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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm engaged, but I've fallen for a guy online. I don't know who I'm really in love with! And I don't want to hurt anyone! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4351 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 and half years now. Last year we got engaged. He is my first and only love.Since the engagement things have changed. He acts way much childish, being completely irresponsible. He says he has always been this way, but I'm the one who has ... (288 words)

I can't stop making out with my colleagues!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 married 7 years and have a child! I haven't been happy for a very long time but kept in marriage for security and for child sake! Recently at a Xmas do, I got very drunk and made out with s work colleague! I then went home and brought home another colleague and made out ... (100 words)

Should I leave my husband of 12 years for cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I leave my husband of 12 yrs? My husband has cheated on me numerous times only 3 times I have proof of. Back in 2005 he had an affair that lasted for 7 months. I never knew anything was wrong it was a huge slap in the face. The reason for it he said he didn't get to see ... (349 words)

I agreed to FWB, but now I'm not so sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - 10 months ago my friend gave her friend from college my number, we got talking and arranged to meet up (me, him, my friend and her boyfriend) and go on a day out. My friend told me that he liked me however I didn't feel the same and somehow we stopped texting each other. a few ... (351 words)

I just caught my husband wearing my knickers!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age - My question is really two fold and I would like to hear from the other ladies. It was a shock to come home unexpectedly early and catch my husband in bra and panties. Things that he apparently has purchased but says this is really his first time wearing these. Shall I believe ... (93 words)

We're not right for each other but we're still in love. What do we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I recently had a mutual break up after living together and being in a relationship for 2 years. We realize that we're not right for each other right now but we are still in love with each other. What should we do? How do we proceed from here?... (51 words)

I want to have sex with my brother in law's wife.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid! Sorry to bother you. My problem still sustains there and now i need your help very desperately please. In my previous questions i asked you about a lady but almost all answers were very good and i tried my best to control myself but in vain. Again i am asking... (305 words)

Does female ejaculation smell like urine?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Mostly ladies responses are needed here but men you will be helpful too..... I am new to adult toys and have only had sexual intercourse with someone once. Not trying to be explicit so I will be as conservative about this as possible. Waking up early the smorning a... (151 words)

I can't seem to form lasting relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm not first to have this issue and I'm sure I won't be the last. I'm 29, and I've had only one real relationship. That was back when I was 21 and it lasted 3 months. Since then I have "dated" two women. By dated I mean that nothing ever was official and neither of them ... (339 words)

She posts everything we do on facebook!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age - im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were sitting around that i would ... (357 words)

In love with my younger second cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love. But there are two problems that society will see with this. First is that she is my 2nd cousin. We've know each other for years but just recently fell in love. I the other problem is that she is 16 and I am 20. We really love each other and are happy when we're ... (79 words)

Ex was peeing while talking to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age - Ex bf of many years talking to on the phone often. he has now married. the other night i was talking to hime on the phone and he was taking a leak while he was talking to me. Is this a way some married guys get off?? or does he just feel comfortable around me????... (55 words)

Do I tell my friend that a guy only dated her for a bet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago I found out my best friend was a victim of a bet. She dated a friend (let's call him X) of our very good guy friend for like two weeks and then he left her saying he has to focus on school, bla bla, some lame excuse like that. She didn't take it very well, ... (232 words)

Crush on my history teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i think i like my teacher , hes a history teacher and i love history but im too shy in class to talk to him hes tall and good looking i think hes about 35 i dont know what to do i cant even look him in the eye i know its just a crush but i really like him , i dont think he ... (73 words)

Ex ignored me for 1.5 months but now that I've been in car accident she's suddenly worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im looking for advise i was recently in a car accident and havent been in contact with my ex for about month month and a half but now all of a sudden my ex is texting all concerned after been ignoring me and vary unresponsive to me whats her motive or does she just care a ... (64 words)

Does anyone else not like using skype to talk to their partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anybody else dislikes talking to their partner through things like Skype and windows messenger? I'm absolutely fine talking to my boyfriend face to face, on the phone, email, text... but through Skype I don't know, there's something about it that I just d... (120 words)

I'm concerned that my friend's girlfriend is too controlling but I'm afraid to express it to her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My female friend, I'll call her A, has been seeing her new girlfriend, B, for about 4 months now and they have just decided to move in together. When I met B she seemed lovely, but recently I have started to think she is quite controlling and I am worried about A. For example, ... (302 words)

He's been wooing me with nice words. But will he stay if I want to take things very Slowly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i go to school with his boy that i like. We've been talking for awhile now. When he texts me he calls me babe and bae. He also says that im beautiful. He told me he wants to be with me. I wanna be with him too. But he told me he wants to kiss me but im not ready for that... (144 words)

LDR dumped me. It was Very sudden and I'm devastated. Do you think he has another girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just been dumped by my boyfriend, we were in a long distance relationship. He said " i dont love you anymore and im sick of waiting for you to relocate to me"...the thing is it was only two days ago when he said "i love u, miss u and ill always wait for you"...so the ... (297 words)

She wont give up the dating sites and chat rooms, what can I do? I don't want to leave our son....

