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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband has ED, no sex drive, and is completely none affectionate with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age - My husband is completely none affectionate with me, and I dont know what to try anymore. He is impotent from undiagnosable causes. I mean not the GP, or the psychologist could really figure it out what is his issue,but he lost all his sexual interest, and have very bad ED. ... (190 words)

How can I possibly break up with him and start to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my boyfriend July of last year. For the last 5 months we've been on-and-off. I'll start with saying that he is the only person I've ever met that I've been able to be my 100% self around. I do love him and I love how silly and open we can be with each other, ... (711 words)

My "no strings attacked" sex partner wants to take our relationship out of the bedroom.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i met my guy on line as nsa buddy but he wants us to take our relationship as he calls it out of the bedroonm. i been seening him 6months now im unsure to take this step as i not sure if i want a relationship again whats more is i have a child and he doesn't no about ... (88 words)

My boyfriend is going through a really rough time. I'm trying to be supportive but he's pushing me away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is going threw a really stressful time. For one he lost his job and is unemployed, was kicked out of his apt recently and now his dog has to be put down. We where suppose to see each other yesterday and he just never showed up. I got really angry and sent him some ... (229 words)

My friend is crossing friendship lines and I'm uncomfortable with that

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start by saying that English is not my first language, so I'm trying really hard to express myself correctly. And please keep in mind through my text that I'm really really shy and always afraid that my friends will leave me. So... I have this guy friend, we get along... (352 words)

Why so hard finding good nice men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Im Asian women,was married with American white men. After divorced i live by my self. I work hard for take everything by my self. My married wasnt happy at all. He dont treat me well. He has 2 teen when i was marry him. They dont respect. One in almost mid nigh... (358 words)

My ex claims he stills loves me, even though he's the one that broke it up, flirted and dated other girls just a few days afterwards, and encouraged me to date his friend who liked me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex claims he stills loves me, even though he's the one that broke it up, flirted and dated other girls just a few days afterwards, and encouraged me to date his friend who liked me. I don't know what to do. It seems like he's asking me to fall for him over again when he ... (329 words)

I love him with all my heart but I cant support a grown man my entire life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance, my daughter, and I recently moved into our own place. My fiance hasnt held a job since last spring and that was for my dad. He was never brought up with good work ethic and was abused his whole life. He is sweet and caring but him being unemployed is causing alot of ... (240 words)

My bf's nervous problem causes problems for us..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! I have a little problem and i don't know how to deal with it... I'm in a serious relationship for almost one year, and so far, it's been great. However, whenever my boyfriend gets nervous, he has a terrible stomachache and can't leave the bathroom. I s... (251 words)

Because of my insecurities, my bf and I broke up! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my now former virgo boyfriend have been together for a little over four months now. He's a really good guy. He cares a lot of about me and he treats me like an absolute queen but I have some major trust issues due to my horrible past and history with guys and he can't ... (467 words)

Is it possible for my bf and I to get past his cheating behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a bit of advice (obviously). me and my boyfriend of two years are expecting our second child, (i know two children in 2 years doesnt look good) before i fell pregnant with my second child, i kissed another girl, (yes i'm female) however we had separated due to personal ... (165 words)

She agreed to date me...is this a good sign or should I not get my hopes high?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I ask her out and she said yes. I think this is good news. Is this a good sign or should I not get my hopes high. ... (27 words)

Too nervous to talk to my girlfriend about where our relationships is going! What can I do?

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6 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I am 16 and I'm Bi and going out with this girl, to not give away her real name I'll refer to her as 'Gabriel'. Anyway we've been going out 8 months, almost 9 and this is the first relationship I have been in. We have only kissed once and we don't really say I love you in ... (136 words)

Confused about this girl I like...am I reading too much into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - been texting this lass for about 2 weeks now, i added her on facebook cos my mate said he saw and reconised her when she was in the shop were he works, cos she was fit , added her and got talking threw a few chat up lines in, i got some back, and gave her my number, she text me ... (744 words)

Rejected 3 times by her! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I like a girl for no reason. I've been waiting for her for 5 years already. During this 5 years, i've got rejected by her 3 times. Any advice?... (29 words)

I'm having doubts as to whether I should give him another chance

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I married a man about 3 years ago and about a year after found out he was still married to his first wife...which made our marriage illegal and void... Seems like things started going down hill since then. We stayed together because we did care for each other and had a child ... (309 words)

