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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he really not have any feelings for me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is angel and im 18. Well i just moved to my home state an my mom hand picked a guy out that i should date. Well to get to the point i fell head over heels for him. Well we moved in with his dad becase we both don't have the finances to into a house. Well since being ... (134 words)

Should I wait around or find someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Not really sure where to start. I am deeply in love with a man who does love me too. But there are complications... He has a son by an ex (who is Batsh-t crazy) theyve been apart three years. He is trying to win back custody and has major drama going on. He tells me he cant... (160 words)

Help me help my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend and we've been talking about his current problems and I keep telling him the same thing over and over again but now I don't know what to tell him. I would like some help to make him feel good again. You see, he just met this guy who he's been telling me about... (437 words)

I screwed up with the girl I really like!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so there is this girl that goes to my school that I really like, and I think she likes me back for a while too. But recently, I asked her to smoke weed with me and she agreed( it was her first time), and now it seems like she hates me, she has been ignoring my messages and ... (131 words)

When I want sex he says no, when he wants sex its a different story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - been with fiancee for almost 3 years. i had him wait to have sex for 8months when i decided to loose my virginity. i know how he use to be in the past he would have sex with every girl he met. we got together and that all changed it was jsut me he wanted but i wouldnt. 8 months ... (209 words)

My depression is getting in the way of my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey , im 19 still a virgin and have allways been very shy and not very confident, couple years ago got a new outgoing job and my confidence is looooads better, family have commented on it and so have my work mates, how ive 'come out of my shell' n stuff like that, ive had ... (681 words)

The affair was supposed to be just about sex!! He says it's getting too serious.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is probably a very old problem but I am married having a relationship with a married man off and on for the past 4 months. The relationship was under the understanding of just sex. I have been able to keep my marriage separate from anything we do but I don't think he ... (341 words)

Is this guy just friends or does he feel more deep down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when a guy likes you? I've been in my job for over two months and I am slowly making friends. There's one guy who i think is lovely but he has a very strict face and not every one's cup of tea. When he see;s im really stressed he will help me, he's t... (290 words)

My LDR girlfriend wants to see other people. I feel that she's playing games and sending mixed messages. Any advice/ thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids, I need some reassurance on my thoughts. Here's my story. I was in a LDR (couple of hours away) for the past 3 years and we began to fall apart last few months. We visited a lot and had the utmost respect for each other. Loved each other. There were bumps in the ... (626 words)

Boyfriend finished it because we're going to uni soon and he doesn't want to get more attached. What should I do and how do I get over the heartbreak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. My boyfriend broke up with me last week and my heart is so broken. He said as we're both going off to uni soon we'd have to split up at some point anyway and he thought we should do it now as he was already getting 'too attached' to me. I understand what he's saying... (131 words)

Mom can stop being critical of me. How do I handle this. Her comments are Very unkind.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My Mother is a total control freak and I can't get her to stop nagging me. I am 21 years old and have been on my on for just over two years but school and finances have left me in a position where I have to move back in with my parents. I pay them rent and do chores but it... (204 words)

My girlfriend's parents won't let me see her, HELP!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend's parents have something against me, and I have no clue what to do. The whole thing started when she was over at my house, and my dad was responsible for driving her home, and long story short, he wasn't available at the arranged time. When she called her dad for ... (384 words)

My ex wants to marry me, but I now have a child with another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a fe male of 22 years old.I dated my ex for about 7 years and during that period of seven years we have been breaking up and we were managing resolve our issues,2 years back i met this other guy which i dated for three years and now we have a son,recently i produced him ... (121 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want me to wear makeup or nice clothes

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for these past five months. I love him dearly but he's very possesive. He constantly tells me not to wear make-up and not to wear the latest trends, insisting on letting me wear only shabby clothes. When I tell him why, he just tells me that I wear ... (105 words)

