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writes:My Girlfriend has been insisting on to video tape us having sex....I refused. She is kind of mad now. Yeah I asked her why....she said just for memory. I didnt buy that idea. After a couple of months or years I might be on porn sites. pls if u have the same experience share?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): She wants to trap you. It's a TRAP.
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reader, yussuf  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 If you do not want to make a sex tape you should not venture. i really like how you're handelingg it because not every guy would have said "NO" to that, regardless of how they felt. So be a man and continue to NUT-UP about it, if she's really there for you she'll respect your feelings and wait until you feel comfortable enough to try such an act. I bet if it was her in you shoes she'll expect you to respect he feelings also.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Well as you know, or perhaps soon will, girlfriends will likely come and go in your life. Women have a tendency to get what they want, one way or another. One example: A previous girlfriend once asked me to let one of her girlfriends give me head while she watched. I refused, so they soon after found another guy to comply for both of them. Naturally, I found out and we broke up over it.
While I certainly admire your integrity, your girlfriend may end up making a video with someone else if she is determined to do it. One alternative may be to carefully keep your face out of the picture much like many of the guys in porn videos. You never see who they are, or anything that would identify them.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 It would seem that this would be more of a concern for girls than boys.
You could always make it a condition that you edit the file first and give it back to her. That way you can make sure that your face doesn't appear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Stand your ground. I wouldn't want my parts bobbling everywhere on screen, lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): How long have you been together? If you don't trust her, why are you even with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): I'm gonna have to agree with the rest here, DON'T DO IT!
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reader, MissKin +, writes (28 November 2009):
 I wouldn't do it if i didn't want to. You said no, she shud shut up about it. what if it was the other way around and she REALLY didn't want to do it and you kepton about it? It works both ways. just refuse to do it - especially if it makes u uncomfortable. u don't need a video to remember things that are supposed to be special. x
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reader, mr motivator +, writes (28 November 2009):
Soon2b PPD - im guessing your video made it onto the internet?
Same as all things sexual, dont let anyone tell you what you want to do.
Because only you know whats right for you
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reader, Soon2B_PPD +, writes (28 November 2009):
On october 25th 2009 I made a video with a guy and I semi trust him. I have regretted it every since. Don't do it if you don't want to.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (28 November 2009):
 Don't trust her.. and she is too insistent on a video that you feel uncomfortable about.. Don't do it.. She will have to learn to respect that you like your privacy, or you will have to leave because she dosen't sound like she respects your feelings at all. Your the man, just so NO, and threaten to leave if she asks again. Sex video's are not common, and they involve a lot of trust and a long time in a relationship before you do that. Pictures of you and her fully dressed having fun should be enough, and if they are not, well, sorry but this girl is not for you. Respect yourself, and stand up for your morality, and in the long run you will be proud you did. This conversation is ended, you said NO and she should respect you.
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