Did I do the right thing in telling him how I felt, or should I have just kept quiet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I asked a guy out...and now it is weird. Basically it all came to a head after a really interesting day spent with him. We spend a lot of time together, even though we have only known each other for just over 3 months. We are both at University together and partake in s... (396 words)

Help me settle our artistic differences!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey DearCupid! I don't know if it's a problem as such, more a question of tact. My partner and I are quite musical but the trouble is we have two different specialities - his is folk and mine is classical. He strums, and I sing. We formed a two-piece last August and have don... (288 words)

Does she blame me or is there something else wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and myself share two daughters. Our first is 26 months and our second is 4 months old. My girlfriend had a bad time of it having our youngest and she needed help giving birth as she wasnt feeling right after 29 hours in labour. Both were fine but ever since my ... (171 words)

I'm married and having 2 kids, the issue is my wife doesn't know how to enjoy life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wanna enjoy my time like others do and wanted to checkout some nightlife club for fun. But my question is happen to see in TOI news paper part time jobs for males is it worth if I go there? or am I trapped in that n/w and becomes difficult to setback? Looking at other... (81 words)

How do I move on from a relationship that has totally consumed me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, this is sort of a long story but to make it sort of short the important details are that I'm in my mid-20s (my ex boyfriend is 29), both our Mom's are/were suffering from advanced stage cancer but mine recently passed away, and we've been together for 3 drama-filled ... (176 words)

Would it be so wrong if my wife's (we're separated) sister in law and I get together once in a while to enjoy sex as friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age - I'm separated, my wife's brother separated from his wife. At this point neither 1 of us have any faith in our liars, cheaters and drunks and have no plans to go back. We are both sexually attracted, but we don't want to wind up in a relationship together for obvious reasons ... (161 words)

I have liked this woman for three years. She has a boyfriend but I think she likes me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i cant stop thinking about a women at my work we used to work together, and hang out at tea breaks etc. She has a boyfriend. When I told her I liked her she said she's happy, but one week later asked me out for a drink as friends went out few times after 2 A while lat... (206 words)

Should I ask her out or forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age - I have this woman I've know since grade school as a distant friend. She married another distant friend and after 15 years, she had to divorce for a few good reasons, his drinking heavily was one of them. I am separated from my wife for over 3 years because she was screwing ... (219 words)

How can I get over these feelings for my ex and learn to trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am very confused right now. I just got out of a 3 year relationship in college with someone I still unfortunately love. This has just been a very terrible year for me. By far worst year of my life. I am a biochemistry major in college. It all started last spring. I did not... (734 words)

If you were single for a while and somehow got out of the dry spell, how did you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been single for 3 years and consider myself a good catch. For the first two years of that period, I wasn't actively looking. I'd go to clubs every now and then, and I'd also keep up-to-date with my female friends, but nothing every materialized on both fronts. In the past ... (125 words)

Dating a guy who's 8 years my senior

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it illegal to date someone who's 8 years my senior in California?... (13 words)

How long before you know you're in love and he/she is "the one"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If you have been in a good relationship for over two years, is that enough time to know whether or not you are "in love" with someone? Is that enough time to know whether or not this person is "the one?" ... (41 words)

I love my boyfriend but his behaviour has changed. Am I being taken for granted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, Our relationship got serious 5 months ago. we've been best friends for over a year. We never fought. We did have our different opinions, but we respected and accepted all that. When we realized we love each other, he told me he will always keep me happy, he loved spen... (232 words)

Did I take my daughter's happiness away? I think her and my new stepson have feelings for each other

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age - Summer 2012, I got married for the first time at age 52 to a 37 year old woman. We met on eHarmony Spring 2012 and things just clicked. She was married once before for two years and has a 20 year old son. I have a 19 year old daughter. My issue is that I think something might ... (200 words)

I just had a baby, walking around on eggshells because husband has panic attacks if I try to talk about our problems!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Wanted to ask opinions about my relationship difficulties, as I am feeling a bit stuck right now... I have been married for 5 years and just had our first child, who is now only a few weeks old. Husband is a good, kind man and loving and supportive most of the time.... (678 words)

"I love her as much as I could" What does that mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a man says "I loved her as much as I could.?" I ask, because, an associate of mine cited that he cheated and left an ex girlfriend over twenty something years ago, but he claims that while she "loved him more than he loved her", he still "loved her as ... (86 words)

My partner said I ruined his life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I feel terrible and ill because my partner has basically said i have ruined his life. We got together a few years ago in uni and had been saving for ages to get a house together. due to him being a little hot and cold (loved me but didnt know if he was right for a... (157 words)

