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Archived questions from: 25 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does he need to look at pictures of naked and semi-naked women? Is it because I've lost fullness in my breasts since breast feeding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would my partner look at naked/ semi naked pictures of women? Porn I can understand, but I guess he's looking at the naked women cos I lost the fullness of my breasts due to breast feeding. I was never big anyway. I don't feel the need to look at pics of other men so why d... (62 words)

When does he put me first as part of his plans and consider me? I seem to be last on his priority list

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were planning a trip to a large city for New Years. Originally, we were going to take his daughter to a special destination (to delight her) but she's not coming (another story). So, we then said we'd just go ourselves but then he heard his grandpar... (528 words)

Three months of dating. And still have not met his family and friends? Is this normal? Or weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy and I have been together for 3 months now and I haven't met any of his friends or family nor him mine... Am I jumping the gun to soon or does that seem weird to anyone else, I don't even think his friends know about me but he will talk to me About his friends... Am I ju... (63 words)

Why is my Bf so protective about his phone, hardly talks about his family, and is very guarded about his life? Yet does seem to care about me,

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now but only really official I guess for a month. I'm just trying to decide if things are going anywhere with this relationship. He is very weird about his phone and refuses to leave it in the room alone with me.... (236 words)

Early days dating her. But I think I've revealed too much about me too soon. How do I stop a slide into the 'friend zone?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this woman for just over a month and I'm really into her for so many reasons. The problem is I have almost turned mushy or wussy by being too open about my emotions, my past, and what I like about her. I feel embarrassed and worried that I may be putting m... (187 words)

I'd like to meet a virgin woman but where and how can I do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So after coming on this site off and on every few months for nearly 4 years now (mostly for affirmation that I wasn't the only soul in my predicament), I have finally decided to post about my situation and seek help. So anyway, my story is similar to so many others I've come... (1190 words)

I ditched my friend for a date and now I feel guilty. How do I get my friend back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i did something so stupid. i went on a date with someone who is visiting from another town and is only here for a week. he was a complete gentleman, didn't do anything inappropriate. we went to eat dinner and then drinks but now i'm thinking why i even went, he is going to ... (146 words)

Do I stay with my boyfriend or go with the friend that I am wildly attracted to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been friends with this guy J for 2-3 years. We were always attached to other people and were always just friends. J is leaving for another state so we met up for lunch, the first time ever we met one on one and the chemistry was so unbelievable that by the time we left it ... (592 words)

Was there more to his friendship with this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am looking for advice on my relationship. My partner of 8 years admitted to being friends with a female co-worker when he told me for 2 years he did not speak to her. I got very angry and upset over the deceit. He swore nothing ever happened between them and the he never ... (201 words)

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediately when I heard about that. It happen... (199 words)

What can I do? I love my wife. I miss her. It's no no no too often. It hurts.There is no romance or passion in our marriage

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - To start with I know woman like to say stuff like "your wife just needs you to be more affectionate" on these types of forums when men say they have this problem. This isn’t one of those situations at all...let me explain. Me and my wife have been married for 2 years now and ... (642 words)

Once our classes resume how should I act around my Crush? Considering I already told him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this boy for almost a year now but we only became friends last June. Last week,I finally told him how I feel. His response was obscure because he didn't say anything about liking or not liking me but he told stories about past girls and a gay guy who told... (320 words)

Do I let him go? I am now drug free. Trying to get my baby back. But my Bf talks the talk but still does drugs.Will he ever wake up and get drug free?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my issue .I met a man a few months ago and things were great. Shortly there after he became a drug addict, shooting drugs all the time. Selling everything. Stealing. I cared about him so much, but being a former drug addict (I quit 5 months ago, trying to get my son b... (191 words)

FWB offends me. Is FWB just a cheap way to get easy sex instead of paying a sex worker? Does FWB stand for anything else other than sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - FWB I don't really like this game because what if the other person start to have feelings? To me it seems to be basically about money. Where does one draw the line and say this is not what I want? I really think FWB is a trade off for free sex. I could be wrong but to me it's ... (78 words)

Am I being a complete fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age - I've been in a relationship with a man I'm very much in love with for the past 2-1/2 years. We are both going through a separation however he's a very kind hearted person one of the reasons I love him so much but he also enables his wife quite a bit such as doing many chores ... (175 words)

I feel like I created a monster! I want my old boyfriend back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and I have been with my boyfriend since senior year of high school. My boyfriend is 20 too. So when we first met I paid him no attention. Then, he would sit next to me everyday, follow me to my classes, get stuff for me, he was so nice to me. So,I started to like him. ... (491 words)

Our marriage deteriorates day by day. Sex is almost non-existent. Problems beset us. What can you advise? Because we need help now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having difficulty sleeping with my husband. We have been together for the past 6 years but our relationship seems to deteriorate by the day. In the beginning we couldn’t keep our hands off each other but these days the very thought of being intimate with him makes ... (662 words)

Should I just move on? He seems to prefer that I have a crush on him. But he doesn't suggest we should date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, and Merry Christmas. I was just up late and over thinking a situation that maybe someone could help me with? So about 8 months ago, I told my best friend I liked him in a romantic way. He wanted to keep our friendship so we decided to stay friends. After I... (565 words)

Why does he still keep contacting me? He knows I care. But refuses to give me a commitment to be exclusive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently ended things with a guy I was seeing because he wasn't ready to see me exclusively. It was hard at first, I really did like him, but with time ill be ok. The thing is though even though we are not together anymore, he will still text me. Why is he doing that? why ... (141 words)

Why is this guy ignoring me? We had a great 3 days together. I know he has a Gf.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

25 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a great time with a guy for 3 continous days. It wasn't supposed to be a date but we met for a lunch at 1pm....and the date ended up 3am! It was not supposed to be a date as he was leaving the country and he already has a girlfriend. However, by the 3rd date, it bec... (149 words)