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female
age
41-50,
*licia
writes:I have been in a relationship for seven years now and at first there were alot of arguments. It has been a long distance relationship until now that we are on the same town . I feel we should spend alot of quality time together do we can rekindle our relationship and just share things and have fun. But I seem to always be the one asking to see him and the last time we made love it felt like he was doing it coz I complained that we don't sleep together much. Today he goes to church and then him and his family gather for lunch and to catch up. He doesnt seem to want me there and never invited me telling me I will feel uncomfortable. Should I be worried tht he doesn't want to involve me in his life or should I just understand that he needs time alone with his family?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 September 2012):
 I'm sorry but if you are supposedly in a serious relationship YOU are his family... and you should be included in church and family events.
if he says no... or blows you off... then perhaps you are more invested in the relationship than he is.
you must talk to him and find out if you are both on the same page but it does not sound like it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 September 2012):
 I think you need to talk to him about this. You want more from this relationship than you are getting, and you need to tell him that. Be honest with him and explain to him how you are feeling, tell him you want to be involved with him and his family and that you want to be a bigger part of his life and not just someone who you feel he has to see. It shouldn't be such a hard effort for you both to spend quality time together, therefore talk to him and ask him how he is feeling about the relationship, communication in a relationship is really important so you both know where you stand.
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