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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Tomorrow I've got a date scheduled with a guy who is a friend. At first it was to keep him company as his girlfriend dumped him but we have been talking more and it seems like he is hitting on me and being really flirty. I mean we used to kinda date but then he left me for another girl but I've moved on from that and we are still close. The thing is I would get back together with him but I don't want to feel like a rebound especially as it was only the other we he got dumped. I'm just not sure how I should play it tomorrow, should I make it like a day out with a friend or like a date ??? I don't know what to do
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 April 2012):
 Friends, and , as matter of fact, tbh in your shoes I would not have been so prompt and eager to run to his rescue . You could have done your "supportive friend " bit by phone or e-mail, rather than jumping at the chance of this date. I think he DOES want to use you as a rebound. The guy gor dumped few days ago, and first thing he does, he fixes a date with another girl who he used sort of dating before ?... That spells rebound to me,- or ego boost. Ot wanting to show his ex : nyah nyah , I don't care.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (5 April 2012):
 Friend. Don't come on too strong, make him work to get you back, or you will be just like a rebound. He may be coming back for an ego boost after being dumped. Don't let him use you like that. Keep it casual.
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