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been living with my common law for 6 years and we have a 5 year old boy. For the last 18 months we have constantly argued over her use of dating and adult related chat room type websites. Just as always, I think we are getting back on the right track and then I find she ... (148 words)

Massively stressed out about taking a test for a new job....help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So tomorrow I have this huge test: it's an exam in order to get a super awesome job (actually if you pass this test, you get the chance to have an interview for the job). Loads of people are taking this test and only 35% of them passed it today. As I said, I have mine tomorrow... (157 words)

It is our anniversary on Friday, but it is also his estranged son's birthday...will this set off an episode of his bipolar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope someone can help me. I have been with my boyfriend for a year this Friday. It's also his son's birthday on Friday. My boyfriend is much older than me ( his son is only a bit younger than i am ). My boyfriend has bipolar disorder. He hasn't seen his son much since he was ... (362 words)

He showed signs that he liked me, but when he found out I felt the same he has gone cold!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He showed signs that he likes me but when he knew I like him too, he just seemed not to care anymore, why? Am I that easy? I'm afraid if he continues doing this, I'm giving up on him, there's a lot of guys out there. But why? He knows he's a hottie. Is he just using me for a ... (93 words)

I'm thinking about not going on holiday because it will give my boyfriend a chance to cheat on me again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please can somebody help me make a decision on this one... ';ast year me and my boyfriend broke up for a week or so and i actually did think that things were done between us spo i put a large deposit down on an expensive holiday for me and my child. the holiday will be ... (215 words)

I was abused in the past. Do I have the right to become celibate in my relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) age 30-35 - After years of having sexual problems, I have decided to become celibate. This is due to extreme anxiety and depression before and after sex that stems from emotional and slight sexual abuse. I was never forcibly raped, however, no matter how hard I try, events from the past... (479 words)

Why is he so grumpy at me all the time? Need some advice on how to open up to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, so I am in a long distance situation. We've been 3 years together but he lives in another country. We met when one time he has holiday here in Singapore. So everyday talk Skype, phone calls, and we had schedule visit soon. Next year. So recently this thing is really ... (238 words)

How do I get a date or a girlfriend without coming off as being desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

Should I leave my husband or not? I don't know how he will survive if I leave him....

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age - I have to make a decision regarding leaving my husband. We have been together 18 years and have no children. Life prior to marrying was magical. I could not fault him in the least but on returning from our honeymoon he became grumpy and sullen. I put it down to his life... (709 words)

My girlfriend's best guy friend has asked her to be his date to an event, I don't want her to to but I don't want to upset her by saying she cant go either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months. She and I have a great life together, she is two years younger than me and still in high school. Her best friend is a guy that I know likes her but in 7 months he hasn't tried to steal her from me. Well last week he asked her ... (271 words)

My girlfriend plays the victim but am I the real victim of emotional abuse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I’ve been in a same sex female-female relationship for four years and I suppose I can’t think straight anymore. I feel so confused! she tells me things, makes promises and fills me full of hope then completely reneges on her word but will twist it somehow that I’m to ... (1294 words)

My boyfriend has outbursts of anger but says he's only expressing himself. These episodes make me uncomfortable!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I asked a question about my boyfriend a couple of days ago. We're on holiday and he was telling me my top was see-through. We got over that and had a really nice day, sightseeing and enjoying our time together. Then yesterday he wanted to go and see this amazing sight which ... (281 words)

Breakup came out of the blue and the hurt from it is so intense. How do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - just looking for a bit of help. Im 18, and i've just broken up with my first serious boyfriend (together 6 months). I thought everything was perfect so its very out of the blue that he decided to split up with me as i wasnt expecting it at all. The pain is so intense i just ... (70 words)

My crush hasn't responded to me on facebook. Do I give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my PE classmate that I only meet every Monday and I think he likes me because he shows lot of signs (like always looking at me and when I look back, he looks away, always near me, saw him talking to a friend while looking at me). I know because a lot of guys ... (111 words)

If say to wait before we do it, will he leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im talking to this one boy at my school and we've liked each other for awhile now. He tells me im beautiful and that he want to be with me. He calls me babe and bae. He told me he wanted to kiss me but i said im not ready for that. that i need some time. He told me he won't ... (160 words)

I like my friends BF - should I talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my friend's boyfriend, they have been together for 2 1/2 years now. And everytime i see him in the hallway he always gives me this flirty look. I don't know if he is trying to be nice or if he likes me. He also stares at me too. he purposely bumps into me. His hand ... (92 words)

