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My ex will not let go and I want to move on

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Question - (15 March 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2012)
A female United States age , *ashful3 writes:

My ex is having a hard time letting me go:

Him and I dated 9 months lived together 8 I asked him to move out last August gave him time to look for a place well one did not work out because of his credit he looked very little but did look again I packed up his clothes well we remained friends he was to stay on weekends and did at first then started staying in the week at times, I knew at times I was being used.

He moved back with his oldest daughter who lives 3 blocks from me well him and her are alike so they do not get along and here he would come to me he is separated and has 6 kids I am a single mom of an 18 year old special needs daughter he would cook clean etc we have never been anything alike.

He is quiet but has his wild side drinks smokes etc me I am quite laidback never smoked drinking a wine cooler something in the eggnog his brother put us together they are drama and they talk about various ones in the family well my neighbor who I visit when I can told me that the other day he was outside talking about me saying that he was going to set me up whatever that mean someone must of said something about my daughter he did not care.

Now he calls and calls at times I have answered a few times but once he gets his television needs to get the mail changed which we have been broke up 6 months and leave me alone I am going to have to see him when he comes to visit his brother who lives downstairs with his sister I say you said you wont speak then why call.

How do I deal with this I cannot live all tense I have to see my daughter on and off the bus the van get mail just if I wont to sat outside he wont let go jealous I do not answer the phone some man up in here right how long should I go before I date again and if I should meet someone how do I explain about the ex?

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A female reader, bashful3 United States +, writes (17 March 2012):

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Thanks Bernard: He still has a few things to get that from staying recently the worse to me he will visiting brother and sister in law downstairs his brother moved in with her and he thinks he runs things right he is something.

I hate its getting warm they sat out and sometimes some of the family visits to me to many with that small of a space and he does cookouts I do not think he is suppose to only those with porches and balcony which you cant on mind flames get away from you catch the building on fire so I will be seeing my ex gosh.

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