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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does anybody have any advice on homosexuality in Indian culture or advice on what I should do with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a lesbian who is out of the closet, I'm confident in my sexuality and after a tricky few years, have spent the last couple of years enjoying full acceptance from my parents. I have been dating an Indian girl for the past few months (I am Caucasian, we are both in our ... (281 words)

My Ex took my daughter to meet his new "friend" and they stayed the night at hers!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I desperately need to get this off my chest and see what other people thought. my ex has our 4 yr old daughter every other weekend, and yesterday was one of them. Today i found out he took her to London to meet his new "friend" and they stayed the night at hers! Now bare... (136 words)

Lies are destroying my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello dear readers so i'm with my gf for 3 years and 6 months. Yes i know it's a lot. I just finished graduation so searching for a job. Well my problem is that i caught my gf on different small lies that concerns money. I'm not stupid, every one has money issues and doesn't ... (247 words)

How do you know if your're fighting for love or just plain fooling your self?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, How do you know if your're fighting for love or just plain fooling your self. I split from my bf 8 months ago and we have not spoken since. We we were together 2 years, he was the first guy i loved, i freaked because of the break up. so scared of losing him, b... (305 words)

Had my chance, didn't take it. Is it too late now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. Long story short, I met this girl in Aug 2011. She had a boyfriend and broke up in Oct 2011. In January 2012 I really started to make a move. I took her to lunch and she made it obvious that she liked me a lot. We hung out several times and started talking a good bit. But, ... (417 words)

I'd like him to take the lead in organizing our weekends together! Ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Helllo, hope you can help me with something! It isn't a big deal but I would like some input on this issue because it's bothering me a bit. :) I drive, and my boyfriend doesn't. We live about a 50 mins drive apart, and fairly often I drive over to his house on week-day ev... (276 words)

He doesn't want to have sex and puts his friends before me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After ending a 10 year relationship i begun a relationship with a friend who i really love. He is 43 years old and appears to be a commitment phobic! We have always had a good sex life....in the 8 months we have been together. Recently he does not seem to want to have sex and i ... (112 words)

No contact in a week from b/f and I have no idea why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend hasnt talked to me for a week, We've been dating for 4months now (going into 5) he hasn't replied nto my texts or to my calls. My mind tells me he's cheating. My heart tells me hes busy. But you,see he's parents'dont care bout him.His dad beats him and his mom ... (138 words)

Two guys to choose between ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please i really need some help on a decision i will have to make very soon! basically i have this friend iv known for a good few months we actually met for the 1st time a few years ago but we hadnt seen each other after that until a few months ago, he was in a very heavy going ... (160 words)

15 months after breakup we are still friends. I know I need to end things all together but I'm too weak!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone I have been on this site before and had some lovely replies. My partner who I loved deeply end our relationship just over a year ago. I was totally devastated. (we are both mid forties). Then 6 months after the split we started texting and then met up and... (236 words)

How do I get b/f to perform anal sex again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Had anal sex for the first time loved it want to do it again but not sure my boyfriend is into this how can I get him to be for it. ... (31 words)

Reconciled and remarried your ex-spouse?

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2 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Reconciled and remarried your ex-spouse? Know of others in your circle that have done this? I could have this potential and am looking to hear stories of others. How long were you married? How long seperated and divorced before remarrying? Any relationships in between? How far ... (88 words)

What would my partner do if I suddenly stand up and be strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, roughly for the last two years in my 3 year relationship i have realised that i have been a pushover. for example if he threatened to leave i would beg him back etc, i apologise for nearly everything, if hes angry or upset i cry afterwards, i constantly try t... (128 words)

He's always needing money, always questioning my feelings for him, and never wants to go out or do anything.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months, I love his personality and sense of humor...but seems like he never has any money and he makes more than i. he asked me a couple of weeks ago to make his house payment for him because he was three months behind, while i didnt ... (337 words)

New man wants to take a break because of my crazy ex husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm currently going through a divorce from an emotionally/verbally/physically abusive marriage. We have been separated for 4 mths and divorce is in process.. I started dating one of my good friends about a month ago.. This past week ex started causing problems. Texting me, ... (433 words)

My boyfriend and I are very different when it comes to being social.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please help.! my boyfriend and me are very different.hes so obsessed with going out with this other couple. i dont really wanna hang out with those two. but i'm kinda forced to. i'm the romantic type. he means a lot to me.but hes not. hes more realistic. he love clubbing and ... (143 words)

