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writes:I am currently in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (we've been together for one year, seven months). He lives in Mexico City and I moved to Florida three weeks ago with my mother to finish school and get my U.S. Citizenship. We discussed a few months before the move that we should stay together and when he is done with uni he would move with me to the states.So, anyway, the first two weeks were great, we would Skype every day, he even stayed home Friday nights talking with me, saying romantic stuff, I thought 'wow, this is really working out!'.The past few days have been different, though. He no longer gets online that much but I understand he is busy with school so I didn't make a big deal about it. We used to post quotes on each other's Facebook walls about how love beats distance, etc. Now, whenever I post something on his wall he doesn't reply. I posted two photos I did with quotes written on the sand my me and he deleted them... but his profile picture shows us kissing? He's acting very weird, I would probably think he met someone and that's why he deletes my posts but I find the fact that he was that profile picture up very confusing.I have also noticed that he has started posting more things on there about other subjects, but he used swear words (which he had never done before, and he used to tell me it bothered him when people did that), or things about football when he doesn't even like it? (on his twitter description he says 'I have a passion for football' which I honestly find very weird.I'm not even sure if I am getting upset about nothing. I am just scared that he is changing and it's only been three weeks! Not sure if it's just me and the fact that I feel lonely and have made no friends here yet or what... please help.
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reader, honestman +, writes (16 March 2012):
LDR relationships can get very, very lonely.
I'm in one right now.
We've been separated for around 15 months. It is very painful, and I sometimes watch a beautiful woman on the street and she reminds me of my suffering.
We talk every day, but is not the same as having her in person.
I think what he might be doing is to find other activities to compensate with you not being there for him.
I compensate my GF not being with me by using P0Rn and playing videogames [at least I don't do drugs or alcohol]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): I know exactly how you feel . I am in a long distance relationship too and it does get very lonely at times and tempting lol ... Only you would know the answers to your question because only you know how he is and normally acts . I could easily say that he's seeing someone else ,but that might not be the case . Considering the fact that I'm in the same place as u and have been for the past 2years .I think he feels as lonely as you ,and his friends influence him Alot ....good luck ..:)
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