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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I persist? Or break up? We argue quite frequently.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I would appreciate some good advice. I got into a relationship extremely quickly a couple of months ago, in hindsight I wish it wasn't as sudden as we didn't have time to get to know each other better. We argue quite frequently and have a few problems, I real... (196 words)

My Bf has been so very unkind to me. Should I even bother texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf texted me at 9 am I responded but i didn't realize my message didnt go through So i texted him again 8 hours later saying, "hey babe sorry i didnt realize my message didnt go through" He was just like, "I'm going to bed" So i said, "If you're upset why didn't you just ... (150 words)

Sure I have not visited her. But I need directions. How much more effort should I put into this friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Not a love question, just friendship. I have this girlfriend that we are not that terribly close, though enough to be friends for the past 4 years. She is the most unreliable person on Earth, I think. It's impossible to make any decisions with her, she never knows her ... (798 words)

Is this normal male behaviour or is he being overly possessive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are on holiday, staying in my friend's apartment. She and her boyfriend live here. My boyfriend got upset with me last night as I came to bed in my pyjamas and he said the top was see-through and he hoped I wasn't letting N (the other guy living here) see me ... (195 words)

What do I do after breaking my ex's heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke my ex's heart by completely neglecting her, not being there for her for two weeks, because I suspected she was seeing someone else. On top of that, by the end of the two weeks I sent her a completely unreasonable message where I was venting off my frustrations. This... (124 words)

Best friend. Should I tell her about her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well im starting to be really good friends with this girl at my school and she has a boyfriend for about 2 years. When i walk in the hallways at school he is always smiling and staring at me when she isn't looking, ill confess he is cute but i was at a basketball game and ... (109 words)

Pregnant? Condom slipped a bit and I'm worried about the chances of pregnancy. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was having sex with a condom on and the i were on top.I ejaculated into the condom while still inside of her and we continued for few minutes. Condom doesn't break and slipped down maybe 0,2 -0,5 inch . Is there higher chance of pregnancy?... (46 words)

I'm pregnant after a one-night-stand. How do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - 4 weeks ago I had a one-night-stand with this guy. A couple of days ago I took a test. I'm definitely pregnant. I want to tell him but I don't know how to. The major problem is he is in a relationship and his girlfriend doesn't know we had unprotected sex- or even sex for that ... (101 words)

Should I force myself to get married to feel like I amount to something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and never had a relationship. My grandmother is picking on me constantly because I'm not married and she was at my age. She says that the reason why I'm not married is because I'm ugly,I'm worthless,I'm fat, ETC. And she always brings it up. She also says that ... (153 words)

Stupid or not? Can having too much sex make you gain weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey all.. Im gonna keep this short..im a black girl and i was wondering if maybe a myth i heard could be right...the myth is HavIng too much sex can make you gain weight'?? I disagree.. I think its stupid. But its going around at the moment... (50 words)

I'm so confused with my crush. Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this really big crush on this guy for about a year. We belong to a music organization in our college and he gives me free violin lessons twice a week for about 4 months now. Just last night, I finally had the courage to tell him how i feel. We were in a school event then ... (652 words)

Is he burdened by the fact that I like him? Does he feel responsible? Or does he have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've been in love for a long long time now. And he knows, he doesn't feel the same, which is cool, I'm happy if he's happy. A couple years back, I kissed him. He kissed me back but I was naive enough to think that he liked me back. I am getting hints that me liking him is... (504 words)

Straight out of a Soap Opera. Questions about her cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, recently I posted about how my girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me with one of her co-workers. I didn't understand fully why everything happened. There were so many unanswered questions. I didn't understand why she wouldn't just tell me, leave honorably when i gave her ... (424 words)

Girlfriend is REALLY almost TOO skinny, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts :) I'm having this problem. My girlfriend is really, really, REALLY skinny. Like, I can see her bones, skinny. She is sometimes really insecure about the way she looks and how much she weighs, which always seems crazy to me because I'm bigger than her. But, reg... (172 words)

