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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why can't I understand unconditional love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now. It's been long distance the entire time with at least one visit each year. We talk about getting married, having kids, all the commitment stuff. We've had our ups and downs. But it seems like there's something that may be ... (679 words)

Is my boyfriend bisexual if he's had multiple homosexual relations in the past but claims he doesn't like men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a woman. My 33 year old boyfriend of 6 months recently admitted to me that when he was a preteen, him and 2 if his best friends would masturbate together, rub on each other and give each other oral. This happened for over a year. He also just admitted that 2 years ago him ... (313 words)

I just found my boyfriend on a gay website...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just found my boyfriend on a gay website and on a dating website. We have been together for 6 months and we are very close and he's really close with my 2 kids. I have asked him about this and he says he didn't set up the gay 1 and that he hasn't been on the dating 1 ... (200 words)

Is this depression or merely a stage of life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so over the past 6 months i have really started to have a negative outlook on life, i do everything slowly and i just feel like there is no point to life. I am 16 years old single, do not care for relationships have 1 best friend of 4 years and a few people i would call real ... (197 words)

My best friend tried to kiss me, I'm in shock, help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Lets call her Jo. SCENARIO: Jo and I have been best friends for a very long time. We are so close, we have the exact same sense of humor and we tell each other everything...until now. I've told her many, many secrets, which, in the dealing of this, I don't want her to spi... (784 words)

How can I type and ask him if he might be interested in being more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I'm fairly confused at the moment. I've recently come home from a tour in Kenya. We went on a month long safari around loads of different game reserves and national parks. It was amazing. And it was made even more amazing by our guide who was with us the whole time fro... (241 words)

Is my boyfriend happier without me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend recently lived together for six months, then due to him needing to sort his thoughts out and have space(wasnt sure if he was ready for a relationship etc) we decided i should move home with family. so for the last half of the year he has lived on his own... (208 words)

I'm nervous about doing sexual things with a more experienced guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy for a few months and we've recently told each other we like each other. We were playing the question game and he asked me if i'd like to try being friends with benefits, however: - i've never had a boyfriend - i've never had a proper kiss - i'v... (115 words)

How do I help my friend see that her cheating boyfriend isn't worth her time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone...i am a girl who loved some really hard for 5 month and then he cheated and no one knew about it but us, so we solved it between us and now our realtion is even better than anytime before and what happened made him change completly to the better partner i always ... (313 words)

Is it ok to ask the doctor for an x-ray so I can see my condition?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - i have scoliosis, one of my hips are flat and the other comes out alot which makes my body tilt to one side. im curantly doing physiotherapy. i haven't had an x ray at all, according to the GP my scoliosis isn't that bad, but i think it looks bad, and it hurts. would it be ok... (155 words)

I'm afraid this man will think badly of me now that I've told him about my past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I am feeling really down now. I really like this guy at the moment and the feeling is mutual even though we haven't made any commitments because I wanted to know him better before committing. He is a really special guy. Caring thoughtful witty etc and during our ... (239 words)

I'm tired of the bickering! Should we just go to therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over 4 years. My wife and I have had a rocky relationship, we are both strong willed people. But we always seem to make it work and we love each other. However, because of our differences, it seems our communication is now toxic. She can be very ... (153 words)

Do I let my home wrecking daughter and her man stay with me so I can see my grandchildren?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age - dear aunts and uncles, i seem to be in a pickle here. heres whats going on my daughter started work with me last aug. in nov. she hooked up with a man i have known for a few years who also worked there. now when i say known i mean we have worked together, i dont know him ou... (697 words)

I know I can't have my cake and eat it too but I'm confused and not sure what is the right thing to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Where should I start, ok ill start here, 2 years ago I ended a 3 year relaxationship with a girl that i never had a connection with other than sex lol and we had nothing in common, I was miserable and she didn't love me, but we had awesome sex and we stayed together because the ... (1210 words)

