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writes:I am confused about whether I am straight, lesbian or bisexual. I am sexually attracted to men but I also fantasise about having sex with women and having their beautiful naked body rubbing all over mine. I am still a virgin (but not text book- I masterbate) so I haven't actually had sexual contact with either gender. I'm really confused. How do lesbians have sex (without strap ons or other toys) and is a lesbian sex life as good as a straight one? Please help me. If anyone has been in my position or is lesbian and can answer my questions please do. I really don't want to be this confused for much longer. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2012): you are a text book virgin. Masterbation dosn't count.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2012): you may have partially answered your own question.
you asked about whether or not lesbian sex was "as good as" straight sex. i would imagine it would not occur to a lesbian that the sex they were having would be in any way less satisfying than if they had sex with a man otherwise it would suggest that only straight sex was the one worth having and they were somehow missing out on something by choosing only to have sex with women.
i don't think they make an effort to find women more attractive than men, it is how they are.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 March 2012):
 Well, first of all you are you. You might be bi-sexual (someone who likes both man and women sexually) or you may be totally straight but feel less threatened (so to speak) by the thought of sex with a woman.
You don't HAVE to figure out what sexual orientation you are right now, it will come.
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