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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do I do? Who do I choose? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a dating problem. I'm 16 years old and I've been dating this guy and have been for 7 months. The problem is that I like another guy who lives on the block down from me. We've known each other for seven years and I've liked him for quite sometime. Another part of the ... (162 words)

I don't completely understand my feelings myself, how can I expect others to understand them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, So.. me and this guy are really getting along, we flirt, we text, we talk, laugh, ... everything. We're falling for eachother.. hard. And we both know it, because we told eachother. But we're keeping it a secret for our friends and family. At first that was fun, bu... (241 words)

My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activity in my past (aside from occa... (128 words)

I don't want to seem over-eager and put him off. But is our friendship moving towards something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I started my new college four months ago and in my class there was this guy who has caught my eye. So, after a few lessons; acknowledging that we were both in one class, I added him on facebook and asked him a question about an assignment for our subject (to be able to start... (860 words)

Have I missed out? Is it normal to be 16 to still be a virgin in 2012? And not be interested in illicit drugs? Aand to not have dated yet?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I am a 16 year old guy and im in 6th form and i live in the UK. Ok so i am here because i always see people on here who are around 13 - 17 talking about sex and relationships and even at school or in the outside world and i have never been in a relationship or ... (250 words)

Long term family friend has confessed, when drunk, that he's depressed. But so far he's not getting treatment. What is the right thing for me to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me just give you some background. My friend and I have known each other since birth. Our parents and families are friends. We grew up together and went to the same school and are in a big friendship group together. He is well liked and respected within the group too. R... (371 words)

He flirts with me, is buying me a Christmas present. But he's with another girl. What to do about my huge crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know how to put it into words! Erm well it's nearly Christmas and I like this boy and he likes me back. I went out with him once for like a week about 1 month ago but I broke up with him because this other girl who liked him started threating me He completely unde... (212 words)

We work in the same building. She initiated the conversation. Could there be a chance that she's interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I work in quite a large organisation in a big office building. For the past 3 days I have walked from the car park into the building behind the same girl. This has been purely coincidental however I won't complain as she is very beautiful. Today whilst returning from lunch... (232 words)

Our sex life is in the doldrums, are we doomed? He has the start of ED. His suggestion is a threesome, but I'm not so keen.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I were talking about our sex life just a moment ago. He mentioned how sore he is from all the sex (which has been almost everyday...and I know he masturbates as well, but I think he has done that more in the last week than we have had sex). He has been having ... (746 words)

Should I confront my wife or am I being paranoid about her possibly chatting with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 5 years. Unfortunately live in seperate locations because of work(different continents !) We are committed to getting back together physically in a few months(move work location). My predicament is this, i believe she has been keeping some secrets from... (261 words)

Upsetting breakup. then the silent treatment. Is she putting up emotional barriers just to push me away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So my ex broke up with me 3 months ago after I broke her heart by writing a goodbye message to her and ignoring her for two weeks, then showing up like nothing happened. (I was angry at her for a number of reasons, which I should have talked to her about instead of doing ... (246 words)

Facebook first? Or should I wait until we meet at this meal with our mutual friends? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i liked this girl and we became friends, and i got to know a few of her friends. I told her i liked her and she said she didn't want a boyfriend at the time. She said that i should meet her friend as i remind her of her friend. This was before i told her i liked her. We sto... (176 words)

I broke up with her but now I don't feel right without her. I'm confused about my feelings. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i am sooo confused My gf and I went out for about 1 month and i broke up with her, as i didnt feel it was the right time. When I was with her i wasn't that bothered but when i'm not with her i really want her. I really have no idea what to do, please help me ... (62 words)

I've had an epiphany regarding my past and present relationships and am wondering if anyone else has ever experienced this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been thinking a lot about my past and present relationships recently because I've noticed that I tend to stay with people for far longer than I sometimes should. I know it's not that I'm afraid to be alone, because I have been happily single before, but it seems to be ... (222 words)

How can I stop myself from falling in love with someone I can't be with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. About a week ago, I posted a question about how I still had lingering feelings for the ex-girlfriend of a friend of mine. I was having trouble dealing with the fact that she was in a loving relationship with another guy and had simply chosen to isolate myself, too afraid ... (216 words)

I'm almost twenty and I feel like I've done nothing fun with my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I know this isn't spesific to relationships, but I need advice and I don't know where else to go. I'm 19, and I joined a mature learning college (over nineteens only), I'm the youngest person on the course, and it's made me really upset. All these people have had such... (269 words)

My inability to orgasm is causing me to not enjoy sex with the man I love.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year. We love each other very much, he's my best friend, he's so caring and we are very affectionate. However, whenever we have sex.....I just don't enjoy it! I find him incredibly attractive, but once we start having sex... (131 words)

I'm really into this guy and want to move things along, but don't know how.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really into this guy in the year called Jack. We go to the same school and we both row so we see each other quite alot. Whenever we see each other, we start subtly flirting but it normally ends with us just locking eyes and mentally undressing each other. The sexual ... (156 words)

