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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So I like this boy, but I don't think it's going so well. When me and him very first met he was very flirty, but this was when I didn't like him. He always said hi to me in the hallways, he spent lunch with me, he took my phone, me messed with me, he teased me, he playfully pestered me, and he always made me do his handshake. Well, when I started to like him, most of this stopped. He stopped saying hi to me, he stoped the handshake, he stopped teasing me, he stopped the pestering, he stopped messing with me. We still spend lunch together everyday, but its different now. He still takes my phone but only so he can check his facebook. He doesn't really pay much attention to me anymore at lunch, but he still looks at me a lot. And just about everyday he asks me if I can buy him stuff, and of course I do cause I just can't say no to him so I end up spending my lunch money on him. And I'm pretty sure he knows that I;ll buy him anything he wants if I have money. I just, all of my friends still thinks he likes me, but I don't see it, and sometimes I feel like he's just using me. And I don't know what to do... Can anyone help me out here?..tell me what to do..cause I just keep falling harder and harder for him everyday and I want to stop..
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 December 2012):
 STOP buying him stuff. You can say no to him, you don't because you are afraid to find out he's just using you. And that will hurt and make you feel bad and you don't want that so you keep buying him stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2012): First stop buying him things, if he likes you then he should buy you lunch. Second it sounds like hes playing you he got you to like him and know he acts as if he dosent like you. If you want you feelings to stop then tell yourself that you deserve better treatment. I understand that you guys are 16-17 but if you accept it now then you always will. Push him to the side there are probably cuter guys in your class.
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