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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should my next move be with this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy declared his love to me about two weeks ago, but i told him i couldn´t just go with him because i was dating this other guy who's been longer with me. Though we might break up. I told guy#1 that i wouldn't break up with my guy because of him, but we still talked a l... (437 words)

Her Fiance was caught cheating. How can I help her see him more clearly and help her heal from her blinded love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i convince my friend that her to-be-husband is not worth keeping? all her family have had many doubts before with no hard evidence, but now he has been caught with a women in their village. Relatives saw them and told her. Yet she wouldn't believe anyone and keeps... (72 words)

How can I determine if he is just a really nice guy, or is he also interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed, asked out, or even had anybody hold my hand. I think this is because I use to give off an aura that I wasn't approachable, but that isn't the case anymore. I really really like this guy who is a cou... (237 words)

Did my Ex ever really move on? Why does he still get so mad at me? How am I annoying him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok everyone, here it goes. Sorry if I am rambling a bit. Lately, I have been having trouble with my EX. I should add that it has been a year and a half since we split…..we are both in our 30's. He broke it off with me, saying he wasn't ready for a relationship this serious... (573 words)

What can I do? My husband focuses on details in an argument to avoid answering questions! Drives me nuts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I just got married in September, after being together two and a half years. We were driving home from his friends house the other night and talking about relationships and how funny people can get when they notice one small thing about someone and start to... (451 words)

I'm the one with the crush. And he has a Gf. Am I getting mixed signals from him or does he just really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've know this guy for about 2yrs, we met at my job (I work at a bank and he deposits there). Even though I've known him for 2 yrs, we started talking about a year ago. We get along well. we sort of have the same sense of humor so when we are around each other we always ... (635 words)

I thought he was cool. But he's talking about me to others and my private messages to him are being re-posted to others. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy because he seems cool and funny but not romantically. sometimes i send him pms. however he is making a huge deal out of it. apparently he's been telling people i pm him and now they are joking saying i'm his gf. They are talking about me behind my back. They a... (78 words)

Is he just bored and curious that he's looking up all these women on Facebook? Or should I be concerned? I'm losing trust in him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an issue I'm needing help with. I've recently found out that my husband has been looking up his ex wife, my ex best friend and several (even our next door neighbor's daughter who used to work at hooters) other chicks on Facebook to the extent that I consider it stalk... (278 words)

I'm a straight guy with a fetish. Can this fetish be satisfied? And if not, then how can I move on from this fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

8 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old mostly straight male. Ever since I was in my early teens, I have been extremely aroused at the idea of hanging with a buddy and us both being shirtless with our arms around each other. At times when I've been able to do this, which have been very few, it ... (302 words)

He was so happy about the baby. But will he still be there for me now that he's moved on? I can't let go of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I'm new in this thing. Five months pregnant, my bf of 5years just broke up with me. When this happened I found some msgs in his phone to another gal telling her he wants to sleep with her, I confronted him about it he admitted it. And I apologised because I was too hurt and... (261 words)

Marriage hurts and I don't know how to be a good wife. Do I stop trying to find the right man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age - I have been married 4 times the longest 18 years and the shortest 2weeks...I have been celibate for 3 years. What I have learned is that marriage hurts and I don't know how to be married. I know I was a good mother. But as for being a wife I didn't know how to be a wife. The ... (222 words)

LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For various reasons on both sides, w... (514 words)

How do I create a good impression when I meet family of my boyfriend next week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - OKAY Development: my bf's brother invited me round next week after 5 months and I want to make a good impression and look good. Do you have any amazing tips other than 'being myself' he is still very embarrassed and I am terrified. My bf's bro's girl friend was like, "you ca... (83 words)

We get on really well, but he said he needs sex, but I'm a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 20 a while ago. I'm a virgin. I'm single and always have been. Dated a couple of guys, but things ended horribly and I ended up hurt. Even though I am a virgin, I have done other things, nearly everything that comes before it, such as a handjobs, blowjobs, I'... (1594 words)

Should I dump a sucker like him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Since I met my boyfriend, I have constantly been spending and spending because of him. First of all, he wanted to come and visit me in my country. Unfortunately, he had no money to pay the ticket. So, I agreed to pay the ticket including the rent. We agreed that he’ll give me ... (331 words)

How could he be over me so quickly after a seven month relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago, he broke up with me three weeks ago because he wanted to find himself and needed his alone time i guess but it didnt last that long before he wanted me back cuz he regretted it immediatley and missed me, but it all started ... (310 words)

How do I get out of this lonely place where I want a relationship but don't seem to find the spark with anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm single for almost 3 years now and I long for a new relationship. I take care of myself, I'm not Scarlett Johanson but I get told I'm pretty every now and then, I have an active life, go out, do dancing classes, meet new people, but I really miss the intimacy that nothing ... (263 words)

How do I convince my traditional parents about my choices without hurting them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hii im from traditional indian family where in marriages will be mostly arranged... and i was totally ok with what my parents suggest.. but from past 2 years im committed to a friend... now i wish to marry him... i cant accept anyone else as my life partner.. its h... (254 words)

I like two of my cousins. They are both great guys but I don't know which one to choose. Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, Sorry if this seems long now by some chance,but i really need advice! So Basically, There are these two guys which i like,but the problem is that they are both cousins. The thing is like i like one of the guys because he is gorgeous, extremely hot, love his eyes, s... (284 words)

