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writes:why is it everytime i post to my bf facebook wall. it seems hes brought it up. hes pickin on me" like why are you posting on my wall"then i said nothing i just wanna tell you someting, he said who am i bragging to? cause i post on his wall - ill see you soon darling" - then he just asking me about my post. then i get irritated i said that ill deleted it. then he said he didnt even said to deleted it even like it. - why he always making a big deal when it comes to posting his wall in fb. i get upset to everytime i comment on everyting and he didnt even reply on that. i felt that his not proud of me or something to see his family or friends either. his making excuses just to tell me im bragging on to somebody.. then he said that im always negative all the time
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for sharing your advices.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): I personally don'y like PDA on facebook. I would rather my boyfriend call me or text me or just private message me. There is no need for everyone to be able to see what we say to each other, or how we interact with each other, that's personal between us. Maybe your boyfriend feels the same way. Just stop posting it on his facebook wall, he has told you he doesn't like it, so don't do it anymore, and show that you respect he doesn't feel comfortable with it. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): Hey hun if it makes u feel any better me and my fiance dont write on eachothers facebook walls, public displays arent for everyone, if it really bothers you the best thing to do is talk.to him xxx
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reader, person12345  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 He's probably just not big on virtual PDA. It's not for everyone. Just communicate with him some other way. It's not as though you need to "mark your territory" or something on his fb!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 He doesn't like it when you bring your relationship up on facebook. It's like some people don't like public displays of affection, such as kissing on the street. Some people don't like it when things related to their personal relationships are posted online for everyone to see. He likes to keep it private!
Besides, many WILL think of it as bragging. I mean why post it on facebook when you can call him and talk to him instead? It's just how some people view it. I suggest you stop posting things on his facebook since he obviously has a problem with it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 March 2012):
 So stop posting on his wall, apparently he was of "face-booking" is different then yours.
Send him a text instead if you have a need to communicate.
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