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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I like my friend's boyfriend, they have been together for 2 1/2 years now. And everytime i see him in the hallway he always gives me this flirty look. I don't know if he is trying to be nice or if he likes me. He also stares at me too. he purposely bumps into me. His hand touched my butt before. i don't want my friend to find out that i like him. i just don't know what to do!!! Should i talk to him about this and what he is doing?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 December 2012):
 You like him
I think you are seeing what you want to see.
BOYFRIENDS of friends are totally and completely OFF LIMITS no matter how much you like them and they like you.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (17 December 2012):
At your age, bfs/gfs are a dime a dozen. An absolute dime a dozen. So many to chose from - dont ruin a friendship over something that is a dime a dozen.
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reader, Hangin  +, writes (17 December 2012):
You definitely must talk to him and tell him whatever he's doing he must stop! Because YOU think he's flirting with you ... If he told you he's not flirting with you, then tell him he must stop whatever he's doing because it's making you feel confused..If you really care for your friend, don't flirt with her bf, we all know what's going to happen next if you did that. Besides, if her bf can do that while he has a gf, that means if both of you were ended up to be together, then he can do it again. So you must talk to him first to stop flirting with you before it comes to worst.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2012): Hi OP. Well there is a slight chance that he might like you but he is your friend's boyfriend. Now this whole scenario could be in your mind because you could be wrong and he is just being friendly. However, let's say you confront him about it and he denies it or rejects you, you are obviously going to get hurt and it wil create tension between you and him and maybe even your friend when she finds out what you did. And OP it is not worth losing good friends over a crush okay. I suggest you ignore his stares and if you are flirting with him stop. Its probably going to be hard but you have to try. I am sure if you had a boyfriend you wouldnt want your girlfriends flirting or messing around with your man, would you? Be considerate of your friends feelings okay. Goodluck.
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