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writes:So the other night me and my friend hung out with a few guys we had just met, and we were really hitting it off. In fact, I was really into this one guy, and we kissed quite a bit over the night. I had had a few drinks, but he was totally clean. And I got his number, I texted him asking if he remembered me, but now I have no clue what to say to him! I mean, I dont wanna sound creepy or obsessive, I just wanna let him know that I think hes a nice guy and that we should keep in touch. Can anybody help me out?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (14 July 2012):
 CALL him. Don't text him. CALL him. When you call him, tell him "Hey, it's *insert your name here* from the other night. Hope I caught you at a good time! I really enjoyed getting to know you the other night at the party, and was wondering if you're free next Friday night (or insert another date that works".
Then seal the deal! If it doesn't happen, hold your head up high.
It's much harder to remember someone through a text than it is a phone call. A sexy voice jogs the memory much more than impersonal words on a smart phone screen.
New friendships/relationships should be built over the phone, and texting is good for supplemental communication in an established, strong relationship. Never hide behind texting when you're nervous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012): Most guys I know don't text all that often, so you should wait a few days and If he hasn't texted back yet text him again just to make sure he got your text. Textile often is fine I think as long as you don't so it all that often and obsessively
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