affair with a married man for 18 years. he and his wife of 28 years have just filed for a divorce. i didn't encouage him in fact i told him to rethink and try an make up with his spouse. he sais that its too late and that its ...
A. 26 November 2009: A leopard never changes it's spots.... (read in full...)
I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!
Q. Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first ...
A. 26 November 2009: Well I think that you are now cautious enough. Sure, give it a chance on neutral territory, such as at a restaurant or less advisable, a bar. He still requires more than a couple of meetings before you take him to your home.... (read in full...)
Why aren't you girls sexually protecting yourselves?
Q. This isn't directed to any asker in particular, but I am becoming increasingly concerned, and unfortantely, though I try to withold judgment, I do experience anger, in both my personal life and with askers on the site, who are both aware of ...
A. 26 November 2009: Okay a few more comments from the old man. First of all, you can simply ditch the idea that all young girls are going to suddenly become wise and cautious in every way sexually - it just ain't going to happen.
And you can throw out any pres... (read in full...)
I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!
Q. Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first ...
A. 26 November 2009: Yes, it sounds like a guy looking for action (sexual) and a probable one-night or one-weekend stand. Too bad, since you think he is cute, but not all guys are such cads.
"CaringGuy" offers some basic good advice, and as an older man also back into... (read in full...)
Why aren't you girls sexually protecting yourselves?
Q. This isn't directed to any asker in particular, but I am becoming increasingly concerned, and unfortantely, though I try to withold judgment, I do experience anger, in both my personal life and with askers on the site, who are both aware of ...
A. 25 November 2009: Well I agree with you, from a man's point of view. Most of my experience is from years ago, but at least most girls were on "the pill" back then, or said that they were. And there was not nearly so much threat of sexually-transmitted disease in the ... (read in full...)
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