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He loves me but also loves his baby mama

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Question - (15 March 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2012)
A female Virgin Islands - U.S. age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm in a relationship with a guy who I know loves me but also loves his baby mother. I love him dearly but don't know if I should stay or go. What should I do? Im in a tug of war between my heart and my mind.

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A female reader, nnw4 Virgin Islands - U.S. +, writes (16 March 2012):

To wordlywise...I feel he is still in love with her. He sends her text messages such as I miss you, He always wants her to send pictures of herself to his phone, he watches sex tape that they made while they were together. He has never told her that he is in a relationship with someone else, everytime i mention that some of the things he does makes me feels uncomfortable he becomes defensive and says i'm over reacting.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012):

He is bound to feel something for the mother of his child, but he is with you.

If you don't feel he loves you, if he doesn't treat you as his number one, then yes you should go.

You haven't given much information for people to judge the situation properly.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012):

I think you should leave, they share a bond that you will never share with him, she had his kid, they will always have that, and always be in each others lives

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