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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My B/f cant keep his erection on during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys soo my boyfriend and I started having sex a 4 or 5 months ago. We've been consistent , maybe having sex like every other week on average... More or less. The thing is his boner sometimes just randomly go down randomly during sex, and we have to stop. It's becoming ... (88 words)

I need some advice on making some new friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling a bit lonely at the moment and I am hoping some people could give me some advice on making new friends at the age of 27. I have always been a bit shy, but despite this I have usually always had a friend or two at every stage of my life so far. A lot of them have ... (188 words)

Should I ask if something is wrong? Or just keep acting normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been texting this girl for a few months now, we've been friends for about 2 years though. We only started texting at the end of summer as she broke up with her ex boyfriend. We got together a couple of weeks ago on a night out for the first time but she told me ... (210 words)

How to break it to my boyfriend's traditional family that there will be no wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over five years. We’re both over 30, at a good place in our jobs/ finances, and happy together; so marriage seems like the next step to both of us. I am not a traditional girl, and although I’m fairly outgoing, I hate having a bunch o... (527 words)

SHE asked ME out. She says she likes me, but not in a "heart fluttering" way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - A girl I really liked asked me out about a week ago, I was so thrilled when it happened. We've tried planning a couple dates, but she's just so busy with her job, tennis, and school. a few days ago, she told me that she still sees as a friend even though she did like me a few ... (102 words)

So, what are your opinions on the self control of men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I've been going out with my BF for nearly a year now. Our sex life has always been very good. We were both completely new to all things sexual before we met each other, but we've explored a lot together which has been nice. There's been a lot going on in... (332 words)

Female Boss Sending Flirty Winkies Boils Over Into Sexual Harassment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Female board member flirty texts my husband numerous times per day w/ lots of ;)winky smiles, etc. She constantly leans in and whispers in his ear in public and even takes my seat when I get up. I think she follows school events and knows where to find us so she can show up, ... (206 words)

The date went really well, we agreed to meet again, but he seems uninterested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Im 20. Single (always have been), quite inexperienced, only dated one guy in the past properly and it ended horribly, but I've never actually been in a relationship before. So I met this guy through my friend, (he's 20 and he know's her cousin) she introduce... (703 words)

I was there for my friend but he has consistently bailed out on me now 5 months in a row!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Hi aunts! So, I have a great friend. We have been really close for years. He is gay, I'm not. Last year he has ben through something really really traumatic (his boyfriend killed himself). I have done everything in my power to be the most supportive friend he could ever have ... (326 words)

Do I need to just accept porn in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a long term relationship in which majority of our fights were about porn. He watched it before we got together and during our entire relationship. He watched it regularly, pretty much once a day, about 5 times a week. We would probably have sex about 3 times a ... (270 words)

Questions about glasses and contacts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, im annoyed with glasses, in gym i when i get hit in the face with a ball my nose gets dented and hurts because of my glasses, i could take them off but i get a headace after a while. Everyone says i look really pretty without glasses, and that blue eyes would really suit ... (118 words)

I asked my ex girlfriend if she's dating someone else. What does her answer mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I asked my ex girlfriend if she is dating someone and her answer was "I'm not going to answer that". I've been told that she means it is none of mine business. But is she still interested in me?... (41 words)

How can I make friends? I get nervous when I talk to people..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, i need advice on how to make friends? i get nervous easily and when i speak to people i just sort of mumble or get confused with what im trying to say. i dont really have a lot of confidence. not only that but i am currently unemployed so don't really have the... (110 words)

Why did she keep cheating on me and treating me so badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm recently out of a 4 year relationship and a traumatic one at that. The problems began 2 1/2 years ago when she started cheating on me..the other guy was a random she met on craigslist one night when i was not around. Their fling lasted on and off about 6-8 months befor... (785 words)

She lost her trust in me. Do I keep trying to get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I was seeing this girl for 3 months and we fell in love really quickly. For some stupid reason I started suspecting that she was seeing someone else at the same time so I cut all contact with her for 3 weeks because I was afraid of getting hurt. This happened just after she ... (212 words)

Are the disabled unlovable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

5 December 2012 (M) age 36-40 - How does anyone get a girlfriend? I'm 24, almost 25, and every woman I ask out rejects me. I've tried over and over again. I use a wheelchair, but I'm finishing a degree in Web design/development to start a career in Web design and my specific disability doesn't affect my ... (85 words)