I want to change my actions around guys. how? How do I learn to like the guys who deserve a good girlfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a massive character flaw. I am drawn to the masculine, testosterone, popular men. I don't need to explain why this is a problem.Although my looks lure them in, I end up getting hurt by them or passed over for a girl who is borderline psychotic or a huge snob. I'm ... (338 words)

In your own opinion does her behaviour and reactions define her as an easygirl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been dating this girl for a while but i know very little of her sexual experience. she claims she has had only one serious boyfriend but dated other people. after my second date with her i was perfoming oral on her but she did not let me had intercourse and she did ... (140 words)

Should I confront my partner - I found out he's looking for sex on-line!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for 25 years. The last four years have been very difficult as I have a condition called CRPS and the pain is debilitating. I have lost all interest in sex. My partner is very supportive and has put up with a lot. I have found out recently that he ... (125 words)

She doesn't feel the same - What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, There's this girl I really like and she doesn't feel the same way what should I do?... (19 words)

Why is my b/f still active on the online dating site?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Five months ago I met a guy online and we hit off it seems. We are at the stage where while we never talked about being exclusive, I've met his parents and friends and have been introduced as his girlfriend. I've never closed my account at the dating site where we met but... (213 words)

My boyfriend wants to break up with me because his mom thinks we're incompatible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is the background story: I met this guy through my best friend's bf. I know this guy is a genuine and nice guy just because the people he hangs around with I'm all pretty familiar with. We met at a hangout for the first time and we hit it off pretty well. Things wer... (677 words)

I had my sexual experience with my boyfriend. Yet he refuses to believe it was my first time. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, just want to ask some advice or help regarding my own issue. i had my first sexual experience with my boyfriend. At first it was uncomfortable but eventually i became relaxed. I didn't bleed nor feel the pain as they say for the first timer it was so painful. we ... (119 words)

Huge issue with boyfriend! How can I solve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm kinda stuck here... I don't really know what to do or say but first point... I don't want to be here bitching about my boyfriend's problems... I will expose his issues and mine as well... We are going through a rough path... I'm 18 and he's 17. We've known each other fo... (797 words)

I have been there for my mum so much over the last few years, but now I don't want to lose my boyfriend because of her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to give some facts before I start, as I think they are important to my question. I am 30 years old, very well educated to PhD level. My parents divorced when I was 17, and I have always lived at home - please don't judge me for this, there are a number of reasons, bot... (460 words)

Was my boyfriend really clean from drugs from the last 7 years? The internet searches suggest otherwise. Should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've been in a very tumultuous relationship for the past year and a half. We love each other very much but we fight quite often on lots of different things. One of them is the fact that I have trouble accepting his drug addict past. He disclosed it from the ... (345 words)

Our sex drives are out of sync. All since we moved in together. What can help resolve this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and we moved in together fairly early at the beginning of the relationship. He used to live with his parents and everytime we spend the night together we would always have sex. Since moving in 10 months ago, his sex... (234 words)

Can you really just be friends with someone you still love and will probably love for a long time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago after being together for 2 years. We were each other's first serious loves and relationship. We both agree and know we're not right for each other as the people we are right now, but we still love each other very much and enjoy each other's ... (102 words)

What's your opinion about "Nice Guys Finish Last?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey there dearcupid girls. Hope your having a great time right now and being prepared for the holidays. Anyway, I just have one question. Why is it that like I'm treating girls so nice that they won't be my girlfriend or like me more then just friends. I'm being myself and ... (84 words)

Boyfriend says he wants to be with me after I cheated but he's calling me names!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I cheated on my boyfriend of a year in a really bad way. I've been honest about it and admitted it. I'd like to work it out and understand he is angry, disgusted and a lot of other things. He says he wants to be with me...BUT he keeps calling me names. I don't think I ... (114 words)

He liked me once but I'm not sure he does anymore. Is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I like this boy, but I don't think it's going so well. When me and him very first met he was very flirty, but this was when I didn't like him. He always said hi to me in the hallways, he spent lunch with me, he took my phone, me messed with me, he teased me, he playfully ... (255 words)

What do these signs mean? Does she fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

17 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend and have no intentions in pursuing this other girl but I am never good reading signals. I think she may just be a tease though she is really forward with me. Shes always giggling when shes talking to me laughing , saying how funny I am always complimenting ... (286 words)

My husband is tired of me. How do I deal with the rejection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a very hard time dealing with rejection. I'm 30, separated after 6 yrs marriage about 4 months ago. Marriage had it's good times, but was generally not very happy and there was a lot of verbal and emotional abuse. I stayed because I kept hoping my husband... (203 words)