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writes: I am a 15 year old girl but I'm not sure on my sexuality. I usually get more aroused when I think about lesbians kissing but I feel more attracted to boys. When I masturbate I often do orgasm a lot quick when I'm watching or thinking about girl on girl. However I get strong feelings towards men aswell. I usually go on websites and talk to girls but I feel disgusted in myself, I want a relationship with a girl but I don't know whether I am gay, straight or bisexual..answers would be much appreciated :-)
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reader, hojo1114 +, writes (6 April 2012):
hey i think you might be bi but maybe if you go out with a girl for a while you will know then weather you like girls more than boys or boys more than girs. dont worry about it to much im 15 and im gay and i can say that it is easy to just find out in your own time than worry about what you are.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 April 2012):
sound normal to me...
I am bi.
I did not deal with it till I was much older like 30
stop trying to slot yourself as gay straight or bi...
you could be pansexual... so many options.
how about you just relax and go with the flow and what excites you excites you...
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (5 April 2012):
Hey, you are just a normal young person of your age.
You dont need to worry about labelling yourself with a title such as gay or bi, instead just get to know yourself better, date whoever you feel comfortable with and other time you will see who you do and dont like dating.
Nothing to panic about, you will see in time.
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reader, agonyauntsanonymous +, writes (5 April 2012):
That is actually very normal at your age. Here is one way to think about it. Do you think you could kiss a girl? Then do you think you could make out with a girl and go further still? Next do you think you could also do any of it with a man? Next do you imagine you would enjoy it? The only way to really know what you want is to persue it. I am not saying however that you need to go look for people to have sex with! No. I am simply saying if you meet someone you are interested in and like them as a person then persue it. But it wouldnt be a bad thing to wait until you are older. For now just think about it. Stew it over. And be honest about it. You arent sure about your sexuallity. I hope that helps and good luck. I went through the exact same thing at your age until i was 18, and even posted a question similar to yours on this site. So trust me when i say you arent the only one.
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