B/f is making up every excuse possible to not meet my family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and because of our financial situation we were never able to go from upstate New England to Florida to visit my mother and little brother. I've been promoted and I'm now full time and I have paid vacation time to use, but my ... (178 words)

I think I am falling for my best friend, how do I stop these feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you stop yourself from having a crush on somebody? Basically, we are 15. (he's a bit older than me, 16 soon but anyway) He is one of my best friends, we have been really close for the past three years. I know I can always trust him and we could talk for absolutely h... (240 words)

Guys always choose the girl that comes along after me! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to feel like something is wrong with me. Guys seem to always choose the girl after me. I was with my ex for a few years untill he cheated. I've been single for a year now and I like it but the moment I'm interested in a guy and he seems to be interested as well, it ... (98 words)

Why is he distancing himself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. For the last month or two he's become distant. We don't have sex anymore except on "special occasions". Whenever we're together he constantly has his head in his phone or he's "tired" so we hardly ever speak. He u... (323 words)

I know what I'm doing with my best friend is wrong but my wife doesn't get me the way she does.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Where should I start, ok i'll start here, I had a great friend, that friend works with my mom at a Hospital, and it was my mom that introduced us, my mom always wanted us together because shes the sweetest most gorgeous girl that you would ever lay your eyes on. My friend ... (766 words)

We sleep in separate beds, and I worry it’s killing our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I sleep in separate beds. We have different sleeping patterns – I’m an early riser and insomniac; he sleeps late and needs a lot of sleep. About a year ago, he started kicking me out of bed in the middle of the night, saying I was disturbing him (I don’t snore, ... (253 words)

Who do I choose, my second cousin whom I love, or my family? They will never accept us if we get married....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my second cousin and we want to get married but i am a hindu girl and my society does not allow this, Im really very much confused what shall i do as after marrying him my family will leave me. or I can say that if they come to know about this i dont know what they are ... (158 words)

Since we moved in together he is a different person, I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do people change to the worst. I've been dating my boyfriend for years and he was romantic an caring. Since we live in together his now a total different person, he doesn't want to do anything in the house. I have come from work cook, clean and do washing for us instead he ... (121 words)

I hate my boyfriend's twin brother, but cant help feel jealous when I see him with his new girlfriend! Why do I feel like this and how can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all I love my boyfriend we have been together for almost 3 years and we are planing to get married. Me and his twin brother don't get along for several reason that is too long to explain. But I can't seem to get him out of my mind. He just broke up with his girlfriend ... (208 words)

My husband is spending Christmas in Australia without me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of a year and 9 months decided to go on hols to Australia for 6 weeks (he only works at peak seasonal times) - i couldn't get off work. He rang at weekend saying he was gonna stay with his mates over christmas and new year. I am totally devastated - i asked him not ... (141 words)

Feeling inadequate in the bedroom department with my new wife....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age - Hi, this feels like such a silly question and I am struggling to ask but here goes. I have developed some real feelings of inadequacy re sex with my new wife. She is a VERY attractive woman and constantly turns heads wherever we go. We have regular sex and she always has an ... (238 words)

We lost our first baby and now he is reluctant to talk about trying again, should I just go ahead and get pregnant anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last summer i fell pregnant with our first child, however sadly i lost the baby a few weeks later. Myself and my boyfriend didn't handle it very well and we constantly fought and at one point we broke up due to the constant pressure from everyone asking if we are ok and we can ... (237 words)

My 16 year old son is in love with a woman who is 24 years older than him!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My 16 year old son is in love with a woman 24 years older than hisself, he met her when he was in a Subway with friends, he's told me theyve been secretly dating for over a month now and that the relationships not based on sex but proper love. She's a counsellor but not at his ... (216 words)

I love her already despite the fact we havent met yet, but will I get my heart broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm not new to relationships or dealing with women, however; this is a little more complicated than I would like it to be and could use some opinions. I have a problem trying to decide if this girl is worth my time. It all started a few weeks ago when I started talking to ... (264 words)

Can fingering lead to the loss of virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can fingering (sex) leads to disvirgin, especially in a case of bleeding? ... (12 words)

