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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend and I had a small argument and I haven't heard from him at all

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday afternoon we were on the phone and had a small argument. I wasnt aware of my tone and how I said it but he asked me where I was going (i was driving home from school) and I said "Where else would I go? I'm going home" and he got defensive and retaliated by saying ... (175 words)

How do you know if you have an yeast infection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i heard that a women's scent changes depending on diet. i'm starting to see discharge and it has a chlorine scent and is white but a little thick and creamy. i am on the iud birth control method so could that be changes as well? i don't have health insurance so i can't see a ... (99 words)

How do people make out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (F) age 26-29 - How do you make out? I'm 14 and we and my boyfriend want to try it but he has done it befor and I don't know what to do.... (31 words)

Does he have a crush on me or is it just my wishful thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4371 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! So i'm still @ school and i like this guy from my class. For the first few months he seemed not to notice me at all and try to avoid me. Now he seems to be very nice towards me. He's constantly joking around with me saying that this girl in my class, whom he assumed ... (210 words)

How can I express my dissatisfaction with my boyfriend more effectively?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i tell my boyfriend of 3 yrs im not happy, he hardly touches me anymore, i want to try for a baby but he dont, it dont seem like we r in a relationship its like we just exsist, we live together we argue 50% of the time, aand half the time it is me starting the argument ... (123 words)

What does his body language say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I was standing next to my work male friend in town. We were waiting for another friend who was using the cash point. A man came to speak to me asking if i was in the line, i explained no. This man went and stood near my male friend for the que whilst frequently looki... (141 words)

Should I send him an anonymous treat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - well my crush knows i like him (my friend told him via facebook!!! ahahaha...thanks mate :P ) and anyway he didnt reply :/ but oh well! so we have a thing at school where you can send sweets to people (money goes to charity) they can be sent anonomously i kinda wan... (80 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Friends, I am a 30 year old indian lady living in Europe and married to a German man. I havenot got the courage yet to say the truth to my Parents that i am married. How can i say I told them 1.5 years back about my love when they came to europe. Since then only ... (191 words)

My boyfriend's family hates me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's mum hates me.I have never met her as she is back home in another country.I have talked to her on the phone a couple of times, well more like tried talking to her. From the moment she answered or I have answered,she will start insulting me. All this while,i will ... (272 words)

I don't want to have sex with her, I just want to play with her breasts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 20 years old and in college. I was leaving a restaurant and I saw a young mother who was in my college class last semester, and I'm fairly attracted to this woman and she remembers me from class, so I went over to talk to her. She was still in her car, so to be boyishly ... (364 words)

I'm not gay, but an encounter with a friend gave me an erection. I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 years old guy and time ago I had a stupid thing with my friend that I can't get out of my head. My friend is a bit older than I, he's a nice guy and I can always trust in him. We've shared many things and had always be there each for other. So one night I stayed a... (350 words)

I let her go so she could move on, like she wanted, and now she's upset.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex-girlfriend and I broke up about a year ago, and since them we remained friends. Her reason for breaking up with me was because she had to concentrate on school and she didn't want to struggle with choosing to give her time to her family or me. We stayed friends since ... (526 words)

My long distance boyfriend has stopped talking to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4months now and well it's long distance.. He teells me he loves me. Now he hasn't talked to me in a week and he like ignoring me.. Everyone tells me he don't love me and that he's ceating on me. Idk who to belive.. Hes been ... (65 words)

Do you think it is just stress? Or could I have some sort of mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so i'm having a lot of difficulties right now. I'm in my last year of university and it's tough i've been trying my best and trying to stress as i am a very stressful person. There have been numerous things going on in my life also. Stuff that's going on with my partners ... (284 words)

I told a friend how I feel and now she's not responding to my messages. Did I mess things up, how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - this friend i have we've met quite a few time and texted abit as well. we've always met with her friends. Then a few days ago she texted me to meet up after i had college and it was just me and her. we walked around and eventually sat down and just talked mostly about her ... (214 words)

Why is she ignoring me and should I talk to her about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with a friend. So I am still in high school so i met this new amazing girl and in so little time we got to know each other alot in a week we are already calling each other and it turns out that she has a boyfriend and she calls me her best friend and then ... (154 words)

This petty argument is making me unsure about the relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This petty argument is making me unsure about the relationship. I was driving home and I was stuck in traffic. I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and somewhere along the conversation he asked me where i was going, and I admit that I wasnt aware of my tone and words a... (346 words)

I'm marrying my best friend's father and I don't know how or what to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been friends with this girl since i was 14 years old and i have been with her through everything and she has been with me through everything but so has her dad and i know i shouldn't be hurting her like this and neither should he and i know but honestly this may sound ... (264 words)

I missed a pill for the first time in four years and now my body is behaving differently. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question...but I know people on here have great advice and go through similar experience. (this questions for girls) Basically I'm on birth control to ease my periods and make me have them only 4 times a year. Now I've been taking them for I want ... (301 words)

Boyfriends best friend is constantly with us and it makes me very uncomfortable. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Afternoon. :) I have a little situation with my boyfriend, we live in halls (college halls) and because of this, we live together all the time, we share the same room etc. We have literally no issue with this, we get on so well and everything is okay with us. It's his... (271 words)

I want to runaway from home and study abroad. I need support and advise!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have trust issues and support issues with my family. I live in a conservative country where they see a girl is a half human being, she can live her life and start travelling after marriage !! I can never live accordingly, I have my dreams I wanna get into medicine but I kn... (229 words)

