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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said his son was conceived in a toilet stall, I can't stop thinking about it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28 and my boyfriend is 49. He told me something yesterday that has really upset me. I don't even know why he told me ( maybe it was because he was drunk when he told me ). He said that he and his ex wife conceived their son in a toilet cubicle in a nightclub ! . ... (250 words)

I can't stop snooping on my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't stop sying on my bf's social networking mailbox and phone! We got together in summer and he lived in states, we were casual but as he was travelling around europe, he decided to come back and see me again, i told him as long as he doesn't touch anyone else, sure! ... (353 words)

He's not sure if he's ready for a relationship, should I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, he's stayed at my place once and me at his three times. We met online and he gave me his number and suggested we meet up. He said he was excited but nervous to meet, and when we finally did, it couldn't have gone better. He text me ... (495 words)

I want to break up. What he is doing is very wrong. What can I do and how do I deal with his threat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Modnote: One this first occasion only your text speak was tidied up. Do NOT submit in text speak again. I need your help. I have this bf who I only know him through chatting He claims that he love me so much and that he's ready to get married to me after two years. At first I... (172 words)

She only wants to perform oral while drunk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years and on the whole everything is going great apart from sex, she will only give me oral when she is drunk. When she is sober she says she doesn't like the precum, I have thought about wearing a condom but have been told it rui... (92 words)

He makes me wet and it makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend. Were both Virgins and we do want to wait till marriage for sex so instead we Dry Hump. Im usually in leggings or sweat pants and hes usually in gym shorts. But he says he wants to try to do it with pants off and just underwear. But I dont ... (109 words)

Engaged but having second thoughts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Just got engaged but now Im having second thoughts, and these thoughts are not leaving me alone. Won't get into details why Im feeling like this, but let's just say I don't feel as loved and appreciated as I think I should feel, especially after getting engaged. I just fe... (149 words)

Is he intentionally making me gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a guy to intentionally turn a girl but sexual. I say this cause my boyfriend of nine years half pleasures me. He stops sucking my breasts when I start to get wet. If he has his hands on them and I start to get turned on he moves them. It seems like he knows ... (88 words)

How can I forget him? I miss him when I don't see him.

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23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy at work looks after me so much, he protects me and every one notices how protective he is of me. People who have known him for years see the difference i have had on him, he is more happy, cares more about his appearance but also gets really angry if he thinks i've been ... (213 words)

I met a sweet and persistant guy at a party, I don't want to cheat. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4378 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i have been datting my boyfriend for a month and counting and 2 weekends ago i went to a party and i met this guy who is part of the group but we never met at the party we danced and he was interested in me and i told him if i didnt have a boyfriend you would be... (129 words)

He expects so much. Gives back nothing. Am I not supposed to feel appreciated by my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years never appreciates me even for things I do for him. However much I do for him and the lengths I go to do things for him, he just treats as if it's my duty to serve him. Am I not supposed to feel appreciated by my boyfriend? What should I do, ... (70 words)

How can I learn to love myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) age 36-40 - How can I learn to love myself? I'm 24, and I have always been on the reserved, shy side... I'm don't mnd that a lot really, but sometimes I feel lonely because I find it difficult to connect with people. I'm mostly OK with my personality and intelligence, I'm not the smartest ... (498 words)

I'm a virgin, how does porn differ from real life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 year old Virgin. When I say I'm a virgin, I mean like I never even kissed or touched a girl in any sexual manner whatsoever. Hell, I can't even look at a girl I find attractive without my body trembling. So... I watch a lot of porn. However at the same time I keep read... (109 words)

How should I react when he upsets me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both in our mid twenties. We've been together 2 years. I've always been the kind of girl in a relationship that when something bugs me, I freak out, start yelling, threatening to break up etc. I also have some trust issues in this relationship, we... (221 words)

I used to like one girl now I've developed a crush on her friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I used to like a girl quite a lot, so I asked her best friend to tell me what the first girl thought about me. However, after a few months now I find myself falling for the second girl. I already told her that I don't like the first girl anymore, but I'm not sure how to proce... (88 words)

Is it my character that is such a huge turn off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really shy arround people I don't know or with guys I am into but if I know someone better I am not shy with them anymore... also I am not the party girl type. I don't go out often but most of the time when I do I party hard lol^^ but I am not the type who kisses guys whe... (343 words)

Is it time for me to step back and find a job elsewhere? My married boss flirts with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Happy Holidays ! This guy that I have known now for three months already is the boss of a company in which I do work at. He claims to be married but I don 't think so I think it's more like common- law. We are flirting back and forward with each other everyday. He comes t... (230 words)

