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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I met this guy recently at hard rock cafe. In fact, i met this bunch of guys.Let me start from the beginning. My friend and i went to HRC on the weekend...we were just having some fun and chilling. My friend got a bit tipsy and i was trying not to drink too much coz i did not want both of us to get sloshed. She struck up a conversation with a group of guys two hours into the evening and chatted them up. I realised that they were all army kids. One of them, in fact the hottest one amongst them sat down by my side when he came to know i have a defence background. He's a fighter pilot. Flies a jaguar. We danced around a bit...he tried to kiss me several times but i tried to evade him...eventaully he succeeded, and we kissed a couple of times.It was closing time and my friend insisted that he should escort us home as she was drunk. I think she was just trying to get us to hook up. Any how, she passed out in the cab and he kissed me once more. When we reached home, it was raining and she made some tea and gave us some chocolates and told us that we could stay for as long as we wanted to.Which we did - he did not have an umbrella and the nearest place where he could get a cab was a ten minute walk.So i made a bed for him on the couch. He insisted on cuddling and i let him...it was nice. We talked for nearly two hours. After which i could sense he was feeling a bit frisky. Now i am a virgin and i don't want to sleep till i find someone i love. I told him that much...he said "you must be kidding...you don't kiss like a virgin."I said sorry...after which he said he was elated that i was a virgin (wtf?). Anyhow...i was getting up to leave and sleep in my friends room but he caught me by the waist and he was like "i just want to sleep with you...".Well that is what happened...we cuddled up...the next morning when i woke up, his hands were around my waist and his face was buried in my neck. It was almost very sweet.He said a lot of nice things...for one he seemed to be fascinated by my hair (which is quite long and silky...till my hips), and he just kept on kissing me till i had to push him off.He wanted to meet the very next day but i was busy....so i am meeting him tomorrow.The thing is...I am scared.For many reasons.1)he's so hot that i dunno if i can resist him2)he was in a live - in relationship a year ago which ended a couple of months ago and i don't know if he is over that girl...though he said he was3) I think he would definitely want to have sex with me...but i don't want to ...not so soon anyway.4) He seems to be a bit of a player...i am not so sure but...5) I hope he does not think i am easy cos i am not! I don't know if he got a wrong impression that he can get into my pants just because she slept over.6) I am getting over my ex - who cheated on me and i am afraid of coming across as too cold...Oh i know this post is too long but help me! I like him. i want to make it work...but i have no clue how to!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2012): If you don't want to sleep with him and be another conquest of his, then you need to stop seeing him NOW, not later.
If you don't stop seeing him now, then don't come crying about it later when you end up being a conquest and getting hurt.
You have been warned.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 well then just be yourself and if he treats you like property then don't see him again...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm. The thing is - i am NOT going to sleep with him.
He called me up last night...and today- just for five minutes but right before he slept off. It was a normal call - how was your day..etc etc...
Any advice for the date tomorrow? I like him, but i don't want to be treated like i'm his property or something.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 September 2012):
he just wants to notch his belt with a virgin...do NOT have sex with him....
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