Would you commit to someone who treated you like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello -- I've been with a girl (30) for 15 months now. Initially everything was great, but as the months wore on, some issues have came to light. She's pushing hard for commitment; living together, marriage, kids eventually, etc, and is threatening to end the relationship ... (617 words)

Would it be a waste of time to try and get back with someone who finished with you because of a past history of sleeping around and cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Would it be a waste of time to try and get back with someone who finished with you because of a past history of sleeping around and cheating. Basically i got with my sisters mate 3-4 months or so ago, we kept it quiet so they didnt fall out and so we could get to know each oth... (288 words)

I'm in love with my FWB and cant stand him sleeping with other women, how do I end this once and for all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been having sex with a man who is 36 and im 26 on and off for 2 years now. its been more friends with benefits than anything else, then i found out he had slept with someone else when we had agreed not to sleep with anyone else. stupidly i forgave him, now i have ... (115 words)

What should be shared in a relationship and what should be private?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What should be shared in a relationship after a year and 3 months? Is it wrong to want to see his facebook, cell phone etc? I have no problem showing mine! I feel like people with nothing to hide, hide nothing and all he says he wants is privacy! please help!... (51 words)

We used to be best friends but now all we do is fight and its getting violent

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone I have been friends with a girl (we'll call her C) for over 2 years now, and we became very close friends and lived together at a few places and last year moved to an apartment together. Later, our boyfriends ended up moving in too. Her boyfriend and my... (510 words)

I'm obsessed with my ex, who I despise, and I don't know how to stop.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am obsessing over my ex who never treated me with any kind of respect for thoughtfulness, and just used me and strung me along for a year and a half. I was really upset and heartbroken, and kinda pissed off, when things ended for good in the summer. Things had always been on ... (536 words)

Have I slept with too many guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity a few months before I turned 16. Since then I have slept with four guys. The fourth one just happened about two weeks ago? I really worry about becoming loose and never being able to find a partner. Some of my old friends have slept with probably 12+ guys. I ... (99 words)

My boyfriend and I come from two different religious backgrounds that might throw obstacles in the path of our future together (marriage)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. i'm a 21 year old girl, currently pursuing my studies. 5 months ago, i met this guy in school and we became friends and we soon developed feelings for each other and 2 months ago we became a couple. he is my first boyfriend. unfortunately we know realise that there will ... (217 words)

I am dating this girl she is 31+ and still a virgin!! will this bring any difficulty on ever becoming pregnant??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I am dating this girl she is 31+ and still a virgin!! will this bring any difficulty on ever becoming pregnant??... (25 words)

I have a major crush on a married professor, and I need to get him out of my head and heart. Please help me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont even know how to begin ...i feeling very low and really need some advice.... Well I have this professor and i really really like him. He is very nice to me and always smiles at me.He is very attractive and no matter how hard i try i just cant stop liking him.He do... (259 words)

I'd just like to have be married before 30 and start having kids around 30?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well here is my situation. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and 1/2 years and we are very happy together. We have been living together for a little over a year now. He's got a 4 year degree and I'm just about done with mine. The thing is, I'm now ready to get engaged. And ... (455 words)

I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend who is also my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

3 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my boyfriend,vince have been dating for almost 3 weeks now, but i'm starting to fall for his best friend,zack! however, this isn't the only problem... my boyfriends best friend is also my ex-boyfriend! Me zack (my ex-boyfriend) dated for over 4 months, and really had ... (69 words)

Why is she ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with a friend. So I am still in high school so i met this new amazing girl and in so little time we got to know each other alot in a week we are already calling each other and it turns out that she has a boyfriend and she calls me her best friend and then ... (154 words)

I won't see her in person for at least a year. Could it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

3 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So my friend just confessed to having feelings of wanting to be with me. And to be honest, I'm considering it. But the thing I'm taking into consideration is that it would be long distance. She's working in another country and lately I've only been hearing from her like once ... (124 words)