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I'm disinterested in the relationship and wonder if I should end things?

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Question - (5 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been in a relationship for about two months, but am really struggling with commitment. It isn't that I've cheated or anything, but am disinterested in my relationship and think to an extent it's because I'm scared of actually having to be part of something with someone else, as opposed to being alone.

This has the potential to be my first serious relationship and I'm picking it apart so basically I'm not sure if I should break it off and sort myself out or stick it out? I'm finding flaws in the tiniest things and am not 100% sure if my boyfriend has what I'm looking for in another person.

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A female reader, daniellelovesu United States +, writes (5 April 2012):

I defiantely recommend you break up with him as you are no longer attracted xx love danielle ;)

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A male reader, Replacement Canada +, writes (5 April 2012):

Replacement agony auntEnding a relationship that isn't working for you isn't a sign of weakness or failure, so if you don't feel for him it's kinder to break it off early on rather than letting him get too attached. You're young, commitment is not required. Wait until you feel ready.

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