I have to fantasize about my fat fetish in order to achieve orgasm.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Like many people, I have a fat fetish, I am a 'Fat Admirer', I like big bellies. This in itself isn't a problem- my problem is that thinking of these fantasies is the only thing that gives me an orgasm; both during masturbation and during foreplay and sex with my part... (153 words)

How long do women need foreplay before being turned on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I've read an artice on internet which showed something different what I've knew until now. In this article is mentioned that to turn a woman on needs at least 15 minutes foreplay and sometimes even more( I thout 5 to 10 minutes its enough) even thought this depends ... (103 words)

The date went really well, but now he's acting rather off with me, is it because I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, okay a little bit about me so you can get the gist of my situation afterwards. I'm 20 years old, female, living in London, I'm a virgin, I've never had a boyfriend, I have only one guy before, but things ended extremely badly before it reached the relationsh... (798 words)

My sister caught me watching porn and I'm afraid she'll tell my parents.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - my sister caught me watching porn. im to scared to talk to her now. she's always so nosey, she reads my diary and stalks me, i know i shouldn't be watching porn, and i have tried to curve the habit. how can i make it seem not that bad? what is she tells my parents. it started ... (146 words)

Do I tell her how I feel, or do I leave it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Back in highschool i met a girl (3 years ago) . And overtime we got really close. And become like best friends. everyone was expecting us to start dating. And as a guy i did have feelings for her. But since i could get hotter chics i didnt want to screw with her not she is not ... (395 words)

While researching traits of an abusive partner, I discovered that not only does my partner show these, so do I.Can you have an abusive partner that makes you abusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, ive been reading through a lot of different things e.g internet, and posting on here trying to figure out how to make my relationship better. but along the way i have found that my boyfriend may be abusive. however when i was researching etc some of the trai... (122 words)

A friend has asked me to have a threesome with himself and another male friend of his. Should I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A man I have liked quietly for some time and known for over a year reently messaged out the blue with a few out of character messages. We have always just been casual friends as he is with many people. These messages were very come onish and at first I assumed he was deunk. ... (163 words)

Porn rears it's ugly head, again!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

2 December 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone i have been with my bf for 6 yrs now. About 6 months back i found porn on his laptop.he apologized, we broke up and patched up again. He promised he would not watch again. I posted here regarding that and i got many answers which helped me to overcome the ... (141 words)

I'm thirteen weeks pregnant, and the father is my best friends new boyfriend. How do I tell them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little over 3 months pregnant (13 weeks) and I still haven't told the father of my child as he's my oldest friends new boyfriend. They met after we had a one night stand at a joint friends house party. We both were drunk and I had no intention of starting a relationship ... (181 words)

I am so tired of feeling like hes lying, on internet dating sites, or having an affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year sex was grea for a long while, one night he came home from work and i looked in his phone and found out he was talking to a ex 5 states away he told me he talked to her once a month which was a lie one ... (311 words)

Is running out of things to say normal in a long distance relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm away in a different country for 3 months (my bf and i have been together for 2 years). We talked about how important communication is, so we are writing each other messages almost every day. However when we can skype (once a week) then it seems like most of the time we run ... (168 words)

I'm emotionally attached to him but got caught up in a mess. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He came as a visitor whom I received. I was almost 18 and he was 29. We texted each other after our official meeting. He was very flirty and asked whether I was single. We planned to have coffee, but he got lost and his tour guide picked him up. He wanted to meet me later in ... (382 words)

I don't want or feel like having sex EVER!! My husband gets grumpy & moody, and keeps dropping hints about sex.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok,.. here is the deal,.. and I know I'm not alone here. I don't have a sex drive anymore, I don't want it, don't need it. Of course my other half says he'll be patient,... NOT! About once every month or 2 I'll give in, and even though I'm not in the mood,.. I'll walk in the ... (475 words)

Saw my best friends fiancée on a dating website. Should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have joined a dating site. I have seen a profile of my life long best friends soon to be wife. She is active on it and it says she is single. What do I do? If I told him would it end up where she lies to him and I get classed as a trouble causer? If I dont tell him, then one ... (93 words)

How to get over being angry with in laws ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We get along just fine but I don't get along with his mom nor his brother because when we started dating his brother out of the blue without even meeting me told my boyfriend that I was no good for him and that I was ... (261 words)

Do I love my wife? I like/love other women too. Am I a person who loves many women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

