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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I started texting this girl I seen around college. We been flirting a bit by text and would txt nearly everyday although the conversations weren't exactly exciting after the initial 2-3weeks, now its been over a month. We have met up with other friends around, nothing too long. Last week a few disruptions happened at home which completely occupied me for a few days which resulted in me not talking to her much. After a day of not talking much she sent me messages asking if I'm okay and if she can help me. I said I'm really annoyed, angry and stressed about family members and she replied "you can take it out on me, it's okay Im here for you". It was nice of her but at the time, girls was the last thing on my mind.Anyway I text her few days later, she said she wanted to meet me and calls me cute at times.I asked her what she fancied doing, I said we can go out for drinks or go see a film etc. she said she doesn't mind, she doesn't mind just drinking at mine and getting drunk.To which I was thinking okay cool, how am I going to take her home, just as I was thinking she said 'sounds like I'll be staying the night?'Convo ended on a good note, my question is what exactly is she after?Does she want to date? Sex? At the start I was thinking film n food, or drink and chat but she wants to stay over?Are you thinking what I'm thinking?Just thought I'd share to see what your girls/ladies think? Outcome: Saturday night she's staying at mine
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 I think she fancies you, wants a relationship and thinks getting drunk and having sex or going along with whatever else you might want is the way to do it. She's trying to bribe your affection instead of earning it the old fashioned way.
Caveat: this type of girl is not confident enough to be completely honest with you. She'll say and do all the things she thinks you like and convince you that she likes them too until she gets fed up. Then she'll be vulnerable to whatever flattery she gets from another guy. When that happens you won't see it coming. Potential headache here.
I could be wrong.
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