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I don't want to because his ex did!

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Question - (15 March 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i know that this may seem strange but im a jealous person and anyway my hubby ask me to give him blowjobs when im on my period and ive done it once but i just cant seem to do it anymore because his ex wife used to do that for him and blowjobs in the car whenever he wanted it i give him oral before sex. what do i do help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012):

it could be completely untrue and he's just making that stuff up about his ex to manipulate you. I mean, if she was so great how come they divorced? conversely, if he thinks she's so great then tell him he can go back to her!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012):

I think it was out of order telling you his Ex wife performed oral sex on him whenever he wanted. You now have that in your head. I bet he wouldn't like it if you said 'oh your doing that all wrong,my ex was much better at getting me to....' during sex.

If his ex wife was so amazing then how come they split up?

Just try and forget her, next time he brings her up tell him to shut up. You have to clear your head of her, you have to try and remember you are together now. That you want to please him. And make sure he does the same for you.

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A female reader, Wisdom Australia +, writes (16 March 2012):

Wisdom agony auntFirstly figure out why you are so upset about the ex wife... he is not saying you are the ex wife it is jsut something that he likes. If you want to give him more oral sex than do so, if not then don't. Sex is about making your partner feel special and good as much as it is about you.

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