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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's the father of our baby on the way. Was wrong for not trusting him? And what can I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4389 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my boyfriend of two years who I'm currently pregnant by, used to cheat on me . I had got past it and forgave him , he promised he wouldn't do it again and he just wanted to be with me and help with our baby . I believed it , well this morning I was using his phone ... (208 words)

I thought he liked me, but he hasn't used my number.?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy at work . There's a guy at work, I emailed him my number on pretence of work , we usually have a hot and cold relationship. He has his other colleagues numbers and talks to them. But hasn't called or texted me with my number even when he actually needed s... (67 words)

Could his actions be saying he is into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he into me? This man in general does come across as a grumpy so and so but he is lovely! He usually throws things at me, i sit two desks in front of him. Or he purposely trys to scare me, problem being i will smack his arm when he does so. He will then say i hit hi... (221 words)

Is keeping things from exes and stealing panties normal for a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my bf 8 months now. Everything felt perfect at first, like it was meant to be and everyone still says so, but I feel uncomfortable with him lately. He keeps presents and cards saying "I love you" etc. from past girlfriends. He even displays them, keeping st... (258 words)

LDR but I want to have sex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend,i truly love him and he luvs me too,we are both virgins and we're planing to spend our life together...the problem is that we are in a long distant relation,recently i started feeling very horny,cant keep ma mind off sex,i really want to have sex with him ... (112 words)

First date and he wants to kiss me. Not sure how I feel about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - am 17 and on saturday am going to my first ever date this guy is older than me his 22 and we going to the cinema. he wants to kiss me and I have never kissed a guy before (any advice will be appreciated) I dont know what to do especially with toungs. and am not sure if I really ... (82 words)

Should I try to look for a meaningful relationship that goes beyond just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

14 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to begin and I apologize in advance if this sounds like a long-winded whinge fest as opposed to a real question. That said, I really do need to talk to someone, so here goes. About a year ago or so, I developed feelings of the romantic sort for this girl... (663 words)

Why does your partners use of pornography bother you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does your partner's use of porn bother you? My reason is because they are getting off on someone that isn't me, I have noticed alot of other women saying it is disgusting and degrading that doesn't bother me as much as the fact it is a woman that isn't me. ... (51 words)

How do I keep from being angry when she gives attention to our friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - The relationship I am currently in is going great, things are fine, but I am starting to feel really possesive over her and get really jealous sometimes because of all the attention she gives to one of our friends, I don't want to ruin this so I don't say anything, I would ... (111 words)

How can I keep up from arguing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I meet my bf 6 months ago and we started off strong and fast, but then 3 months ago (3months into a relationship) the honey moon phase was over due to an incident with an ex of his that popped our buble of happiness in a big way. And so the arguing began ( the incident ... (271 words)

Thoughts regarding retrograde jealousy....is a person's past really not any of the current relationship's business?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

14 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - An observation from a straight guy: I CALL BULLSHIT on people who claim that lovers are not accountable for how their sexual past is non of their current relationship's business. What if you only ever had one girlfriend, and before she met you she slept around willy nilly... (599 words)

How does my friend really feel about me? He rejected me and moved in with his girlfriend, but cant say if he still has feelings for me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - im a bit worried as to how this will get read so please help if you can ok here goes, during the summer i got close to my best friend. we never had sex but kissed a few times. hes in a problematic situation with his girlfriend of 5 years so what happened wasnt planned but due ... (209 words)

Will my boyfriend be the only thing I lose if I end this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years, and because of this, most of my closest friends are also his closest friends. For the first few months of our relationship, my feelings for him were very intense, and I actually left another guy to be with h... (582 words)

Will I feel this pain every time I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Am a girl age 17 I tried to sleep with my boyfriend for the 1st time in my life, I was a virgin n when we were starting I couldn't stand for the pain, does that mean always when I try to have sex I will feel the same pain?... (50 words)

He tells me not to worry about his cheating, because he loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is cheating and anytime I talk about it,he goes like..he knows he is doing the wrong thing but the fact that he loves me should be enough reason for me not to worry....does he really loves me,if he does why would he cheats...am soo confused don't know if I should ... (57 words)

How do I ask her for her number without getting a bad reaction from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I like a girl who is a bit traditional and conservative. I see this girl in the gym almost everyday. For about 6 months or so, I barely spoke to her because she seemed a very quiet type who didn't speak to anyone. About two weeks ago, I managed to gather some coura... (255 words)

Stay with my married lover or breakup? He says he doesn't want to lose me and he loves me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age - Hi All I really need some advice about a married man i have been seeing for years,we are now both in our sixties. I have tried dozens of times to end the relationship but he doesn't want me to and i am truly in love with him,he tells me he loves me and in his way i think he d... (372 words)

She makes me feel bad and I don't know what to do. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend will get mad at me if I'm not available to hang out. She gives me the silent treatment. When she finally does respond, she'll ask if I'm mad at her. I don't understand because she was mad at me and then is asking if I'm mad at her. When we see each other, she i... (182 words)

After twenty odd years, I still love this lady with all my heart and yet she won't leave her husband for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (M)

age - Twenty some years ago I met this lady and we dated for four months and due to circumstance beyond our control I had to leave her because of my job. During these four months our relationship became very intense and we fell in love with each other. All these years I have never ... (638 words)

Is it cultural thing that guys in the USA like to make girls wait because it's supposed to be a power play/dominant thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a date with an American guy next week (I live in the US by the way), what should I expect? Dating looks so coded here... We met on a casual hang out (with common friends) a few days ago and i notice that he was very attracted to me. After that, we have been exchan... (174 words)

I'm tired of being rejected by girls. What is it that I'm doing wrong with girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

14 December 2012 (M) age 36-40 - girls, a question for you... why is it that girls can complain so much about things guys don't do, but then when a guy does those very things girls cry? i have been in four relationships, still in the fourth one as of now. but every girl i've been with seems to eventually... (658 words)

He thought we were on a break but I thought we were broken up and I had sex with someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

14 December 2012 (F) age 30-35 - About five months ago, my boyfriend of two years and I had his a very, very rough patch. We couldn't speak, never truly "clicked" like we used to, but still, both of us were committed. One night, we both broke down crying over the rough patch, and (I thought) it was over, ... (248 words)

What should I do? My best friend stole the girl who has been the love of my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So, about a year ago I had a huge crush on this girl. I told her and she told me to try to get over her. Later in that school year, she told me and a friend of mine that she had feelings for us. My friend didn't really care, but I was extremely happy, though she had a boyfri... (264 words)

Do I have feelings for my co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

14 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I've been having intimate dreams about my co-worker. He's 29. I'm almost 22. In these dreams, we kiss or have sex. It's so confusing to me because in real life, I only see him as a friend. At least, I think I do. My other co-workers believe that I have a crush on him ... (146 words)