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26-29,
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writes:So i go to school with his boy that i like. We've been talking for awhile now. When he texts me he calls me babe and bae. He also says that im beautiful. He told me he wants to be with me. I wanna be with him too. But he told me he wants to kiss me but im not ready for that i wanna take baby steps first. I told him in the past i was tooken advantage. He told me that he would never do that and when i say no that means no. i'm just kinda nervous that if i take to long that he won't be interested in me anymore. but if i just jump right into it it won't be worth it. He makes me feel special, like I've never felt before! Please help!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 December 2012):
 If a boy loses interest in you because you want to take the physical aspects of your relationship slowly, then he was not the right boy for you.
Words mean nothing.... actions are what matter more. Look at what he does not what he says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2012): I agree with @Honeypie.
Those cute cute words you quoted mean absolutely nothing, especially if only written in a text.
If the guy is worth it, he'll wait for you. Don't even think about doing something to "prevent him losing interest". If he loves you like he says he does, he will be interested anyway. Don't you ever do something you're uncomfortable with.
Summary: TAKE YOUR TIME.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 December 2012):
 If he can not respect you wanting to go slow he is NOT for you. NEVER do things you aren't ready for in order to "keep" a guy - if he can't stick around for YOU, he just isn't worth it.
And calling you babe and other "cutesy" nicknames doesn't mean he LOVES you. So don't fall for that part. It's a term of endearment and for some guys it's just easier then having to remember your name.
IF you want to go slow, let him know, if he's a keeper he will go slow with you. That simple.
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