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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have not moved on since the break-up. He has. How do I let go, and move on from this break-up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so putting it simply, I'm struggling to get over my ex. We were only together a year but he treated me differently to any other man I have ever met. There were difficult circumstances, hence the split but it's been 3 months now and I'm finding it hard to move on with my ... (212 words)

How do I handle the fact that he keeps pictures of his ex-wife in our bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age - My live in boyfriend of 4 years has been hiding pictures of his ex wife around our bedroom. I found them while cleaning. One was even tucked in a photo album that I made for him for last Xmas. It is right by his side of the bed. I would not even have seen it if I was not ... (139 words)

Does he have to have feelings for her? Can a man be in a relationship with a woman just for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupids. Is it possible for a man to be "in a relationship" (I mean an actual relationship where they are dating, not a FWB or no strings situation) with a woman just for the sex or because the sex is good? Does he necessarily have to have feelings for her, love h... (106 words)

How can I handle my feelings over this? He sent me a nasty email detailing all I did wrong in the relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi ... I need some help and useful advice .... after almost 4 months ( no contact previously ) after a painful breakup with my ex whom I loved dearly I have recieved a nasty and scathing seven page email from him, stating EVERYTHING I did wrong within the relationship, some of ... (161 words)

Why has my husband started acting 'distant' towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry.. this is a long story. My husband of 2 years and father of my young son has recently gone on a business trip to Eastern Europe and during the trip... he has been speaking with me in such a distant manner like I am an acquaintance or friend. I challenged him regar... (256 words)

I have feelings for my friend but what if he's repulsed by me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I’m 18 years old guy and I’m in love with another male. I don’t know how excatly it happened, but I have a feeling I cannot live without him. He’s actually much older than me, he’s 34. I didn’t fall for him right away. First I didn’t look at him in a sexual way at all. We were ... (306 words)

I love her more than anything but she doesn't reply to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I loved a girl of my age. she is my childhood class mate in 6th standard. I love her more than anyone. I have proposed her through email i have written more than ten emails. She didnt reply me. She wot lift my call. I sent an email that "pls say yes or no or wait for some ... (77 words)

Did he really love me if he got another girl pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i had a boyfriend for 8 years. while together he got another girl pregnant who is his classmate. did he really love me? he said it was all accident and did not love the girl. added he will just give the girl's request to get them married and later on he will annul the marriage. ... (64 words)

Can't talk to her without her getting angry, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a relationship and my partner can be easily annoyed and agitated! If I try and tease her or make a joke she can get really defensive and angry and that just makes me angry and agitated! I love her but it can make me feel bad and I feel that its all my fault. I don't ... (96 words)

She loves me and doesn't want to hurt him (boyfriend)!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont understand what it is like.. She loves me but she says she doesn't want to hurt his bf.. Shes confused.. but today his bf came to know that she talks to me..So its like everything is shattered right now! I was talking to her n we both were crying bitterly.. She ... (166 words)

How do I make my g/f feel comfortable that I know she has a hard time opening up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I've been with my girlfriend now for a bit over a year and a half. Within the past two months or so, I've really started to open up to her emotionally, letting my insecurities show to somebody for the first time in my life, essentially, and sharing with her who I am or who ... (322 words)

I'm getting feelings for my married friend. Is she into me as well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok first off I'm a single guy and this is something that just happened I didn't plan it. I have a married female friend I have recently reunited with, a few weeks ago she came to see me at my house to watch our favorite shows. She's always told me her and her hubby had ... (140 words)

My ldr bf how can I start telling him that I'm so upset to think that our relationship is going nowhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone im in a ldr situation for 3 years now with my bf who lives in europe an im from singapore, we love each other we talk everynight, but lately this one depresses me and I' worried. i think im bored of the relationship we have right now its not that i dont see him, ... (313 words)

I've found the right guy to lose my virginity to and I want to make our first time special, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts. I'm not sure where to start really but basically i've been dating my boyfriend for around 3 months and we are yet to sleep together as i'm still a virgin and my boyfriend seems to understand that i'm worried about it but i know he is finding it hard. I though... (256 words)

