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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 and half years now. Last year we got engaged. He is my first and only love.Since the engagement things have changed. He acts way much childish, being completely irresponsible. He says he has always been this way, but I'm the one who has changed! But, he also now trying to cintrol me and to control my relationship to my friends! He stalk me and all my accounts, emails..etc! When we started to have more fights I have just begun to know a charming amazing guy through the internet! Meamd him are miles and miles away! But he seemed to uunderstand me better than anyother! I first told him I'm engaged and I allow to flirt and I asked him to to fall for me! And knowing that he iskinda a womanizer. ..I never thought he will! But he did! Now he keeps ssaying that I'm the one for him! And that he needs me! I know I have feelings for him too...but the fact I'm engaged...and I wanna save this engagment, keeps blocking me from completely falling for him! "Or maybe I did!" I don't know! I dont want to be the bad person!I ddon't want to cheat on my fiancé. ..and I don't wamt to hurt the other guy! He became so close to me! So dear, I love him amd respect him on personal bases. I always wanna be there for him when he needs me! At the same time my fiancé manage to drift me away from him in every possible way! I'm troubled! Don't know what to do! Who I'm really in love with! And I dont want to hurt anyone! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2012): Are you crazy? There is so much to hide on the internet. You can't see his facial expressions or his mannerism when speaking to you. This makes it impossible to determine if he is being genuine or not. Lying over the internet is a million times easier than lying in person, and people get away with lying in person a lot. Keep that in mind.
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