He sleeps, goes out with his friends, basically ignores me, is his attraction to me gone?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. He works nights so he sleeps most of the day. I understand him being tired all of the time. Lately, he has been getting up for an hour then goes back to bed and sleeps until he goes to work. This has been going on for a little over a month. During his days off, he gets up at noon, which is real early for him, goes to his friends and comes late at night. I feel like I don't even exist to him anymore. I have tried talking to him about it, he just says... I don't know what do? I don't know what's going on, I am lonely and lost. I don't mind him hanging out with friends, but the whole entire day and most of the night? I don't mind being alone at times but I do like to have some time with him to. What is this about? What do I do? Is this his way of pushing me away?

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