A
female
age
30-35,
*ULIE MIKE
writes: HEY GUYS my problem is every guy i meet wants sex. not even one wants to have a relationship and am wondering am i the one attracting those type of guys. am pretty and all but i dont understand why evry one i meet be it anywhere its only sex and it pisses me of i have never been loose so what do i change or what do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 September 2012):
Do you have any male friends? I would ask them if there is something about the way you present yourself to the world that attracts those types of men looking for sex only.
If you don't have any male friends, I would ask your girl friends if they have any suggestions as to why this is happening.
The thing is that you will need to be open to the advice or criticism that you will hear about the way you present yourself. It may not feel good or nice.
Perhaps you are looking in the wrong places, such as bars or night clubs? Change your scenery and change where you meet men. Ask your friends to introduce you to their male friends who are good guys. Tell your family that you are looking for a relationship with a good guy. Network like you are looking for a job and put your friends and family to work for you to help locate a good man.
Without more information, I can't offer much more advice than this, sorry! Good luck!
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