Can I fix my marriage? If the answer is "yes", then what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i are at the end of our marriage, I think. I made mistakes. When I was dating her i was also dating another. I proposed to her with hickies from another woman on me. While married i felt feelings for her sister for 2 weeks and just recently i told another woman i ... (192 words)

Why am I so hesitant about having sex with this man? What could be holding me back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age - I met this man on an online dating site. The first time we went out he scared me be the way he was over excited to see me. He literally ran towards me to hug me I felt so frightened that I automatically put my hands up. We had talked on the phone for about 3 months and I rea... (336 words)

Am I texting too much? Do my old classmate and I have a budding LDR or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age - I recently saw an old classmate on FB. He graduated 79 and I 80. So he sent me his number and I called well at first it was merely to just chat with the guy that caught my eye way back when but I was with my boyfriend who later became my husband. So we chatted and he s... (324 words)

Is he over his ex wife? I feel like his second best wife, considering his need to still keep pictures of his ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi could you please give me some advice?? I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and have been really happy. The problem is that recently he has put some old pictures on his pc. These pictures are from years ago of his kids growing up which is fine. He has a... (253 words)

How can I avoid becoming one of her punching bags at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What makes some people fly off the handle so quickly? There is this woman at work. I have heard her get so aggressive so quickly at work. She acts like she has to fight so fiercely over issues that are nothing more than day to day things. So far I have escaped her anger, but I ... (110 words)

Is he being too needy or am I just wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all! I always have received amazing advice from this site and I really need some now. There is this guy, let's call him S. S and I have been friends since a few months. We were introduced through common friends. I found him to be nice and decent and I felt comforta... (1091 words)

Should I try to develop a relationship with her? I don't want to cause an office drama

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

8 December 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I am madly infatuated with my female coworker. Sometimes, I get the impression that she is just a player. She is my office girl, who helps out with my paperwork. I had asked her out for lunch once before, and she said her car had to go in for repairs at lunch. She didn't o... (591 words)

How do I deal with my anxiety over this science teacher? She puts me on the spot, I want to run from the room.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi... Okay this is going to sound proper weird but recently we got a new science teacher for chemistry... me and my bf are in the same class and he said he is good at chemistry because he has chemists in his family. Thing is we met in science like a year and a bit ago and li... (180 words)

What do I need to consider and keep in mind to attract the positive attention and interest of girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - People have told me that I could be good with girls. My friends and family tell me that I'm not ugly and that I could I get a girlfriend if I wanted to. (I don't have any female friends) Whenever I'm at school I walk by myself or sit by myself and whenever I see girls ask th... (140 words)

Did I ruin the relationship, due to my dislike of porn? Or are there bigger issues of concern in this relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Disclaimer: This is long but I really need advice and help. Please! I'm having a hard time letting go of my ex boyfriend. We were together for 20 months and just broke up last Sunday. We were living together the past 2.5 months. He was my first love and the guy I gave my vi... (1144 words)

Is my feeling likely to be accurate? That my boyfriend is being deceitful in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - DearCupid I have been with a guy for 5 1/2 years. I really love him very much but I feel he is being deceitful in our relationship. I have a friend (female) that whenever she comes around he acts completely different towards me and towards her. For example we will seem... (337 words)

How can I keep a friendship with her and be OK with her being with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a staight woman who has fallen in love with my female best friend. We met in high school over 13 years ago. After a year of friendship we had feelings for each other and started a secret sexual relationship. Now we are both mothers she's been married and divorced and we are ... (97 words)

We broke up after we argued. How can I convince her to give me another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My Gf almost made it 2 years together, but we Got in this huge Fight, we always fight but never this bad.. We were texting each other and she told me she Loves me but we can't be together. I didn't know how to respond so i just said Alright. But i keep crying Everyone keeps... (108 words)

How can I stop being hurt by the break-up with my husband when he was never good for me in the first place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I stop being hurt by my husband when he was never good for me and over the idea of getting back together with him for our child's sake? Been married 6 years, currently separated (2nd time) and have a two year old son. Lots of bad stuff happened in our marriage and it ... (230 words)

I can't tell whether or not she's interested.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4366 days ago

8 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for few weeks now. This past week things have got a bit heated between us in a good way, however she keeps telling me about guys she comes across or speaks to who like her but she doesnt. It always makes me wonder why she tells me? She doesnt s... (98 words)

Although I'm getting an abortion, hiding the pregnancy is taking its toll on me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

- Last week I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend's child. I'm 5 weeks in, and I've been going out with my bf for just over 9 months. I'm to say the least.... totally devastated. This was a complete accident and neither of us ever had any intention to have a child, not for ... (315 words)

I am confused by his response! Does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a dilemma right now. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 .5 years now, I love him and I believe he loves me too. We are both currently not working, and struggling financially. He is 24 years old, and I am 22. I just got offered a job out of state, and the only... (345 words)

I don't know if he's wanting to date, or just hang out as friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I work with that I think likes me, we're supposed to be hanging out for the second time next week and I don't know if it's a date or just friends hanging out. He doesn't work in the same area as I do, so he'd be relatively easy to avoid if we tried dating ... (276 words)

Is it normal that it mentally kills me she has had sex with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Long story short, many years ago my wife and I had some problems that caused us to be seperated for about six weeks. In that time she moved in with another man, then we got back together. Is it normal that it mentally kills me she has had sex with someone else? It really... (145 words)