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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like my neighbor. I want to tell him that I like him. Will this work?

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30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i live in a dormitory and i like my neighbour… I have a reeeally hard time to tell if he likes me there are some signs but he loves to touch and tease other people (like my best friend who also lives there and she has a bf since 4 years and he knows) too (he also sometime... (335 words)

As the man, should I be doing the asking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a lady in my life. We are friends, good friends and I'd like to be more than friends but it hasn't reached that point. I'm old fashioned. I've always believed a man has to court the lady, that when a man wants to do something, ie go out, with a woman, he has to... (329 words)

How do I help my b/f get over fights without always breaking up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend, well now ex-boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past year. He was the one who always broke it off because we'd get in a fight. How do I help him over come the fights we have without breaking it off all the time?... (50 words)

How do I make sense of my boyfriend's friends and their/his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 year. we broke up for two months because he was too scared to be open and let me into his world in case i hurt him like an ex did, keeping me at a distance, and not helping correct the things that he did that hurt me. I ... (1035 words)

Is it wrong to have wanted compliments - not dinners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this wrong to think like this? My ex did alot of stuff for me paid for meals, drove me places etc but he didn't make me feel special in a sexual way. I feel like I would of preferred him to make me feel sexually special rather than take me out for meals. He rarelt ... (70 words)

Is this guy just a user?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age - When dating a guy for 2years he is laying in bed with me present girl freind a ex girlfreind calls while we are in bed making love.She tells my guy she loves him and he responds back and tells her he loves her to. Then hang up the phone and tells me am i going to pay the ... (106 words)

Not sure if it is a good idea to date my ex's housemate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really stupid asking this question but would it be unfair to date my exs housemate. My ex lives with 4 other lads one of the others parents rented houses. They have lived together 2 years and i was with my ex 1 1/2 years. Anyway we have been broken up for about 8 ... (167 words)

How can I win my son's love again? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - After my divorce, my son changed totally with me, he was so close to me but now he changed and he told his dad that he saw me with another man and this was 5 years back. I thought he forget about it but he didn't .I was not happy with my husband at all and I know that I did ... (86 words)

Questions about cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am kind of surprised when women get cheated on and they weren't expecting it. It worries me, has anyone here ever been cheated on by someone who didn't have a reputation or someone who has never cheated before?... (39 words)

I want my BF to grow up and save $ - Am I controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He doesn't have a car or a license. So I drive him to and from work and everywhere else every day except on his days off. He pays for gas, most of it, and buys a few groceries since I stay with him at his house at his insisten... (307 words)

Eight months pregnant by him and now he's broken up with me on Christmas Eve. What can I do? LDR and he's in the military. He says I've not given him enough space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy almost 12 mths ago, we were in love an every was great. Now I'm currently 8 months pregnant an recently he started talking a lot less, saying he needs space and that i message him too much. Then he then dumped me on Christmas Eve an said to me i pushed him too ... (122 words)

What do I do now? How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So around January, I met this girl. I started talking to her and found out. she had a boyfriend. I backed off and texted her on her birthday, which I remembered was April 20th (420). I found out she was single so I started hanging out with her. I started falling for her again ... (673 words)

Been so difficult since we broke up. Should I just cut him off and move on? Or hope we can get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I broke up about a 1 1/2 months ago. Word got around around about two weeks ago that he liked another girl but also said he didnt want to date anyone for a while. Around a couple nights ago he had contacted me saying how he had been thinking of me.. Yet all he seems... (202 words)

My boyfriend is acting almost paranoid about me leaving him and its really starting to get to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my bf now for 4 and a half months, it started really well ( the honeymoon period) but now he's started to over react to situations, and I would almost go as far as calling it paranoid about me leaving him. I no he's had bad past relationships and that is whats ... (107 words)

My boyfriend likes much younger women and I'm worried about him leaving me for someone younger than me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two problems which are really causing me a lot of stress. You see, I am a 22 years old and looking to get married. I've lived in 4 countries, speak multiple languages, don't drink/smoke/go clubbing, and am almost finished with university. I have a strong desire to ... (641 words)

Did my boyfriend's fear of getting caught make him react differently during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i love each other very much, yet he doesn't have his own house, so usually we wait until his parents are out of his house then we go cuddle, have sex, talk and sometimes times cook and eat together while watching tv. his father is a taxi driver and when ... (390 words)

I seen photos of b/f with girls in his hotel room. Did he cheat on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. we both went out on a night out with our mates and i ended up going into the place he was and seen him with girls i have never seen before. He went on a lads holiday to zante last year and i really bealived he hadnt been ... (153 words)

My boyfriend suffers from OCD and is too set in his ways. How can I get him to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is too stuck in his ways.. He suffers with anxiety and ocd, its really quite bad but I knew this before I stated going out with him, I just feel its getting to much for me even though I love him. He won't get on buses to go places with me because of his anxiety ... (183 words)

Is it legal in Canada to marry your cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i want to marry my cousin a girl of same surname as mine in canada. is it legal this in canada to marry my cousin?... (25 words)

Help me give advice, is her guy drawn to her because he needs her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man is 39 years old and has his own house that he gets behind on payments with and the only thing he does is sit and play video games and watches movies when he's not at work or at his mom's house where she cooks for him and does his laundry. And he has been alone for ... (543 words)

We seem to get on okay through texting but when we meet up we don't click. What should I tell this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright... Here goes... This guy and I met in our final year of undergrad (two years ago). At the time, I was seeing someone else and I didn't even think twice about him. Last year (last Christmas) my boyfriend and I broke up and I began talking to "this guy" more and mo... (615 words)

I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a month ago we met up for a drink ... (192 words)

