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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he using me? I just don't feel special anymore.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Been seeing a married man, on and off for 4 years...did try ending it but we soon got back together, I guess we missed each other. We are in contact on a daily basis...emailing for hours on end plus texting by phone. Iv never asked him to leave his wife...he wont while his ... (179 words)

Why did he end it? I am confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I have been feeling incredibly confused and feel that I need some advice before I can let this go.. Im 29 and the guy in question is 26.. we dated for only 3 weeks. He is quite an introvert and definitely not the player type. The dates went great, we got on... (383 words)

I caught my wife exchanging explicit pictures on her cell phone, is divorce imminent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

11 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I caught my wife exchanging explicit pictures on her cell phone she says she has no attraction to this man it was purely an emotional connection I don't know if I will ever be able to trust her again children are involved is divorce imminent?... (45 words)

I love my girlfriend, don't want to break-up, but she doesn't make me laugh. And there is another woman in the wings. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

11 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a really great girlfriend. She's beautiful and sweet and kind and I love her. When I first met her I was completely overwhelmed by her and fell in love. We have been together since March. I have a daughter from a previous relationship, and I introduced my daughter (she ... (311 words)

I feel bad about my sex appeal knowing mean watch much better on a porn movie. Am I second best in a guy's estimation if he watches porn?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I know there are many questions about porn, but plese bear with me. So when men watch porn, do they watch it for the women's bodies? Especially girl on girl, or girls masturbating, or stripping, ie. porn that doesn't involve men at all (so it's not about the "acts" so to speak... (790 words)

FWB: I've been in one before. But why is my new FWB guy so into cuddling afterwards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, So lately i've been in a friends with benefits sort of situation. I know this sounds really weird but I met this guy online and we had talked about getting together for a couple months now... well we finally we made time and we have been having sex for the past... (269 words)

My friend is 35 and has never been to a gynecologist. How can I convince her to go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask for advice about my friend. I’m worried about her. She categorically refuses to go to a doctor that’s so important to any woman’s health – gynecologist. We’re also colleagues and our job is asking all employees to do some medical tests, for women it’s also ... (255 words)

In a troubled relationship should I tell him I had a miscarriage?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, please don't judge my relationship. I'm not asking a question about how to "win his affections" or anything, I'm asking if I should tell him about a miscarriage. My boyfriend and I are in a complicated situation right now. He's about to graduate, and he's working ... (379 words)

Why do men prefer light skinned girls?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Most people say I'm really pretty and I have no trouble getting the Guy I want. But I'm Spanish and Mexican American, though my skin color is brown but not dark brown. I always hear guys mention they prefer light skinned girls. Is there anything I can do? Do you people ... (93 words)

Best Friends that have turned into something else, without willingness to commit..

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is somewhat lengthy, but I am in desperate need of good advice so I want you to know as much as possible. Thanks in advance!! My best friend and I have been basically dating for 7 months. As in we had sex regularly, went on dates, hung out daily, and spent the ni... (693 words)

Things aren't going too well in my life. How do I pick myself back up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently finished my degree, more or less, and am now trying to find work in the same city. I was paid for the last year of my degree (it was full time research) and opted not to stay on at the same place as the question was raised when I hated the role, but I grew to really ... (458 words)

I walked away from a man I cannot be with. Have I made the right choice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Cupids. I made a decision. It was agonizing and emotionally painful for me. And it took me a long time to get to this place...I would like to know if you think I made the right choice. There is this man who I have known for some time. I am his client but we have also... (546 words)

How can I get closure with husband weeping around about lost young lover?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age - How to get closure when husband's young EA lover keeps him hanging on? I recently found out my husband, 58, of 30 years, had been having an emotional affair for the last 18 months with a young female friend, 28, who already has a live in boyfriend. Recently it seems it esca... (299 words)

How can I show my husband that he should turn to me, not other women friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have gone through a lot and it takes 2. In the past I have been very jealous and controlling and judgmental the point where he feels he doesn't really see me as a good friend to come to to talk to. So needless to say he has found other people who are single ... (354 words)

He says he's using porn to remind himself of me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and i fell out over his porn use. He claimed he looked at women who look like me to recreate the joy he had from the night before, he was a virgin and claimed it left him buzzing. However he didn't say he often used to it to think about me until alot of moaning, ... (106 words)

Am I being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, please tell me if you think im just being paranoid about this. Me and my boyfriend (both 18) have been together 6 months and mostly everything is great. Except I really really like him and im worried he doesnt feel the same way. Its just little things, like we ... (196 words)

Is there a disease that gets worse when you have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there such a disease that gets worse when you have sex and therefore the doctor will be able to tell whether you're having sex or not?... (27 words)

