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writes:Me and and boyfriend has been together for almost a year. When we were together in same city, we meet around 2/3 times a week and almost everyday when we have to study together. but whenever either of us is traveling/ back home, we don't talk at all, no phone call nor skype, only a few text per day maximum and it's always me who intiate it. I'm actually fine with it, though would be nice if he initiates more.Whenever we meet after we're apart, be it a weekend or weeks apart, we always can't stop smiling and he can't stop telling me how happy he is seeing me again. He always look at me in a dreamy way and smiles to himself and I have to ask him stop smiling so creepily sometimes hahaI'm actually very fine with our way, but my friends think we are a bit too "freestyle". I was away before for a month traveling with friends, then back in town for a week with him, and I'm home now and will stay for another 3 weeks away from him. I do think of my boyfriend every single day and miss his smile, kiss and touch, but I don't see I have to talk to him as well if there's nothing improtant, but I do text him when there's fun thing that reminds me of him.. I'm sure my boyfriend is happy with our way too as he's someone that prefers to share things when we meet in person. Also I completely trust my boyfriend (or I don't believe in controling can avoid cheating anyway), so I just enjoy whatever happen between us and I'm honestly very happy with him :)anyway, my question is is it normal for a couple to not speak at all when they're apart? or am I really too 'carefree' as a friend think I am?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 If you are happy and he is happy then it's all good.
for me personally it would make me nuts to not hear from my LDR every day.... but that's me...
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reader, Plumb +, writes (11 September 2012):
 There is no such thing as "Normal" in a relationship, because everyone has there own thing. There is no rule book on how to date someone or if you should constantly talk, Everyones diffrent. If you and your man seem to be fine with the way things are and see no problems then i suggest keep doing what your doing. Plus you two just might not be the kind of couple that likes the whole texting/calling thing. If you want to change then do so but if not its your relationship therefore. Your decsions:)
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