I see him every day but he only texts me once. Am I asking too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 43 and have fallen madly in love with this man. He and I have amaizing chemistry and sex. When we are together things are perfect. We get along, joke, play, talk. He is affectionate and loving. The problem lies when we are apart. He calls me once per day (usually around 3) ... (96 words)

He's Flirting With Random Strangers Without Me Knowing. How Should I address this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, we have been together for awhile.. About 11 months. I'm really irritated with this: I was looking through my boyfriend's messages (he does the same to me too) and I saw a message he wrote to a girl, (Ex Gf actually, but I don't mind) encouraging her to flirt wit... (318 words)

Have I let myself down, or do others expect too much of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I've been having a lot of trouble lately and I keep making things worse for myself. I'm 15 years old and I've been predicted very high target grades and gcses, and people expect me to use my intelligence to the maximum, but lately I feel as if I've been letting myself ... (231 words)

I thought we were in a committed relationship, but he's been dating someone else while dating me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for 9 months now. All along I have considered this a serious, mognogamous relationship. I recently found out that until about a month ago he had been dating another woman as well. I was crushed, but he said until now he wasn't in a serious relationship. ... (165 words)

How can I start a love life with a past like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have something that has been affecting my life for a while and I am the type of guy who soposedly dosen't exist in the american media. I have the body and appearance of a jock with a brian and social behavior of a nerd to put it in high school terms but I ... (619 words)

I cheated on my wife a few weeks before we got married and now I am constantly worried she will find out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my wife a few weeks before we got married and now I am constantly worried she will find out. Im not proud of myself and would change it if I could but I cant. I didn't have sex with this other women, she gave me a handjob on my stag night dressed as a naughty ... (192 words)

I hate my job, I miss my boyfriend, I'm making myself miserable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, can I get some advice? :) I'm 22 and I recently finished a post-grad degree at University. I have a part time job (which I really dislike, but I took for the money) but very little money saved at the moment because a lot of it went towards University fees. I would re... (244 words)

How do I try and remain civil with this woman when I never want to see her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my current partner for almost 3 years, been living together for almost 2 years, known each other for a long time. We have a good relationship, he is my best friend and is very supportive. About 9 months ago I cut off contact with my family and we moved int... (487 words)

What do I do about this guy I really like him:?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do about this guy I really like him:(? I've been single for 2years. My ex boyfriend cheated, lied to me and dumped me. He really broke my heart cause he's the only guy I've felt so strongly for. I lost my self esteem. I use to be so bubbly and flirty but after... (219 words)

My sister expects us to spend the same amount of money on her boyfriend's Christmas present, that he has spent on us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for some advice on this seasonal problem I am having. My sister has a new boyfriend who is a bit flash, and the other day she came home and said that he has spent approx £40 each on Christmas presents for myself and my other younger sister. She is now expecting us ... (179 words)

Is revenge a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hii im a PG student... and i have ben tortured by my lecturer a lot.. she also encourages other lecturers to give less marks even though they give good marks for me... she never teaches well.. i dont attend her class fully... i still have attended 60 % of her class... still she ... (160 words)

I need to do something about this, but I don't know what. Is it too late to go to the authorities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Last winter I had a bad encounter with a club manager who almost raped me, I never called the police or anything because after all I WASN'T raped. I met him through a mutual work group, who is now out of business. He hires underaged girls to work at his club in exchange for ... (166 words)

Should I join a dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - im almost 25 yr and still well inexperience in the romance department. Til recently i really didnt have much of problem with. If fact i was glad to single, i love the single life. Go out dancing or having coffee with me girls. Notice some eye candy behind the bar flirt here n ... (241 words)

Is he a player if he's busy on the weekend?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just met a lovely guy, he's South American and seems like the perfect guy. He's sweet, attentive, funny, complimentary etc. We met only 3 days ago and slept together on the first night - there was so much chemistry and we were both pretty drunk. We then saw each ot... (247 words)

I don't enjoy sex, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 17, and I've had sex before and done other stuff too, but I don;t enjoy it. The thought of doing anything intimate like that with anyone makes me feel really ill. I don't know why it is, I will still get turned on, but I could never act on those feelings. is there so... (61 words)