Torn Between two lovers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Who is in a relationship of 6yrs, started dating when I ws vry young. Presently A¯_??? serving my fatherland n I met a guy in orientation camp n we both lyk each other and one thing led to another n we got so intimate n we did what lovers do so my boyfriend found out that I ... (125 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend let me touch him?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't understand, but my boyfriend will touch me anywhere,(lying on my bed with clothes on!) but when I try to touch him, he moves my hand. I've mentioned it a couple of times: why don't you let me touch you and he says that he will "but not yet " I know, we are young but its ... (113 words)

Why are married men drawn to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I really have the hots for this guy that works at my place of business but he is married well actually the both of us are really feeling each other. I know this is wrong but why does this happen to me? it's seems like I attract men that are taken and it shouldn't be that way... (109 words)

I love him and don't want to let him go but I don't know what else to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys, ive never broken up with anyone before, in fact my current relationship is my first and has lasted more than 2 years. however some problems have started to boil over and i need to let my partner know that 'i basically need more than im getting. i love him, so ... (186 words)

I'm second guessing my decision to leave my cheating husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've just separated after being with this guy since I was a teenager. Now in my 30s with 2 kids he's all I ever knew. He claimed cheated on me and when i said im leaving, he claimed to be gutted, said he was seeing a counsellor, and taking anti depressants he says. ... (146 words)

Why has he changed since we started living together? We don't have sex and he says I'm no longer beautiful.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What makes a person to change when you have just stayed together a month when you have dated for years? My friend has changed a lot and no longer makes love to me and now he even told me that I'm no longer beautiful the way I was when we met. What makes a person to be lik... (106 words)

How can I get my obsessed ex to leave me alone? He's not interested in his son, only me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4384 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My child's father is obsessed with me he refuses to leave me alone I'm with somebody else now but my child's father refuses to leave me alone,his always calling me and I don't answer his calls he would text me. He is not worried about our son,my son lives with my mother and he... (114 words)

Seven months since a guy dumped me. Any strategies to get me over this tough time, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship with another guy for 7 years. It appeared to be perfect, however obviously not for him. He told me he wanted to be alone and 'find himself'. Within two months he started a relationship with another guy and seems to have moved on from me quite easily. ... (494 words)

Two boyfriends... who do I keep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, i have two boyfriends, i met one when i was 17 and was not really happy with him because he is a kind of introvert, my kind of person, but the other guy which i met recently gives me great happiness, he is a darling but not so caring. i was thinking of breaking up with ... (115 words)

What are me and my daughter entitled to if we divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - im a full time housewife with a 4 year old daughter,my husband is working abroad in kuwait for 4 years..every year he makes it a point to have a vacation here with us for a month. on the second year i found out that he was having an affair with someone, he apologized and ... (255 words)

How can I break this cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i have double standards about girls. i've been in love a couple of times and been cheated, while i'm in a relationship im always faithful but i think i have some misogyny problems too. long story short i come from a very dysfunctional family, my parents got divorced when i was ... (281 words)

I'd like to bring my extended family closer together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4330 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Since my childhood I could always remember not being close with my family, there were no ties. I'm close with my mom, dad, and two brothers but I'm talking about my Three Aunts, two uncles, and my four cousins (this is both my mother and father's side because none of us are ... (451 words)

I can't bring my girlfriend to orgasm anymore and it's beginning to affect my pride

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - The other day me and my gf hung out and we had intercourse. it was an amazing time but the problem is that i couldn't bring her to orgasm by oral or my fingers. I am only able to bring her to orgasm by penetration and it has to be for a long period of time as well. I have pre... (207 words)

I reached out to the friend with whom my husband cheated and I'm afraid it might backfire

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I will start at the very beginning, my husband and I have been together since I was 13 and he was 15. We were each others one and only for a very long time. When I was 20 I cheated on him, knew it was wrong came clean within a month and it was over, history. We worked hard ... (335 words)

This relationship feels more like a burden than something good in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, my ex that i was with about 2 years ago recently started talking to me again. We were together for about 11 months until i found out that he suddenly began to have "commitment issues" and was cheating on me. Well once i found out i immediately left him. Well about two mont... (182 words)

How do you raise your self-esteem as a teenager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not necessarily a young teenager, but I'm 19. I've always had low self esteem and confidence, which I've always been content with because I guess that's just a part of my life and who I am. But I kind of wish I knew the building blocks to a good self esteem. Help ... (61 words)

He doesn't want to get married anymore and he says he meant his proposal "at the time"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

21 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I will try and keep this brief...... My boyfriend ask me to marry him over a year ago, however whenever i try to talk about the wedding he says that he doesn't want to get married and he meant the proposal " at the time"!! He has met all my family however whenever i sugge... (130 words)

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

21 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been single for years I cant seem to meet women interested in me. Women I have dated all dumped me for other people , they all say I am a "lovely guy" but they always see, to go for arrogant pretty boys who usually treat them like crap.Every time I dated someone I wanted ... (251 words)