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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Nauseated after rough sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering if this has happend to anyone. My bf just got out of jail and we had rough sex, but since then I feel so nauseated and dont knw why.. Plz help..... (35 words)

My friend stuck her used vibrator in my boyfriend's face

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently ive found myself in a strange situation and its one i never thought i would expect to deal with in a relationship and i truly hope no woman ever has to deal with this. I know your all thinking you boyfriend cheated on you. Wrong. So it was recently my 21st birthday... (518 words)

My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it was a long time ago. All th... (376 words)

Was my reaction appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I am deeply hurt and can't think straight. I broke up with my boyfriend last year because he was using another girl picture(he claims to be his cousin) as his profile picture on facebook and i suspected cheating. When I told him I was breaking up with him he said ... (392 words)

Our trio has become a duo and I'm the odd man out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Evening folks, So, about two years ago, I went to this night school and I got on well with two other people. So well in fact, that even up to now, we're still close friends - and always meeting up together and stuff. However, as is expected with things posted on this site, th... (343 words)

I need help decoding this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I posted a question about this guy a bit ago...He is a bit older than me so I wasn't sure how things would work between us but then we kinda went on a quasi-date, it was really fun and he's so easy to be with and I'm trying to decode him and figure out if he is actually ... (264 words)

My girlfriend wants me to meet her online friend from England

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys. I ve seen from my GF`s FB page that she sent a message to this guy from England (whom she's never met in person) asking him if hes coming to visit soon and also wrote that its been a long time since they talked. So this guy was introduced by her English guy frie... (351 words)

My mother's boyfriend treats my brother very badly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've spent a lot of time at my mum and her boyfriend's house this week and I've heard him call my brother a little scrote, douchebag, idiot, prick, pillock. He also threated to smash his wii and cut his signed football in half. He has also banned him from seeing his school f... (118 words)

How can I set things right with my old friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know how to put things right between me and and old friends.We had an argument because I was sick of being pushed aside and not being treated right and being spoken to in the attitude I was. It was usetting me and I was advice to say something to him. Shortly later ... (697 words)

I don't think my wife loves me anymore, but another woman has taken an interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs and married for four. we have a child together, she is 2. I have two teenagers that live with us. she does the world for them and me even when I wasn't working, but even when I was working she has been emotionless no sex and very lit... (267 words)

How can I break it to my friend that the magic is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends and I recently decided that there might be some kind of chemistry between us... We decided to go on a real date and see where things went... The date was awful. It was awkward and we had nothing to talk about. I'm not sure if it was just the environ... (234 words)

About to get married, but am I am settling? We're more best friends and I love him but not "in love".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for the last 12 years. My fiancé and I have one child together. My fiancé has recently asked me to marry him and I said yes because I feel like that we should be married and thats what the next step is. For a long time I have felt like I have jus... (142 words)

I'm sick of being skinny

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a girl, 14 years old. i dont get my period yet and i am very skinny. i have small boobs. i dont wear a bra and my weight is 30 kg (66 lbs). i dont eat enough, 1 time in the day. i cant eat i dont know why. please help! all my friends always tell me skiny skiny girl ha ... (90 words)

How can I bring my girlfriend to orgasm without intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How should i give orgasm to my girl friend? we are in relationship but we didn't made sex. we just work on activities like handjob,fingering, kissing etc... i want to please her as much as i can. please help me....... (43 words)

When a guy writes "xxxx" to you, does it mean he likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Well, there's this guy I like. I have known him for awhile. We hugged and stuff but just recently he has been talkin to me more than usual. After talking with him he put after his text, xxxx. Now I know xoxo means Hugh's and kisses but could xxxx mean more? ... (51 words)

My ex said we can get back together if things don't work out with her current boyfriend, but I can't handle the thought of her giving her virginity to someone else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - The relationship with my ex-girlfriend is a long and complicated one so I’ll try to explain it as clearly and concise as possible. (The names used are not the real names of people involved) We first started dating during our sophomore year of high school. She had been in ... (826 words)

Had an amazing date with my friend but now haven't heard from him for a week. Was he making excuses when he cancelled another date? We are both in relationships with other people.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have this friend L, we to talk to each other/hang out with friends etc. Nothing ever happened as he has a gf and I have a bf and he was moving to another country. However, we were both unhappy with our relationships and we do talk to each other as friends. As h... (318 words)

