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Has his sex drive decreased with age? Or is he getting it elsewhere?

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Question - (15 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm in a fwb kinda arrangement, I was wondering does a mans sex drive go down with age? he is 36 I am 26. or do you think he is getting it elsewhere?

this is what has been happening, when we met he would come round two three times a weeks and stay, then gradually it became once a week then once a fortnight, now its once every month or five weeks. now I have asked him if he is sleeping with anyone else, he always says no (we have agreed not to sleep with anyone else cos of sexual health we use condoms). but lately whenever I ask him why he only wants sex only once a month he just laughs. I don't know what to how could I find out if he is lying as I don't see him that often. everytime I ask him something he laughs, my confidence is really getting affected by this. what should I do? thank you

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (15 March 2012):

Honeypie agony aunt

Yep, he is getting it elsewhere. I'm sorry to say but it sounds like he is having sex with you when he is bored and have nothing better to do.

IF you are not getting anything out of this "fwb" then end it.

And at 36 I'm betting you his sex drive is still pretty high.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (15 March 2012):

Honeygirl agony auntYes, I do think this man is going elsewhere. Since it is a "FWB" type arrangement, well you really dont have cause to question him.... There is no exclusive relationship between you... you are just convenient to him when he cant get sex from whoever else he is seeing.

Personally, I think you are wasting your time with this man.

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