My girlfriend wants space so she can find out if she is happy

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 22 years old,I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months now.last night she told me that she isn't sure if she can be happy and I deserve someone who is 100% committed to me.she said she wants to take a 2 week break so she can hopefully find out if she can be happy.I ... (101 words)

I'm not the happy girl I used to be, how do I get that back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hii.. im in relationship with my friend from past 2 years... and after it many things happened in our life that v got frustrated with it.. i mean not with each other... but wat was happening with my own life and also his life.. he tries to be ok with me.... sometimes i... (251 words)

I already feel so unloved by this guy, it's like I'm just a friend that sleeps in the same bed as him at night

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating (officially) my boyfriend for only 2 weeks, but for 3 months we've been on and off, like acting like a couple, but with no commitments. Getting together, I thought all the hard times would be behind us, because we had such a horrible start haha. It's t... (364 words)

We break up, we make up, but nothing has changed. What do I do about her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been back with my girlfriend only a week after us breaking up. We broke up because I found she had been registering on dating sites. Not only that but had been engaging in explicit conversation and exchanging photos. At first she denied it but then when I told her I was ... (256 words)

My best friend's younger sister wants me to pop her cherry and give her a crash course in lovemaking...but she has a boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who wants me to take her virginity and teach her about sex with a guy. She's a friend, but not a girlfriend, and I'm unsure about how to handle it. I'm 23 and hope to graduate next May with a degree in marketing. I'm unattached after a long term relationshi... (1587 words)

I dated someone else because she didn't like me. Now she's angry because of what I did with the other girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've really really liked this girl (for this question, her name is G) for some time now, and I didn't think anything was going to happen for a long time; which has made something happening all the more joyful. However, when I told G that I liked her a long time ago, s... (371 words)

After 5 months of dating I'm not sure if I love him or not but he's my boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boss says he's in love with me and after five months of dating, I'm not sure if it's true or if I love him in return. Sometimes, I do feel like I do. But, at others, I'm so confused. We're constantly scared of getting caught since it's highly illegal in our place of work and ... (190 words)

I have no friends and have been living a lie for 7 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - for 7 years i've been living in a lie in kc. i was living with a friend for seven years and did not work or do anything. instead of commiting to friendships or anything i hungout with different peoplee every weekend just asking them where they were and i would just go there and ... (392 words)

No contact but he is blowing up my phone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age - I did it in person, I did it as nice as possible, I did it affirmatively. I have ended the relationship, but he has not put me in the past. It's been a month and everyday it's 15 or more texts. So after the 2nd week I text him saying, "I'm sorry but I have moved on, I hope ... (174 words)

He says he can't marry me because I've been divorced and have a child. His parents would never approve of me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 27 years and my boyfriend have 26 we r met 5 years before and my mother died when was young i got married when i was 19 and due to some problemwe r seperated and i had a kid now he was seven years my problem is before 5 years i met this guy he is one year younger than me ... (174 words)

I have feelings for my friend, but he's with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am not sure what to do with these feelings that I have for my friend... he is going out with someone else, so I understand already that I should let go but it is very hard because my feelings were already intense before I found out. I have tried distancing myself from him,... (507 words)

How should I handle this problem with my long time friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have had a friend for approx. 5 years and lately, she has really been making me wonder! Okay so let's call her "G" I've always knew G was a bit promiscuous but that never bothered me because that's her lifestyle. She considers me as her best friend and she also has ... (316 words)

How do I forgive a cybersex affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a new guy three years after my divorce . online dating he was very newly seperated ( i didnt know this at first)I think his wife cheated . she moved out with another man. But anyways .. Everything was great He was great . Lot in common, enjoyed time together . Helped each ... (348 words)

Girlfriend wants to take a 2 week break!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

I've never met my long distance boyfriend, and lately I've been feeling insecure and having some trust issues.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone sorry this might be long but im really desperate and need adivice, ive been dating this guy for about two years now. we are in a long distant relationship and havent met yet( but we are planning to see eachother soon) and and , but we do call eachother everynig... (626 words)

Am I too freaky in bed? Will this scare him away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

6 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Before i get into this i would really like a males perspective, but anyone thats willing to answer is fine. ( and sorry if this is really graphic) Me and my bf have been in a relationship for two months i like him so much. i want to start having sex with him also i dont wan... (230 words)

Why are girls constantly giving me weird looks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll start by saying whenever I'm at school all I do is sit by myself and listen to music the whole school day. People constantly tell me I look depressed including my sister who is two years younger than me. I am pretty depressed if you ask me, and have extremely low self ... (192 words)