Did I ruin our LDR because I asked her not to be online with others while talking to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey frnds my gf and i we live about 4 hrs of drive away from each other and meet around like 2 times a month and our dates are usually enjoyable.. shes 23 and am 22.. she used to work before but not at the moment i.e. stays home all the time and am a commercial pilot by ... (649 words)

Am I reading the signs all wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He is making me mad. I think he likes me, i have been working with him for a few months. Alot of people think he is grumpy because he doesn't get involved, very task centred guy. But with me: He throws things at me, He protects me- be it from animals or colleagues. I was spo... (436 words)

Why do men cheat on their wives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do men cheat on their wives my sister is having an affair with a married man it has been going on for 4 years his wife is ill with fibromylagia and arthritis she also sufferes with severe depression. He keeps telling my sister that he is leaving but hasnt done so yet,their ... (127 words)

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not reach orgasm through inte... (173 words)

How do I break up with my younger girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been seeing a much younger girl now for around six months. I should have listened to everyone who said "just have fun, don't get serious, it will never work"...well now we've done the Christmas thing, her presents to me were ridiculous, over the top, too generous. ... (229 words)

How can I get this girl who fancies my boyfriend to back off? She's stirring between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys what should I do about this girl... Me and my bf have been together for 6 months now and we are becoming serious but there's this girl who fancies my bf, but my bf likes as a mate but said he would never date her. She isn't very attractive but she keeps going to h... (337 words)

I feel like a failure for still being in the family home

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and still living with my parents. I moved back after uni and stayed longer while me and my boyfriend were saving up to buy a place of our own, which was fine with me and them, but my boyfriend and I have just split up and now I don't know what to do. I feel I am too old ... (250 words)

A drunken text has me worried that others will find out about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I got drunk and messaged this popular kid in my school I. Didn't say anrhing stupid only that I was drunk and he said bye. But then I stared to text my friend who had a thing with him and she was like what's going on since I was drunk I was saying stupid stuff. ... (129 words)

I can't forget about this older guy despite following your previous advice! What's going on? I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I recently wrote for you about this man of 31 years old and was advised delete him from my Facebook account and to focus my attention on somewhere else, so that's what I did. I deleted him from fb and I changed my way to school to not see him and I put in my mind that I ... (251 words)

I am having real issues with my boyfriend smoking weed and I don't know if I am overreacting or not.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, and in the last six months he has started smoking weed regularly. I have never liked weed for no other reason that it smells bad and is a waste of time and money in my opinion, but I have friends who do it and I have ... (351 words)

In love with my step mom's step sister but it's a secret. Curious what to do and say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok the situation is I have a STEP mom who has a STEP sister and her and I believe that we love one another. Through the family we believe family. But, at the same time we are no blood relation what so ever. Is it right or is it wrong? I don't know. Personally I d... (119 words)

How do we deal with our communication differences when it comes to expressing love for each other, be it physical or emotional/verbally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old male, and I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and we never had any big issued or disputes till yesterday. She invited me over to her place after going to the mall and threw me out, hurting my feelings, simply because she was in a bad mood and ... (334 words)

Why are women so confusing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Why are women so confusing? Why can't women ever just say whats on their mind? This past semester I met a nice girl in college and I would text her regularly. We would talk about music, movies, sports and whatever else was going on with school. I liked talking to her because ... (101 words)

I'm just afraid that down the road, we (or mainly I) will get sick of the same ol' same ol'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend doesn't like to be very spontaneous or do exhilirating things I like to do... such as riding rollercoasters, ice skating, carnivals, etc. And I've grown up with all of these things as a big part of my life, and they matter to me; I've bonded with my family ... (99 words)

Why can't my family and friends mind their own business about my dating life? How should I respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, it's has been nine years since I have been in a relationship and now people who I know want me to return to the relationship scene . I feel like I am not ready yet I want to do me right now I feel if I go back to being with somebody it will take me away from my ... (206 words)

Her parents are unhelpful and her bi-polar is not medicated as her parents can't afford it. I care about her deeply, but what can I do about supporting her, now that I have less time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Bit of background information: I'm 18 and about to enter my second semester of college, my Girlfriend is 17 and in High School. We've been dating for over a year now. We started dating when I was a Senior in High School. We saw each other every day at school and such and w... (656 words)

I'm 13 and feeling pressured by my own longings to have sex with my Bf. But I'm scared of getting pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - okay so im a teenage girl and i kind of feel pressured to have sex,not by anyone though, i have a certain longing for it.i want to wait till im married because im still a virgin but sex is so tempting to do. And i have the guy i want to do it with my bf of 2 years but im also ... (80 words)

I'm bi-curious. Women! How would you feel if your spouse suddenly said he was bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! My question is pretty short I guess, but I'd like to know the answer in different ways. Would you want to know if your HUSBAND was bi-curious/bisexual? (Would you want to know if your HUSBAND was bi-curious/bisexual years later in the marriage?) Would... (250 words)

My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breakup but still, people need time... (141 words)

He's been a friend for a long time but his new Gf is now his sole focus. Do these "obessive" type of relationships tend to last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Most people say relationships calm down after a few months, people stop being clingy, they calm down and care about other things in life other than their girlfriends and boyfriends. Is this true? I suppose I have a different opinon to lots of people because I'm not the clin... (605 words)

I want to date. But I'm also carer for my mother and sister. How have other carers been able to juggle studies, caring and me-time or even a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate starting these off but basically I'm 17, I have only ever had 1 boyfriend and that's because I'm a carer for my mum and sister, my mum has COPD and my sister has cerebal palsy. Over the past few weeks I've started developing a crush on this guy in college. I really ... (168 words)