Has anyone had a married person leave their partner for them and how did it work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone (or do you know anyone) that has been in a relationship with someone whom is married/living with a partner and that person has actually left their partner to be with you? If so, did the relationship work out or did you constantly doubt if they would have an affair ... (59 words)

How do you go from being friends to friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you go from being friends to friends with benefits. Heres the short version. I Met a guy december last year, foundnout gis nane and added him on fb. I basically told him straight out i only wanted sex and he did to. Well we.flirted (quite heavily in detail) for four ... (199 words)

The stranger. What does he want? Need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone,i'm a girl and i'm 17 years old,i saw this guy of 31 years old in a shop near to my school about 3months,he was totally a stranger for me, but i liked him a lot, anyway we were seeing each other everyday but we didn't talk ,after that i add him on facebook and he ... (204 words)

Guilt over my drunken mistake is eating me up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A little while ago I cheated on my boyfriend when I was very very drunk. It was a stupid thing to do and I regret it so so much. It meant absolutely nothing to me so I decided not to tell my boyfriend about it. However the guilt is eating me up, what can i do?!... (56 words)

I've been feeling smothered by a relationship. If I have to break it off, how can I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a relationship and wanted to spend some time alone with myself to learn more about me. Maybe 2 months later I met a guy who was cute, funny, and really smart. In my past relationship I was dating a girl (I am a girl too) and it was my first real relation... (332 words)

We have a 7 month old son together. How do I turn my broken relationship around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I turn my relationship around? I really need some positive advice right now. My boyfriend and I have a 7 month old son now and have been together for two years. I grew up in a very abusive environment and he grew up on the streets. When we first got together... (313 words)

What will happen when I am no longer in my twenties? Will he break-up with me when I get old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, First off i want to thank you for taking a look at my question. I am a 22 year old senior in college, and my boyfriend recently turned 36. We have been dating for nearly one year. Recently we have been talking about getting married. He is even planning to ... (458 words)

Am I losing her already? She was so grumpy today. It is unlike her. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating a girl for a couple months now. She is incredible and I am so lucky to know her. We became exclusive a month ago and have been loving it. On Wednesday we spent the whole day together and she held my hand and was sad to say goodbye that night even though w... (150 words)

Masturbating as a teen: Is that likely to negatively affect the sex in a committed marriage later on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - When females masturbate at a young age, can it affect their marriage bond later when they have sex with a spouse have sex? I am 17 years old, and I have been in a relationship that has been sexually active. The problem was, none of my past boyfriends have had the ability ... (159 words)

Why did she bleed when we had sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - please ladies, help with this one. i am extremely curious about something that happened to me. i met this wonderful girl and we became roommates, we were only aqcuitences before, but once we were together the first week i asked her out to the movies with me and the conexion was ... (381 words)

Any insights please? Is he trying to let me down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Confused. I have been seeing a guy for a few months, trying not to get to serious about it as i wasnt sure if it would go anywhere. I'd be happy to explore it however, if it did. Things were going well, or so i thought. He left the UK for home on the continent for a mont... (423 words)

Did I get my Gf pregnant in the last four weeks? In view of past medical advice I received?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together 9 weeks and I have major medical problems since I was born, and a few years back I was told that because of my operations there would be a very low chance of me having children as I can't ever ejaculate. During my partners past pregnanc... (94 words)

Sometimes I feel I must be the loneliest person in the whole world, and I can't see it ever getting better.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 and I've never had a girlfriend, or really had a woman show romantic or sexual interest in me my entire life. I've struggled hard to understand why. I'm a perfectly pleasant person. I used to go out a lot and I go on dates so it's not that I don't meet women, it's that ... (275 words)

Do I sign up with him or ignore him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? Please help. I'm upset:(? This guy works at my gym and he has been staring at me for months now. He's always watching me and even watch me through the doors when I'm in a gym class. Anyway, I went up to him yesterday and asked him a question. We ... (185 words)

How can I put a stop to my ex bad-mouthing about my now Gf? It hurts my Gf so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

15 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and soon to be wife puts herself down and its all because of me. well not exactly me its because of my past and her past. before her i had a girlfriend and our relationship did not work out and during those times i was falling in love with my current girlfrie... (332 words)