I have to choose between 2 very different jobs and soon! What would you do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very difficult decision to make and I need help. It's a choice between 2 very different jobs. I am currently working in sales, I don't like sales much at all, it's a retail job with part time hours. I applied for a new job in the police department (I've asked questions ... (265 words)

I think she wants me to spoil her like her ex did. I feel I have big shoes to fill, is it wrong to feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having a problem. My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile but her ex keeps coming up. They were in a very deep relationship. He went above and beyond to spoil her. Now I share some of the same qualities and views that he has but I'm still my own person. I ask her if ... (125 words)

I'm a virgin and it's embarrassing. Should I get a male prostitute so I can get the first time out of the way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Probably the most humiliating thread to post. So anon for obvious reasons. Well, basically I'm a virgin girl 21, and for the past year or so I have been teased by literally everyone who found out I was a virgin. It hasn't at all been for lack of opportunities. In fact, I have ... (280 words)

Why is my ex talking to me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age - My ex, now married, is talking to me on a regular basis and telling me what's going on in his life. Is he interested in me again or just want someone to talk to???... (34 words)

He thinks it's a date but I just want to be friends. How do I let him down without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've kinda ended up agreeing to a date that I didn't know was a date. A friend of mine has been chatting to me for a while and being really friendly etc. I thought at first he might be flirting but I said I wasn't looking for anything so presumed from then he was just being ... (181 words)

Should I talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy at the library who i find really handsome. We have made eye contact, and the other day I bumped into him in the corridor. He was on the phone but said hi to me, and then later on that day when I was leaving he sort of nodded his head at me as if acknowledging my ... (98 words)

Does saying sorry make you a better person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I would really appreciate it if you can share your thoughts on this one... Does saying sorry to someone after saying some hurtful things make you a better person instead of being conceited and ignorant?... (37 words)

I want to tell my family about him. How can I do this? Because I can't imagine my life without my crazy guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been in a relationship for about a year with a 45 year old guy. a little backgrounds: I must admit our relationship started out almost completely sexual but after about a month we decided that we actually liked each other and now we are both madly in love. I can hon... (244 words)

I want to be her last love, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl for two years.we used to sms daily.i didn't say to her,since i respect her family and they respect me.i though time has come and then i told her my love before 6 months.she told she and other love in class.we are just in age of 20.she asks me to change my mind.but ... (73 words)

I'm in a relationship, but my high sex drive has caused me to have feelings for someone I shouldn't. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Just a little background on my problem. I am in a LDR of two and a half years. I see my boyfriend several times a year, and we are completely and totally in love. I have a remarkably high sex drive, but our sexual relationship barely exists when we are not physi... (287 words)

She is a weak woman who thinks with her heart and not her head. what is wrong with her?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i got myself into a tissy and i my conscious is getting the best of me. sometime ago i connected with a woman on a dating site. i didnt tell her i was bi and not divorced and occassionally sleeping with my husband and my man boss. she thinks ive been away from my husband f... (433 words)

I had a crush on my teacher. I moved away but I still want to keep in touch.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - So i had a crush on my science teacher but then I moved away. On the last day of school she told me to say good bye to her. Naturally I forgot but the day before I said a goodbye and gave her a hug. It's been about two weeks and i've settled into my new home. I've been texting ... (226 words)

He made a commitment to be with me, but is still chatting up girls on the dating site we met on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend on an online dating/chat website about 7 months ago. We were just friends for about 5 months before we both agreed to be in a committed relationship. We live two states apart and we visit each other at least every few months. The relationship is great we ... (335 words)

Would you consider an internet romance to be cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Would it be cheating if my girlfriend went on internet and talked to some guy and they had a little romance over the internet for not a long time before i cought her. She then told me they did nothing. But I read the email and they were flirting and calling eachother names like ... (99 words)

I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 15, nearing 16.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I'm well aware of the age of consent and such, and neither of us plan to have sex with each other any time soon. (Well, we haven't talked about anything sexual and I fully intend to wait until he is of age before anything like that happens.) My question though is ... (382 words)

Should I let him be my friend ? I really loved him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd been with my baby-daddy since I was 15 and at 19 my son came along. We always had a love hate relationship and I would leave and always came bad. Alittle over 2 years ago I got a new job and meant a guy there. Me and baby-daddy had a fight and I left and went to my sisters. ... (296 words)

I have a date, how can I make the evening special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl are going out for drinks. Might treat her out for a meal too. I think she likes me. If u were a girl what would make u melt without being to lovey. How can I make the evening special also she doesn't live near so I'm not sure where she will be staying as I ... (96 words)

I desperatly need help from the male readers to understand my husbands behaviour.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperatly need help from the male readers to understand my husbands behaviour. We have a very active,loving(sometimes wild!) and happy sex life. So what does it tell me, if he sometimes has to sit down at the computer watching porn to please himself even a few hours after we... (130 words)

I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

1 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment to the marriage and for us to have a... (1553 words)

Alcohol means he does the meanest things. Is this co-dependancy? Do I need a reality check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am i crazy? I feel like i am on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I don't know if i should stay or go! I have been married for over 13 years and have 4 children. For so long i did not realize something was wrong. Or maybe it isn't wrong and it's all in my head....i do... (851 words)

What's best? My friends say "give him the shove" but I have a major crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

1 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A lad and I who i work with having been seeing each other for a few weeks, just sex nothing serious. I fancied him from the second i met him ( 7 months ago ) but he was with his ex. We flirted a lot till i found out he had a girlfriend from another member of staff but as... (143 words)