What if I miss out on something great because in my mind I can't overcome fear of the wrong that could happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone,I dont normally talk bout the fact that i am single but im on a very self destructive path and im not sure how to get out of it. I am 29 i have just seen so much badness. People cheat all the time. Its so common. Its after making me afraid to enter into a ... (239 words)

She told me to date other women. Trying to forget her but it's hard. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met this single mom from a dating website. Things were going great. Until I began to be unsure about dating her. I thought she would be better off dating someone that was on her level(career wise, ect.). She replied to me by saying "I'm not going to force you to meet me, ... (332 words)

What should I do about this teacher who seems to be ignoring me because he has probably found out about the crush I have on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, I have has a crush on this teacher in my school for about 6 or 7 months now and I decided to tell my best friends 3 months ago and ever since then he has been ignoring me ( my guidance teacher knows ) and one of my friends was tricked into telling one of the boys in my ... (162 words)

Rebuilding our friendship after an argument, what do I get this friend as a birthday gift?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone.(Early) happy holidays! So the story goes; Early April last year, me and two (at that time ONLY) close friends had a small argument that ended with the "silent treatment". The "silent treatment" lasted from April, through June (end of school/beginning of summ... (241 words)

How can I help? What can my Girl friend do about her obsessed ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriends has an obsessed man who just refuses to leave her alone he keeps texting her and she can't change because her number is on her C.Vs that she has given in Her mother has passed away recently and today is her burial,I could not attend the funeral because my mum i... (83 words)

What you do if your BF and ex wanted both wanted to marry you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If you were a gal and you had a child and both your baby's father and your ex boyfriend wanted to marry you, and you loved both of them, then,what would you do?... (33 words)

My guy is going bald - HELP!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My guy is going bald!!!!!! I dont want to leave him, but he looks too elder than me! What do I do? He is ready to do anything if I have the solution..Pls help me! He is just 25! and Am 23 !! :-( :-( Am so sad abt his baldness..Am trying to support him but I really want a ... (62 words)

Does it sound like this girl could be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

22 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 yr old high school senior male in high school. I saw this mexican girl looking at me one time when we were in passing periods and I looked back at her and didn't look away until she did, but then she had like an irritated/dirty look on her face. Idk which one it was. ... (210 words)

What kind of orientation is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a young woman and I have never really considered my sexual orientation too much before, but now I'm confused. I only consider men 'hot', not really women. Rarely, though, there is the occasional woman that I can recognize as very attractive, appearance wise. However, when ... (174 words)

Breakup after two and a half years - how do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years have just broken up. Our relationship had gotten to the point where we were fighting every second day, and neither of us were truly happy anymore. I love him more than anything- we were best friends as well. I honestly don't know how ... (118 words)

In the last year my fiance's desire has gone down, and where once he lasted an hour, now it is five minutes.Any suggestions to improve things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my fiancce for a large part of my teen years. We are engaged now. When we started having sex he used to last about an hour or longer in bed. but lately this year our sex life has gone down hill for me. he doesnt do foreplay anymore and he only wants sex wh... (146 words)

I laughed when he said he loved me - even though I love him too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I have been talking to a really good guy friend of mine of late and we are really close. we joke about everything and flirt all the time and last night whilst he was drunk he told me that he was serious about loving me. today I asked if he remembered what he said to me ... (148 words)

Should I trust my husband? He cheated with my sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my is love marriage,iam 30yrs and having 9 monhts baby girl,i got shock when i came to know that my husband and my elder sis having a relationship since one and half year in my 2yrs of marriage.i consider her as mother and she knew about it even though she taken the advantage ... (265 words)

I am totally into him. And he's leaving for abroad in January. But has he just pranked and punked me? Was he never into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

22 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - the whole story began in february. actually we had holidays but i did an extra uni course and stayed at the student's dormitory and so did some other students... there was my neighbour who is single. he came over to watch tv and chat a few times (i don't know if he only did t... (1076 words)