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writes:How can we make time for each other in our relationship?you think after 11 months we'd have this thing down but we don't. last year we saw each other every other day and were ok now we are in our junior year of college and this is a hard year for my gf she says she has a lot of homework and is really busy. We agreed that I need to give her space for that and to hang with other friends but, lately we have only been seeing each other once or twice a week and even with that haven't really gotten to talk much. I suggested an every other day kind of thing but idk if that will work we haven't followed it yet. If you have any other ideas they would be greatly appreciated thanks. (Btw I'm going to talk to her wednesday about if this is gonna be like this the whole year or just this semester). We have talked twice about how we need to improve from summer as well she told me she wants to have her own life and that texting her every other day was too much. I got angry with her one week when we didn't talk at all and she was just hanging with other people and couldn't make a little bit of time for me and it was when i needed to talk about my grandmas cancer. This year she said she doesn't like the physical part of the relationship the farthest we have gone is making out and now she barely hugs me or kisses me good bye I remember though that she is tired and under alot of stress but when she goes out to the bar and drinks with friends and other guys it concerns me. I've told her that i would change in giving her space and looking past the physical part of our relationship. I'm not asking her to change but I'm hoping once all of this stress and homework is out of the way maybe she'll go back to her old self. (this upcoming summer if we are still together I have decided on not making any effort to call or text her to give her the space she wants).
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 September 2012):
 sweetie, if texting her every other day over the SUMMER is too much, she's using school as an excuse to ease out of the relationship...
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