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*urt234
writes:So recently my girfriend has taken to ignoring me. I have absolutly no clue why! But on thurdsday we had a nice conversation, then suddenly nothing for friday or saturday. So ive waited most the day, giving her a little space. Then she isuddenly posted on facebooik, so I sent her a message. Nothing, later I texted....nothing. Frankly im fed up with it. How do I call her out....without being a complete jerk? The only reason I dont want to be a jerk is because of the off chance she might have a good reason.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 Not trying to be a cow here Kurt, but are you sure you are both on the same page, does she see herself as your girlfriend and you her boyfriend?
Unless you KNOW of a reason that may be keeping her away from answering the phone, such as family issues or other responsibilities, it may be time for a heart to heart talk, and I mean face to face, not via text or messaging. Again, just ask her how come things have changed, and take it from there.
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reader, Kurt234 +, writes (10 September 2012):
Kurt234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply! I have tried contacting her, I've tried twice a day for Friday and Saturday, then once last night. Nothing at all!
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (10 September 2012):
Ask her, 'how come we dont do xyz on Fridays - Saturdays like we used to"?
It seems to me you are both not communicating with each other, instead of sitting around waiting for her to contact you, why don't you contact her?
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