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writes:I know I shouldn't have done this but i went on my boyfriends facebook because I had a gut feeling he was taking to someone. He's never had a steady girlfriend and once he met me he stopped going out partying like he used to and actually fell in love. But i went on his facebook a few days ago and i just recently saw some messages he was writing to about 3 girls all at the same time the same day. It was obvious he was flirting. I know he doesn't go see them nor does he hang out with them but he was flirting! I asked him if he's been tlking to someone and he said no (of course) and tomorrow night i'm going to tell him that i know about it and i want to end it because i have a feeling that if it happens once, it'll happen again. especially since he had no problem lying to my face after i asked him the same question multiple times. he's a nice guy but wow i didn't expect that. i have a feeling he will come running back begging for me to take him back, because that happens in every story and now i don't know if i give him a second chance or not?....should i just end it? Or is a second chance a good idea?
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (13 April 2012):
in a word -yes.
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reader, landomando +, writes (5 April 2012):
My ex GF did the same thing you are doing. You cant f**k the computer! Hes not cheating. Its the internet and hes talking to another girl. Hes just talking and maybe his talking is flirty to you but maybe thats just how he talks. My point is your looking for stuff to incriminate him = No Trust!!!! No trust= No relationship! Break up with him and end it for good. or get over it and stop looking through his stuff! You cant trust someone why get back together with them/be with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2012): come on..lighten up. u shouldn't have gone thru his facebook page without telling him, in the first place. u r sure he's not seeing or planning to see them..and we all flirt, don't we? i'd say tell him u r sorry for going thru his fb page and kiss n make up. i don't think it's anything u should worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2012): I would print out the convo, but don't bring it out unless he denies it. Tell him you don't appreciate it nor do want it to continue because its disrespectful and there is not such thing as "innocent flirting".
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