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachother, always needing to be talking ... (340 words)

BF loves to cuddle and I can't sleep! Is it because I'm too warm, or because he's in my space too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there... basically I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now really very happy together got a real good honest relationship. I have an issue he is really cuddly, I on the other hand am not so much. I do enjoy a hug now and again but when in bed he tries to put ... (251 words)

How can I get my friend to accept that I don't have any romantic interest in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for about a year, and for a lot of that time he's had a crush on me. We are both 20, and in college. We are good enough friends that the crush is "out in the open" and we have discussed it without too much awkwardness. Unfortunately ... (346 words)

Will my ex's new lesbian partner leave their same-sex marriage and go back to liking men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted a question here recently and have another one. I'm a lesbian and my ex left me for another women who has only been with my ex. And they got married after 6 weeks. Do you think she can stay married to her, or will she go back looking for a guy?... (57 words)

Why can't my ex accept that we're not going to be together anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy that I have been knowing for many many many years, we use to see each other. He was a great person when I first met him then when we started going out he took me on ride that I wished I had never got on. This beast was nothing but a woman beater, he was the scum of ... (186 words)

How should I proceed with girl I flirt with a lot over texts and what sorts of things should I be talking about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known this girl who is nearly year now, we have been talking for thst long and only recently we started talking alot. We used to talk about other people, and few issues she had but i was never first port of call. Recently we have started talking alot by text and lots... (202 words)

My boyfriend never wants to socialise with my friends. Is he being selfish and want can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my boyfriend of 3 years never wants to do anything with my group of friends, it always has to be his. For example tonight, we were invited to a NYE party with my friends weeks ago but he has been hesitating about going to it. I have asked him what he would rather do and h... (252 words)

How long to get over a break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - He was the third bf. My first ex was my first love - we were together 2 years and I got over him in one year, the second I got over in one month. But this one, we were together just around one year but I can't get over him at all. I was strongly in love with him and I still ... (151 words)

Ok I need to get this of my chest why is this girl saying this and talking this stuff about me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, here it goes my brothers gf is saying that she loves me when she hugs me every time I hug her. It was weird she went to hug me and my brother step in the way of the hug like he did not know that I was going to hug her then she step back like wtf are you doing but did not ... (167 words)

I thought we were in love, but she was out cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a lesbian, and my girlfriend of 3 years, I just found out has been cheating on me , she's moved in with the other women a block away from me and they got married today!! All in 6 weeks!! And they say they are soul mates!!! How would you feel about this?? Cause I'm so hurt ... (71 words)

I usually pick the losers and jerks - I'm scared to see what happens this time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've started talking to this guy that has a lot in common with me, its like we can constantly talk and not get tired of each other. I have never been able to talk to someone like this and it feels really weird, and Im afraid I am going to say something really stupid and ... (171 words)

I don't know what to think. Why is he flirty and happy to see me and then he turns away and ignores me?

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31 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I realllllyyy like this boy and I mean so much. I don't even care about any other boy who walks by me cause all I can think about is the guy I like. I want him and I could care less about any other guy. We're friends right now and I don't want to make any kind of move bec... (164 words)

Any advice? My GF tells me on sms chat she want sex, but then won't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in relationship. i and my girl friend make romance frequently.. but not sex. she always tell me that she wanted to have sex on sms chat. but when we are together, she don't allow me to do so. we had given each other hand jobs. any advice?... (49 words)

Need some advice on getting back into the dating pool

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3.5 years and I broke up about 2 months ago. Last year we went through some tough times, even going to therapy together. All the time he telling me he wanted to marry me and we had the same goals. I dont really believe in living together first, but i even was ... (335 words)

What's wrong with my relationship with my Gf? She seems to find fault with me all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been going out with this girl for a while now and have been enjoying every moment we are together. Ever since we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend, she has been shooting me down. For instance, I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said, "I don't kn... (92 words)

I'm not sure about her behaviour - is she a flake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4373 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been seeing this girl, and i can't lie, she's confusing the crap out of me. we met about two months ago when she started working with me. one night, a few work friends, including her, all went out for drinks, and after everyone left, she came straight out and admitted she ... (317 words)