We see each other nearly everyday. Will it ruin the relationship or am I being insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this man over two months ago. We have known each other through the gym for about 7 months previous to this. Thing is, Im really afraid of scaring him away. I know he didnt fancy me in the beginning - as he works in the gym, it is his workplace. I didnt push it ... (446 words)

How do I remain cool without making him think I'm not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

11 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya everyone! - gay male from London, happy with my sexuality and out to pretty much everyone :) met with a guy the same age as me last night and I wasn't expecting it but if there's such a thing as love at first sight I think I found it! I stayed at his the night and cant ... (154 words)

Does he just prefer being married or does he really not know how to behave?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 4 and half years has been pressuring me to marry him. I have been unsure because we have been making up and breaking up perpetually, over his use of dating sites. He seems to overlook how much it upsets me, even though he doesnt go out meeting them. What worries ... (101 words)

Is it possible to have feelings for this guy knowing he is in a relationship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all I was just thinking of this guy that I have been knowing for two months already and we talk to one another from time to time but he is in a relationship. I like him but I am not a home wrecker. Could I be attracted to this guy knowing he is in a relationship... (97 words)

My FWB says that he's not cheating on his girlfriend with me because apparently I'm not a service , I'm just a girl who he likes in lust

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years of age and now is in an affair with a man who is 29 who has a girlfriend he has been dating for 8 years. He says shes his best friend, with her he has a so called life , clean clothes to wear. But he is unsure if he wants/or is going to end up marrying her. He ... (363 words)

What to do? Shall I give my Gf a third chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so long story short...i am currently with my gf of 8 months. We started out as best friends and eventually started dating (finally got out of the friendzone :) ) But now we are starting to have problems. In the beginning of the relationship, i made it clear that all i ca... (619 words)

I trust HIM, not HER!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One more question before I go. There is a girl who texts my boyfriend relentlessly. She's my age or younger and is a compulsive flirt. I also know of her because she coerced my friend's ex-boyfriend to run away with her while he was still dating my friend. Now, I'm not par... (158 words)

Am I losing my libido?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! It's me, again. That boyfriend that I've been talking about? Yeah, we've been together for over a year now, (hurrah, huzzah, love conquers all!) and I couldn't be happier with him. I do have a little problem, though. Recently, my libido has been completely out o... (267 words)

Fading feelings in a LDR, maybe he's not my true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been dating this guy for a while and we love each other but we've gone long distance for four months now and although we talk about marriage and spending our lives together, lately my feelings have been fading, i just don't know with him being so far away I love him ... (77 words)

Is my ex still interested and want me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke things off with my boyfriend because I just wanted to some space and time to heal (I had a rough year/stress). And he said that if should I be ready for a relationship, I can look him up. I finally texted him after a month of not texting, but I havent seen him since ... (482 words)

How do I feel confident when my crush said I was unaatractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not pretty and i don't think any guys will love me because i'm ugly. Every girl that i've have known who had a boyfriend were pretty and then there's me who wants a boyfriend and to know what it feels like to be loved. People find me ugly whether it's my kinky afro hair, my ... (95 words)

I gave him my number, didn't hear from him. He said I gave him the wrong number and now I'm not hearing from him again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started a new job where the building was having major renovations and met one of the guys doing it - he will not be working with me permanently. He is extremely attractive so naturally spent lots of time ogling him! Which seemed to be a mutual thing, eventually started ... (159 words)

My boyfriend leads another life when he's out drinking and partying. I don't like it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've asked for advice a few times before and been very happy with the responses, so here I am again! Basically, to cut a long story short, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, and in that time, we have only ever fought about one thing. And that is ... (317 words)

I don't know how to deal with this love triangle. Do I compromise love for comfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help!! I dont know how to deal with this love triangle. About six month ago I left my fiance of 11 years for many reasons. 1. I felt in love with a woman 2. he lied to me and was cheating on me. Although I never saw him cheating; but I found condoms on his bagpack and ... (463 words)

Who will want me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Who will want me now? My self confidence is shot. After a volatile six years of marriage, I am now a 30 year old single mom. I feel like I will never meet anyone decent, and if I do, they will run for the hills as soon as they know I have a child. Of course, I know th... (87 words)

How can I get my self confidence back after being left by my husband? I feel like damaged goods now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I get my self confidence back after my husband left? I tolerated a lot of behaviors from my husband during my marriage that I never thought I would because I thought marriage was supposed to last forever. Every time I would be verbally or emotionally abused by him, i... (136 words)

My B/f slept with my best friend while we were broken up and I cant get this out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm engaged to a guy I have dated previously for about a year... We were so much alike we fought all the time, nothing serious, just bickering. I was, and still am, very much in love with him! Problem is, I found out when we recently got back together that two days after ... (280 words)