Am I wrong to want to talk about our child? Would it help us to discuss it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have began seeing an old boyfriend this past year. He is older then me by a year and our first relationship lasted two years till i fell pregnant at 16. I had just started college and he was in his second year. We had an abortion as we felt too young and things a baby needed ... (258 words)

My girlfriend wants to reconnect, on a friendship level, with the ex who hurt her. I don't know how to feel about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's my situation. Just over a year and a half ago, I started dating an incredible girl. We get along great. Our relationship is everything I could ever want in every way. We have made it clear to each other that we want to get married once we're out of college. We love each ... (485 words)

Does my ex boyfriends friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Boyfriend broke up with me by just ignoring me. That was 3 weeks ago. He has a lot of friend who work at a store near my house, I went and one of his friends came up to me and asked me how I was and what happened. So I told him and his friend was like "I am so sorry I didn'... (168 words)

I'm in love with my mistress, but can't divorce my wife.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I just registered to this forum after googling to see if I'm alone. I am in the same situation as many of you and I'm completely devastated. I have been married for six years and have two wonderful kids with my wife. over the past six years, my marriage has gro... (1025 words)

Is it too early for me to be honest to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am a newbie at relationship things. There's this girl that i feel attracted to in my class. I have only started talking to her since 3 days and it's the last day that I'll be seeing her. I KNOW, i chickened out too much, but i don't think it's already too late. So I w... (195 words)

I can't accept that I'm not meant to be with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4400 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a lesbian and got out of a 4 month relationship recently. I know its not a long time in the overall scheme of things but I liked this girl for ages and never acted on it because I (and everyone around her) thought she was straight. We were in the same group of friends and ... (266 words)

I am at a complete loss about my sexuality. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a male just under 25 and I am completely at a loss to who I am as for the past couple of years I have been confused about my sexuality. I don't know if I am Straight, Gay, Bi or simply going through a phase or perhaps suffering from hocd. I must confess that I have been... (708 words)

I have no idea what to think. I love her and want her back totally. I'm just confused. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Off and on Girlfriend of 2yrs. I'm 29 and shes 27. Kinda broke up with me. She says she doesn't know what she wants or If she can handle a relationship. She is going to focus on her two kids for now. She said she feels a disconnect between me and her but its her fault because ... (382 words)

Should I pursue what is almost certainly the same dead end, or should I cut my losses and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - shit... where do i start. well, long-time listener, first-time caller. had (and divulged) a long-time crush on 2 of my friends... didn't go so well. we didn't see each other for a few months after that, but kept the door open to remain friends. and by the time a year had ... (162 words)

I've always tried to avoid girls who didn't know their sexuality, but now I'm interested in one who thought she was straight until she met me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't know if there's a lot of people on this site that can give me any experience-based advice on this particular issue, but it's worth a shot. and thanks in advance. i'm gay and have been out about it for over ten years now. with that being said, there's a girl that just ... (291 words)

Am I overreacting? I don't want to come across as being self-obsessed/arrogant, but I do not like this guy nor would I ever date him in a million years.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy who is (in my eyes) just a friend. I honestly could never like him as anything more than that. He just isn't my type at all, romantically. Well, in early November, he broke up with his girlfriend (one of my close friends) just out of the blue (none of us saw i... (300 words)

Do I have a right to be upset about my husband not wanting to delete pictures of him and his ex together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband and have been married for almost 2 years and he knows that i have a jealous problem, (no bad) but today he was looking at old pics and he went by a pic of him in his ex's room and in back ground there were pics of her and him together, i asked him to delete it but ... (104 words)

I want to know who my boyfriend's ex FWB is, and he wont tell me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of almost two years came out and told me recently he had a few things he needed to tell me one of them which was he went on two separate occasions with a woman he basically had as a "sex buddy" prior to our relationship. He says they basically met to have sex but ... (158 words)

Why did this girl look irritated when I looked at her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away like she didn't want to make eye contact ... (149 words)

Is there any way I can help repair the relationship between my wife and her older sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My beautiful lovely wife and I have been happily married for 3 years now and have 9 month old baby son. Everything is good accept for one thing. A few years ago she did a really stupid thing, she slept with her older sister's fiancé and ran off with him but later on he ended ... (163 words)

How can I deal with his insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

5 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently started seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and when we are together things are amazing! We have moved really quickly- but have agreed anythinst sexual is too far for this stage. The only thing is, he is INCREDIBLY insecure. He openly admitted this from ... (171 words)