2 December 2012 (M) age 41-50 - I think this is a common issue... I am not so sure. But I am in a condition that I have love/likeness for other women than my wife. I have emotional relationship with few women. we share our thoughts and flirt. I keep in touch with them always. i know it is a matter of infideli... (236 words)

Girlfriend can't have sex due to a "mental block". What can we do to ease the anxiety?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Please help, my girlfriend and I are not having sex. We broke up for a little while and have been back together a couple of months now but have only had sex a few times. She says it's because it has now developed into a mental block for her, and she feels more pressure wi... (134 words)

In love with my friend but she wants me to leave her alone. She's my best friend and I miss her ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm back. I'm female and been in love with my best friend also female. This summer she been in and out of mental hospital for bipolar disorder. We recently been back friends. I want us to be more than friends but she only want to be just friends. I'm still in love an... (107 words)

Why is my ex doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - We were done. Over with. Almost a year and a half ago. We still had the same friends, so I see him every morning. We didnt talk much, but if we ever did on facebook we would have these mind blowingly long conversations. Sometimes we were friendly, sometimes we poked fun at each ... (242 words)

While house-sitting for my girlfriend, I discovered she is not the person she lead me to believe she is.

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months and I thought things were going great. We got serious very quickly however and ended up spending almost every day together. Lately I've felt very uncertain about several things I've discovered. First off, I was housesit... (341 words)

My long distance girlfriend (another country) won't move to be with me for two and a half years. I don't think I can wait that long.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - im in a ldr with an awesome girl, we both love each other very much, im in america in she is in europe. we have been together for 6 months only but i miss her so much that is painful. she has just told me she wants to finish school in her country and until then she will move to ... (193 words)

Would like to hear some advice about being with a widower

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Would like to hear some advice about being with a widower How do you know if they're ready, and can they be very warm and flirty one day, and more withdrawn, though still very friendly, another time? I really like this guy, he's been widowed just over 1.5 years. Sometimes... (162 words)

My father-in-law scolded me for something I didn't do. and my husband didn't come to my defense.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hii...i am from a cultured family... today mu husbands father scolded me infront of him for the mistake which i have not done....he didnot give me chance to explain my version...my husband remained silent through out this topic...later he just spoken good with me and his ... (75 words)

I want to approach him about hanging out with me, but don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, so i've had this crush on this guy since university started. he's 25 and i'm 18 and he's currently doing his masters but we have one class together because he needs the class to get into medschool. we've had lab class and lectures together and we get alo... (262 words)

I have three guys I'm interested in and don't know which one to choose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, I have some trouble with love. There are 3 guys in my life that caught my attention. 1 texts me alot keeps in contact his name is Ryan he also shows that he likes me. The second one is called Patrick he has trouble with emotions since his ex kinda messed him ... (298 words)

Could my boyfriend be cheating with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Help everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In the very beginning of our relationship he had left his iPad opened and nosey me checked out his Facebook . Well I came across a message he wrote to an ex saying how "he missed her and hoped to talk one day" well I ... (341 words)

My dad saw one of the dirty pics that I had sent my B/f!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend now have a long distance relationship... in order to keep things "interesting"... we send each other pictures. The other night I sent him a bunch of pictures and they were sitting on my desktop. The next day I was in the room with my dad on my computer ... (146 words)

Any good ideas for anniversary gifts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my Boyfriend for 1 year now and our anniversiry and my birthday are tomorrow and i cant think of what to get him and Christmas is right around the corner. Anybody have any ideas of what to get him.... He is into four wheelers and things like that.... (52 words)

He says he loves me and wants to be with me, so why is he not making it happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - well my story of how me and my mm got together started out at work. Began innocent talking and sharing our life experiences/feelings. It felt great for the both of us as we hadn't had that in such a long time. It progressed into staying late together and meeting after work. ... (791 words)

What gives girls the right to be angry with men who did not respond to their advances and rejected them in the past?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

2 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - A little over a month ago I moved back to my hometown after many years of absence. Since returning I have had a few "blast from the past" encounters (in the shape of eye contact and non-verbal communication only, mostly over the frozen chicken isle in Tesco), with female ... (428 words)

Can a relationship work out the 2nd time around?

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2 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex has recently asked me if i want go give our relationship another go and i wondered if anyone had any views on if it can work. He cheated on me while on a lads holiday so after he confessed i ended it but as we lived together he moved into the spare room till we got it all ... (167 words)