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writes:Me and my man have been together for just over two years I played him up until today I have always told him i loved him He has always told me he loves me He really did love me I didn't know what love was Until today I opened up and told him how i felt How much ive changed Told him he would be My everything My all But the day i tell him how i feel Is the day he tells me Goodbye...... Need help and some advice ASAP i dont want to lose him Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (14 July 2012):
I’m afraid your post is a bit jumbled and confusing so I’m sorry if I’ve misunderstood your situation, do please write a followup if we do misunderstand so that this amazing team of agony aunts can give you the best advice. So you love your boyfriend but hadn’t admitted to how you felt until today, and when you did he ended things?
I’m afraid that if he doesn’t feel the same, and if he doesn’t want to be with you, there’s nothing you can do. You might not want to lose him but you can’t make him stay, and you can’t make him love you. If he doesn’t feel the same, you have to accept that it’s over. As the breakup is so recent, it’s bound to be very painful and upsetting for you at the moment, make sure you get as much support from the people around you as you can. But don’t make your pain worse by trying to fight to make him stay, it will only prolong your suffering.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, lonely2427  +, writes (14 July 2012):
Probably shouldn't have played him. Live with the regret is all you can do.
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