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He showed signs that he liked me, but when he found out I felt the same he has gone cold!

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Question - (17 December 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2012)
A female Philippines age 30-35, *angin writes:

He showed signs that he likes me but when he knew I like him too, he just seemed not to care anymore, why? Am I that easy? I'm afraid if he continues doing this, I'm giving up on him, there's a lot of guys out there. But why? He knows he's a hottie. Is he just using me for a good time chase? And when he got me he'll let go like he never like me? Is he a player or just a shy guy? Am I over thinking this? I need help.

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A male reader, scottmartinez2012 United States +, writes (18 December 2012):

scottmartinez2012 agony auntMost men tend work their whole time during the chase, once the chase is done then they relax and chill often coming out to be dis-concerned or even inconsiderate. Either this or he is a player.

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A female reader, Hangin Philippines +, writes (18 December 2012):

Hangin is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Okay, I don't want to waste my time thinking about that guy anymore even though I don't know if he's really a player or just playing hard to get. He's a guy, he must do the chase! If he continues to be like this, I'm done. Thanks!

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A male reader, learnNlive United States +, writes (17 December 2012):

Move on to the next one - he should be back if he likes you.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2012):

kenny agony auntIts hard to say, he could be a player who was enjoying the thrill of the chase then once he got you wasen't interested because the chase was over. He could be playing games, going cold on you, then expecting you to chase him, calling and texting him all the time. My advice here would be to leave it, don't go chasing after him, forget about him for now and get on with your life. If he really likes you he will most certainly re-establish contact with you, if he dosen't then there is your answer.

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