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30-35,
*ulia455646
writes:Ok hello everyone.Basically about 3 years ago , i became pen pals with a man from France . We talked for a year about who we were and our cultures etc . We then began to send postcards and i felt like a puppy waiting to get my postcard i was so excited to think wow my pen pal a postcard wow :D Next we began to send gifts . I'd send Irish little things he'd send french and the whole experience was the best fun ever . We made friends on facebook etc and about 1.5 years later we thought lets meet. That summer i went to Paris to meet him for a 4 day trip he had a girlfriend at the time i knew because he told me he had it our mails and i met her i also had a boyfriend but im no longer with him. For the 4 days i honestly had a blast he showed me ever angle of Paris almost and even showed me an irish bar. I then did my share and showed him Ireland which again was brilliant , after our trips where done we'd mail at least twice every day . He then broke up with his girlfriend 6 months after Ireland . Now a year on i have met him 4 times between trips to france and ireland and i am falling for him deeply but i don't want too over our age difference he is 45 whilst im 22 but i am and even the first time i met him i felt the exact same . When i meet him i get this little feeling in my stomach and that i can hardly talk to him when he asks me a question i actually have to draw my breath its crazy how im feeling. The last time we met was feb in ireland . He invited me to come for 2 weeks this summer . We are just friends nothing has happened between us other than a hug or a kiss on the cheek but i can't help being almost in love with him . Hes so caring and hes just be amazing help with everything and has always put himself out to help me in either paris and Ireland. We joke we talk its like a best friend . What do i do ? WHY do i feel like this even though hes miles from me ??? am i falling??? or is this feeling nothing??
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reader, JaneSmith2012  +, writes (8 April 2012):
 you dont , particularly seem to be having a problem here save the distance and the age gap . If u think you can manage a long distance relationship relationship then this issue can be easily sorted out ...Regarding your age difference you are all of 22 years old while the man being 45 has seen much more in life.You have also stated that you have been in contact with this guy since you were 19. I recommend that u get to know more people before getting into this relationship .Else its possible that you might regret not being with somebody your age with whom you can easily relate to. The man's perception of this relationship will be different from yours considering his age and what he's exactly expecting from you. Besides do you know for sure if the reason he broke up with his girlfriend is because he wanted to pursue a relationship with you ?? If you dont know for sure then better treat him as the pen pal that he already he is ..
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