Why is he talking to be so disrespectfully and accusing me of infidelity? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys this guy and I are having sex. Recently he just startd behaving very weird. he has been accusing me of having sex with multiple men while this is something i have never even thought of doing he is the only man am having sex with. yesterday he called me whe... (124 words)

After my verbal outburst? Am I reading too much into things? Am I just hearing what I want to hear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Really need help here Dear Cupid! When I was in my early 20's I met a girl. We got together. Got a place together. All the usual relationship stuff. Anyway, she had several affairs. I'd always take her back. And she'd do the same again. Two years ago I finally made th... (629 words)

How can I ask my LDR about his reluctance to find time for me without me sounding clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello guys, happy holidays! anyway having this things in my mind is really confusing me, i really dont know if this could be a problem, or im just needy and demanding girlfriend, here it is im with a amazing man right now were been 3 years known each other but far away ... (299 words)

Is it alright that I stopped her ex from telling me these things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear whoever reads this, I have a girlfriend, we've been dating for 1.5 years and we're planning to get serious. Not long ago she invited me to her friends' place to hang over. It was the first time I got to know them, she kept the distance between us for more than a year... (194 words)

What could I have done better? How to proceed from now on? advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice ok. I've been married for four years and we fought off and on and we have 3 children together. Four months ago my husband said he was going for a walk but never came back. Three days later I found out he left me for another women who happened to be h... (691 words)

Boyfriend has trust & insecurity issues and broke up with me for no reason. I'm so hurt and confused ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night my boyfriend broke up wit me via text. He accused me of shopping for some attention. I went out shopping yesterday and he said that I was looking for some attention and I absolutely was not. He said that he can't trust me. He has trust and insecurity issues. ... (200 words)

Why would he lie and should I confront him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I caught my BF in a lie about his contact with his ex-GF. He says he told her not to call, email or txt and that he hasn't heard from her in months. I talked to his sister and she told me he told her the ex had been bugging him to meet and have lunch with her and that he'd ... (160 words)

She treats me like dirt? What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - To everyone else we are perfect for each other. Photos of us together are all over her facebook. She`s forever announcing to the world how much in love she is, and she tells me that all the time. There`s also another side to this. Her secret dating sites and e-mail accounts... (225 words)

Boyfriend is getting paranoid and insecure since our relationship became long distance. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for six years since high school. We went to the same uni, however I'm a med student so I'm doing my placement near my uni (Cambridge), my boyfriend has graduated already and he's back in London, we're finding it difficult to carry this relationship ... (91 words)

What should I do about my mum having a relationship with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently found out that my mum has been having a relationship with a married man. My parents are divorced so its acceptable for her, but he is not. Also they are related to each other which i find very wrong. His children go to my school and i'm trying hard not to say ... (124 words)

Some things best left unsaid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve posted a couple of questions in the past couple of weeks regarding my unresolved feelings for an ex-girlfriend of a friend of mine. As the previous questions mentioned, she ended up becoming a really good friend in her own right and helped me get through an especially ... (213 words)

Is it OK to date the daughter of family friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - is it ok to date a family friends daughter? my parents, her parents and my step mom where all friends growing up. My dad "got" them in the devorce. We lived togeather for a short time while my dad looked for some where to live. Then I hadn't seen her for a while but now that my ... (313 words)

He says he doesn't know if we can be more than FWB!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - For about a few weeks now, ive had sexual relations with a guy i work with. He is the most attractive guy ive ever been with, and has a beautiful personality. Im completely taken by him, i love his smile, his eyes, his hugs, etc...i wake up excited to go to work if i know hell ... (191 words)

Should I date a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have developed a major crush on my friend of 2 years and I know he feels the same. What I don't know is whether he sees long term potential in us or he's just looking for a "right now" relationship. I know I could ask him but we are in that weird stage. We've gone on a ... (129 words)

Could he change his mind and stay if he falls for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was looking for some advice please. I meet his great guy been on a couple of dates already. He really likes me I think he wants to keep seeing me. The only problem is that he is studying here where I live for a year. After then he plans to move I think and I'm worried I will ... (115 words)

No strings attached, how to stop being so casual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

23 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Have you ever seen the movie 'no strings attached?' Well, Natalie Portmans character is me! I'm afraid of commitment and 26 years old. I am pressured by my wonderful, caring but extremely traditional south Asian parents to get married. This makes me rebel but also try too hard ... (336 words)