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male
age
26-29,
*kypie
writes:I'm a 15 year old bi guy who is so confused.I'm bi, but really want a wife and kids, but I can't ignore the fact I also like guys.There's this guy, he's actually really good looking, he's smart and a Rugby player, he's my dream guy. But he's 18, and while he is gay, he is close friends with my older brother, and he used to be quite a whore, he doesn't have any idea how many guys he has slept with in total, he admits sometimes he used to sleep with 5 a week.Also, he used to be quite horrible to me up until about 2 years ago. But he says he's changed, he stopped being horrible to me as I said about 2 years ago, and for about a year now has been seeking forgiveness. Then recently he was going to big extremes to win my forgiveness, buying me expensive gifts, helping out friends with financial problems etc by just giving them money, and now he's admitted he's attracted to me to.He had been going steady with a guy for a few months but broke up with him and told the guy that the reason he was breaking up with him was because of me because he loved me and it wasn't fair on this other guy because his heart was somewhere else.I just don't know whether to go for it or not.On one hand, he used to be very mean to me, and was a bit of a whore.But then on the other, I do have a big crush on him, and he has gone out of his way to seek forgiveness, doesn't seem to be a whore anymore, and it was really sweet of him to break up with a guy because he loved me, and showed maturity as he didn't lead the guy on or give him false hope, he was honest.So what do you think, give dating him a go or not?
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reader, Plumb  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 Well being bi is liking both women and men so it's normal for you to want one more then the other or just both, but you have so much time to be thinking of these things and one day you'll be at a stage with someone either it be a man or women, and have already decided what you want for your life.
on the other hand, this guy that is trying to pursue your love with all of these things. In my opinon i'd probably string it out a bit longer, Only because you said he used to be a bit of a whore. That says alot about the guy you want to date. I can't decide for you to date him or not, Id have to know a little bit more about him to answer that. But i do wish you good luck:)
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