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writes:I have just read something on here, and she was in the exact same position as I am in. I am 16, and have recently just come back from a holiday in Turkey, I fell in love over there, and I was with him every night. We have been together for about a month now and obviously because he is foreign he has his charm, and I love him, he's amazing. I, being a vulnerable girl have fallen for his words, that he will wait for me and he won't forget me. Do I believe him? He is 21 so not much of an age gap but again, he lives 4 hours away from me, I don't know what he us up to or where is going, i'm not a jealous type but when i see him talking to other girls we break out in a huge argument. I really like this guy and I hope he waits for me. I haven't got a job yet, but i might soon and I am thinking of saving up to go and see him in October, will he have waited for me? Really in need of some help. Thank you x
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (15 July 2012):
 If you read a post from someone in the exact same position as you, did you read the replies? What were they, and did they give you any insight into your own situation? I am a bit puzzled as to why you labelled yourself vulnerable ...
As to whether he'll wait for you, surely no one else can tell? But the pessimist in me says that he probably won't. If you want to go and see him in October then by all means do so, but don't assume he's been faithful to you in between times. I know that is blunt but I'm being honest.
If you're not the jealous type then why are you getting wound up when he speaks to other women? Is this your gut instinct being triggered? If so, pay attention to it.
I get the feeling that you already know the answers. If it just turns out to be a holiday romance then try not to fret over it. Let it go. Enjoy the memories and chalk it up to experience. If it develops into something more, you have a tough road in front of you and I don't think it will be easy for you.
Take a step back, try to clear your head and weigh up the pros and cons of pursuing this.
Either way, I hope things work out.
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