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26-29,
*non-xo
writes:Recently I have started masturbating, but I've never been able to cum (even though sex). I always get to just before my climax but then get to scared to release, as it feels like I'm going to wet myself, which makes me feel awkward then the climax is gone. How do I get over this feeling, and know that its safe? so to speak, I don't want to just go for it and then realise that I actually have wet myself... HELP?! Reply to this Question
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reader, Youngnwild  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 Try it in d bath and see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): The feeling that you're going to pee is normal, and is actually one of the first things I noticed when I started masturbating when I was younger than you, but trust me, you're not going to wet yourself.
If it makes you feel more comfortable why not try masturbating in the bath? Although chances are you won't pee, it may make you feel a bit more reassured that if you did somehow pee, it wouldn't matter as much because its going down the drain anyway..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Do it in a bathtub and see what happens. That's the only way to find out if this what you do. If this will be the case, because some women do it, not all the time but sometimes it happens, may be it s even worth talking to a doctor. Don't worry, it's not that big of a deal. You are verybyoung and exploring your body, you ll be fine:)
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 I would put something bed cover water proof kinds and continue to masterbate until release. This way I would know how it feels and what's go happen when release occurs. Some men and women have some fluid like urine if not urine similar that happens when orgasms happens. Its nothing wrong with going all the way. It's best you do it alone instead of with lover and be embarrassed. Hope it happens. Hope this helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Well, you say yourself that you've just started masturbating. Experiment a bit, touch yourself in different areas, at different angles, etc., etc. If you're really worried about wetting yourself, consider where you are when you're masturbating - perhaps try it in the bath, or whilst showering, or something along those lines.
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