Is this a one sided relationship where I initiate all the actions to support the relationship and her? Yet her efforts to support the relationship are scant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's and have been together for 8 months. We love each other very much but it seems like I'm the one always doing the "little things": helping with her kids, shuttling them from place to place, writing her letters, ending flowers, bringing... (382 words)

Is she too proud to admit she made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - 3 months ago I heard my ex flirting on the phone with a man, which really hurt me and made me write a touching goodbye message to her. She told me she loves me and didn't want me to leave her. I ignored her for two weeks to hurt her back but she was heartbroken over it and ... (268 words)

Should I respond to ex's new GF's message?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship a few years ago which lasted two years. Now we're just friends, although we don't keep in touch, we do meet up whenever we happen to be in one another's cities. Recently, his current girlfriend for about a year messaged me on Facebook. She ... (128 words)

How am I going to talk to her about what happened? And what do I say when I see this guy (who has a crush on me) next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4373 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - When my best friend's boyfriend found out I was bi, he started hanging out with me more and told me he was questioning his sexuality. That was three months ago. Last week he told me he didn't just like me, he loves me and that he was going to break up with my best friend. ... (128 words)

Short with small penis - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m a 22 year old virgin male – cause I only want to date when I am financially stable. My problem is that I’m short (5'4) with a small penis (3 and a half inches erect). I look like a hobbit. Plus girls always say I’m cute and sweet, which everyone says is bad. I do have a ... (137 words)

Why do these women feel the need to be secretive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Why do some women save a guy's number under a females name... (12 words)

How can I talk to her without it being creepy or obvious that I like her?

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31 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked this girl for a while and I also have a medium sized crush on her friend. We usually talk every morning before school an I always walk the girl I really like to class. I know she doesn't really send me signals but I want to know how I could ask about her Christmas ... (129 words)

Why am I so emotional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what is going on with me recently! I keep finding i'm very emotional, i tear up over nothing or the littlest thing! I get angry at everyone so easily, it's actually becoming a problem because now i'm getting into arguments with my parents and friends. And sometimes ... (136 words)

How can I introduce the idea of us being more than friends to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

31 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a guy several months ago and he's honestly one of the most incredible people I've met in a long time. When we met, he had a girlfriend but we became very close friends although even then I fancied him a bit. About a month ago he broke up with his girlfriend and it's as ... (126 words)

I like my neighbor. I want to tell him that I like him. Will this work?

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30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i live in a dormitory and i like my neighbour… I have a reeeally hard time to tell if he likes me there are some signs but he loves to touch and tease other people (like my best friend who also lives there and she has a bf since 4 years and he knows) too (he also sometime... (335 words)

As the man, should I be doing the asking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a lady in my life. We are friends, good friends and I'd like to be more than friends but it hasn't reached that point. I'm old fashioned. I've always believed a man has to court the lady, that when a man wants to do something, ie go out, with a woman, he has to... (329 words)

How do I help my b/f get over fights without always breaking up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend, well now ex-boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past year. He was the one who always broke it off because we'd get in a fight. How do I help him over come the fights we have without breaking it off all the time?... (50 words)

How do I make sense of my boyfriend's friends and their/his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 year. we broke up for two months because he was too scared to be open and let me into his world in case i hurt him like an ex did, keeping me at a distance, and not helping correct the things that he did that hurt me. I ... (1035 words)

Is it wrong to have wanted compliments - not dinners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this wrong to think like this? My ex did alot of stuff for me paid for meals, drove me places etc but he didn't make me feel special in a sexual way. I feel like I would of preferred him to make me feel sexually special rather than take me out for meals. He rarelt ... (70 words)

Is this guy just a user?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age - When dating a guy for 2years he is laying in bed with me present girl freind a ex girlfreind calls while we are in bed making love.She tells my guy she loves him and he responds back and tells her he loves her to. Then hang up the phone and tells me am i going to pay the ... (106 words)

Not sure if it is a good idea to date my ex's housemate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really stupid asking this question but would it be unfair to date my exs housemate. My ex lives with 4 other lads one of the others parents rented houses. They have lived together 2 years and i was with my ex 1 1/2 years. Anyway we have been broken up for about 8 ... (167 words)

How can I win my son's love again? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - After my divorce, my son changed totally with me, he was so close to me but now he changed and he told his dad that he saw me with another man and this was 5 years back. I thought he forget about it but he didn't .I was not happy with my husband at all and I know that I did ... (86 words)