Would I be right to tell anyone I meet in the future that I'm a virgin because I feel like I am, despite having tried to have sex a number of times?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I do not know how to explain how I feel at the moment. I am disgusted with myself. After I experienced bleeding, I still tried to have sex again like a month after. I bled again and every time I bleed. I believe I am still a virgin cos I will always bleed and he ... (112 words)

How do I forgive his porn usage so we can be happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all.I am in need of advice. I have looked up numberous articles but the advice is very generalized and not very helpful.How do you forgive someone that has betrayed your trust? I have been with my partner for almost 5 years and we have a family. We have had trust issues in ... (347 words)

Doesnt he really not care about me? Or am I worrying about nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I am with this guy since a long time ....but i sometimes feel he doesnt care for me. I dont understand how to determine that its just all in my head or if he really doesnt ... I am right now upset ...yesterday night ...he was with his cousins but was txtng me and we had a ... (157 words)

My boyfriend didnt invite me to go see the movie and went with his friends instead! Am I overeacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf recently shifted to my city.its been 4months since he is in my city.earlier we were in a long distance relationship since 3 years.my bf planned out for a movie with his guy friends and he didnt invite me! this was really shocking for me.when i asked why,he said i cant ... (105 words)

My girlfriend wont have sex or go anywhere near my "man parts" when she's on her period.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong for me to be extremely frustrated at the fact that my girlfriend won't go anyone near my genitals when she's on her period? We can be hooking up and it will get intense and she'll stop us and tell me she "doesn't want to get too horny, it's not fair to me". This is ... (74 words)

I may have been too honest with her about my feelings, but I never thought I would find another woman who I could be with, and I don't know how to handle things.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Right, after the awful life I've had and been put thru by my ex gf and struggling to do anything for last 2n half years, somehow I've managed to find another lady out of the blue, because she knows of my past and my dislike for women and seeing them for nothing but mercenaries ... (438 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm putting the needs of a mutual friend of ours (who I also used to date) before his needs.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4367 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a big problem. There is guy one who I will call CV i grew up with him, I've known him for most of my life. we were best friends and then we ended up dating for a long time. And we broke up. Next there is MM who I met and dated for a long time too when me and CV d... (344 words)

I have a very popular and outgoing boyfriend, and my insecurities have become an obsession. Please I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone. I'm a really insecure person. I have a boyfriend whom I really love, and I suppose I should trust him. But my boyfriend is a really popular guy among the girls and many girls just tend to fall hard in love with him. They don't even hesitate to go for him despite ... (317 words)

How can someone who used to love me so much now seem to hate me when all I've done is be kind and thoughtful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A person that I am very close to is shutting me out. She has had some big problems in her life in the past few months and I have stuck by her all the way. I help her constantly but lately she is shutting me out. Lately when we hang out she is rude and mean. If I ask if shes ok ... (227 words)

Could he be seeing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I were dating for 3yrs, I helped him financial when needed for his mother's meds or and family members including his kids etc.everything went well or so I thought.he will be retiring the armed force in Feb next yr,and now all of a sudden he tells me he will be ... (163 words)

I need some help in writing a love message In my gf birthday card.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help in writing a love message In my gf birthday card. We have been together for nearly a year and it's serious. This is her first birthday together with me. So I would like to write a special message, or have some tips. Something's like, "ever since I met you, you ... (77 words)

How do I actually get over a girl and just continue with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am 17 I live in Massachusetts and I have a girlfriend who I care about a lot, I don't know if I love her which probably means I don't but maybe I do. I think too much and get really stuck on things involving relationships and girls as a result, for some reason nothing else ... (197 words)

I am embarrassed by my lack of sexual experience.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently a freshmen at college and go out regularly in the party scene where I meet a lot of nice and attractive guys who seem to be very interested. I'm not afraid to give out my number to a guy after talking to them at more then a couple parties in fact guys have giving ... (211 words)

How do users and abusers live with themselves?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have a generic question, the abusive boy friends or the ones who use people for their purpose and throw them away like dirt, how do they live with themselves, knowing that they hurt several people. I have a bf I believe soon to be ex, he stopped picking up my ... (173 words)

Should I tell my engaged co-worker that I have feelings for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to tell a co worker that I have feelings for him. I have liked him for a few months and the only problem is that he is engaged. The weddings not for like 2 years though. I wasn't planning on saying anything because he's not available. But he's having problems with his ... (135 words)