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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I had a vasectomy 4 years ago...so why was my wife was taking birth control pills?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Quick question for any women out there. I am married for 12 years, 3 kids, no "issues" per se. I’m a good dad, provider, etc. My wife is a good mom, hard worker and loves me. We went through a period though about 2-3 years ago for around 12 months where we were more ... (227 words)

Did I over analyze this situation? Or was my bf's behavior's a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I met that guy 6 monthhs ago through friends and we instantly became friends then developed a love relation, it was based on respect and honesty. He told me that he used to be a player in the past and I heard that from friends too. Based on my previous relations i ... (329 words)

Should I tell my bf that I have a crush on another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've been going out with this boy since August and it's been okay. I know that he loves me but I don't love him back I just really like and care for him. But, there's this other boy that I have liked for about 2 years and have recently started speaking to agai... (153 words)

I've fallen for a married man. How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just feel lost. Past year in my life had been so hard, last day of uni, my mother got ill. i was sole carer for my mother and brother, had just ended my long term r.ship with my b.f etc. Now uni is over, i've actually got a job. Mum is ok, we get support. But i just feel ... (187 words)

My parents want to meet my bf! Not sure if this a good idea...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I´ve been dating my bf for a quite long time. The thing is I know all his family already and I get along with them really good, because they are open minded people, funny and cheerful and I feel with them like I can talk to them about everything. But my bf hasn´t met my f... (141 words)

Should I break up with her? Is the bus an okay place to do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a couple months and after a while I have decided to break up with her, I just want to know if these are justified reasons for doing so. 1. She consistently talks to her friends about other guys, but keeps it a secret from me. (Althoug... (323 words)

I want my relationship to work, but I also want my life to take off finally and I keep thinking that if I wait one more year maybe he will be ready to move with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just pasted my 2nd anniversary with my boyfriend and I have been feeling like I need a change of scenery. I brought this to his attention and he is not ready to go any where. I considered Illinois cause that is where my mom is and the rest of my family. The only things I have ... (256 words)

Am I right or wrong for wanting for being upset over him winding me up over the fact that I've loaned him money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - just a minor issue really.. just want to know if im right or wrong... just leant my boyfriend £1000 towards a deposit on a new flat for him.. dont want to move in with him and have no probs with him paying me back at all.. just when I txt him to tell him i'd transferred the ... (220 words)

Do I pursue my sex life and lie to my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who has been there for me more than anyone else in the world and she is in love with me but i'm not in love with her even though i care deeply. I cannot imagine losing her. She says she will take just my friendship but still acts like a girlfriend. I te... (232 words)

Why am I so sad, instead of being mad at the way my married ex pressured me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age - I am in a really difficult situation. I have been in love with a man for 18 years. When I met him he was separated from his wife and I was newly divorced. We were together 4 years and then he returned to his wife and children. I was hurt but I understood and thought I was no ... (352 words)

I'm too shy to ask for sex and can't even touch him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm too shy to communicate with my partner about everything, I can't open up, I'm always quite,even when I want sex is not easy to ask him, worse part of it I can't even touch him,and it really make me sad, what must I do ? ... (46 words)

My ex girlfriend blows hot and cold about getting back together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here it goes. Me and my girlfriend of 2 years just broke up on Thanksgiving and it was a pretty rough break up. The thing is this Friday would have been our 2 year anniversary which is going to be a really rough day for me. Heres my question i guess i really dont understa... (251 words)

I don't think I'll ever measure up to society's standards

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a university student in a major that I enjoy. I've also been in a relationship for two years with a handsome man I love. But I just don't feel good about myself. I don't feel like I'm smart enough to get into graduate school like my boyfriend. I also have low confide... (148 words)

Now I'm being punished for what goes on in her mind only!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - For the past two years or so, my girlfriends insecurity has got worse and worse. I am constantly told who I am looking at, who I find attractive and told I am flirting with everyone she believes I find attractive. I have put up with a lot. I now find she has registered on a ... (165 words)

Should I tell her my true feelings? She is very friendly with everyone and I'm not sure if she will accept me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for ... (445 words)

Why does the man I used to love show more affection to his other family and not ours?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question I dated this one guy for many years .We ended up having two kids together then the relationship went down hill.He met someone else had kids by her and lied about it. Long story short I was this man's first love and I just don't understand why doesn't he do ... (170 words)

Why is he talking to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i was really good friends with this guy for 2 years. But then he got a girlfriend, and then stopped talking to me. They broke up really soon, but we still didn’t talk. Now, after a year, he’s commenting/liking my statuses and messaging me on fb again, just like we used to. Only ... (203 words)

My older boyfriend said we need a break so I can take some time to think about myself and my feelings, what does he mean by this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said this classical line "We need a break". I was shocked and all, but to tell the truth I was expecting it. Why? Well... you see... He's like 24 years older than me (he's 42, I'm 18), he's divorced, has 3 kids (two girls, 22 and 12, and a boy who's 16). But ... (639 words)

Was it wrong of me to tell my boyfriend to touch another part of my body as I don't enjoy him fingering me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex Question: I have been with my boyfriend for about two years and we have a great sex life. The one thing that I do not really like is when he fingers me. Everything else is great,but I feel like he can be a bit to aggressive in that department during foreplay. We have ... (387 words)

He is updating his profiles on dating sites and this is unsettling me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a guy for close to 8 months now. He has helped me a lot with issues from my previous relationship. (Had gotten out of a 2 year relationship and cut myself from my friends who dragged me out 7 months after when I met this guy). He's been with me and no matter t... (259 words)

How faithful can a girl can be in a LDR when temptations are everywhere?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, im in a ldr for about 7 months and we both are in love. due to our job and school compromises we wont be able to move together until in 2 years or so. so far we have been seeing each other every two months and will be on the same basis, maybe three months tops. we live in ... (145 words)

Why does my bf get upset if I ask questions about his drug use past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my bf get upset if I ask questions about his drug user past? He's pretty open about it and it almost sounds like he's proud of all the experience he has with drugs but as soon as I ask questions like how many times a day he used to shoot or when did he stop doing ... (131 words)

Do you think he could even be interested in me, and if he were to be, would it be possible for us to be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all, thanks in advance for reading. I’m sorry this is really long I just want you to get a real sense of what’s going on here! OK here’s the deal. There is this guy who recently moved to my area. He is about 2.5 years older than me, which isn’t a HUGE difference but t... (1042 words)

I do everything to keep the spark alive. How do I keep the flames growing in our long term relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

13 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - All advice is appreciated especially from those in long term relationships. I've been with my partner for 3yrs now and although that is not a long time to me, its a long time to some and I really hope to be with my partner in marriage. I'm always wanting to nurture our ... (110 words)

What will I do if he ends up in Jail? What I should do right now given the situation?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

13 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - To start off with, I'm a nineteen year old girl dating a nineteen year old male. We've been dating a little more than ten months now. There has never really been a fight between the two of us either, we get along quite well. Anyways, like all relationships, there are bumps on... (631 words)